>>41283877
The first step is to know yourself and your motivations, does your sexual desire exist to fill a void in your life or do you geniunely feel that you would find happiness and enjoyment from sexual union? Second even if you don't have "the looks" some women respect presentation, it's not always about how you look but how you present youself, maybe wear a fancy suit jacket with some high grade cologne, possibly even wear some dress shoes. Third, one of the most important factors in sexual attraction is related to the word attraction itself, magnetism, even without "the looks", some women are inexplicably drawn to sexual magnetism. Make sure that you show your intellectual talents and knowledge, within reason and respecting the conversation maybe even tell her about something she doesn't know to catch her interest, that way you can use the magnetism of conversation to attract her. Fourth, be cognizent of possible STD's and make sure you use some sort of protection or otherwise be ready to pay the child support bills. Fifth, don't see your failures as a point of shame but rather lessons to improve yourself, good luck anon may the force be with you. :)
