Thread 41333834

would explain why i am always single despite my best efforts

>>41333834 (OP)
While I have met a handful, I don't meet many old people who insist they have a soulmate. Even the ones who do are frequently just coping about somebody they met late in life and never got to be young with. Because of that, I'd say
>Soul mates don't exist
Or
>Soul mates do exist but not everybody has one, for whatever reason
Or
>Soul mates do exist for everyone but some outside force actively prevents people from finding them
Doesn't seem like a soulmate is something you can meaningfully pursue in any case.

>>41333834 (OP)
The concept of soulmates is just one of the many sugar-coated lies humanity likes to tell itself to help cope with reality.

>>41333834 (OP)
>just coping about somebody they met late in life and never got to be young with
don't know what to think about soulmates and I don't care much but this part kind of hurts me, sometimes it's difficult to get over regrets and shit like that...

>>41334134
It was definitely snarky but wasn't intended to be hurtful. I'm not quite sure how you mean here but I'd say the part I'm critizing is the lack of self-honesty. "I wish I had met this person earlier in life. We would have had SO much fun together" is a lot more respectable to me than "I suddenly believe in soul mates because I'm really just too old to have met a mate in the other sense". I was only being pointed with people who do the second.

>>41334175
Nah I ain't saying I took anything personally obviously we're just too anons. I get what you're saying.
>I wish I had met this person earlier in life. We would have had SO much fun together
that's more or less what I feel, it makes a bit sad, not that it matters because I lost the person anyway.
Either way, if there is such a thing as soulmates or twin flames or whatever, it's nice to think about but it's out of one's control completely, so not worth thinking too much about it.

>>41333834 (OP)
Your soul mate is sucking someone else’s cock

>>41333834 (OP)
I’m tempted to Bella they exist but that it would be best to meet them in the afterlife than on earth. Of course this just could be my loneliness talking.

>>41333834 (OP)
I’m tempted to say they exist and are probably best met in the afterlife but that’s probably just my loneliness talking.

>>41333834 (OP)
i'm just gonna ask you one question, look around you and tell me what do you think, is soulmate a real thing??

>>41333834 (OP)
I think it is real but I also set my standards too high so dating isn’t enjoyable.

>>41335173
Yeah, probably.

>>41333834 (OP)
its real, my karmic soulmate in this realm and timeline is the daughter of billionaire jew hedge fund cfo. She's a marxists socialist in socal. I met her and knew it was her. It was really intense, but she's also a narcissistic woman. So when I came along she self sabotaged the relationship. A lot of the mexican women we worked with just knew it too. They told me she loved me ,but just couldn't show it. She had a boyfriend. 25 years old and at the time we met and strange things happened when we were together. Like telepathic communication, eye gazing into each other souls, I could feel her pain. I just wished she would have told me before, I did Ayahuasca. Ayahuasca is what revealed to me our ancestry past life. We were together before in another timeline and I died. It was forbidden love, where she was married to someone else, and was her lover. I went to war, it was in the middle east, I saw desserts and pyramids. I was killed by an enemy army and I could see her crying in secrecy. It was like repeating process, it felt like god put us back here, once more, to make amends. But mother ayahuasca also told me I was better at peace without her, because she's not mature and ready to be your wife.

When I got back, I just couldn't talk or be around her. She was your typical femcel, needing constant attention from everyone, and manipulative gaslighting. I couldn't fix that and at the same time not my responsibility to do so. I really did love her and will probably not love another like her. We never got sexually intimate, and when we tried, she would have a panic attack and start crying. So When I broke it up with her, I spiraled into a deviant sex life. I felt sexual-physically empty, and searched for her intimacy in every girl I had sex with after her. I fantasized about her every time, wishing it was her I was making love to. 5 years have gone past, and even though she still stupid, I still love her. But I choose my piece at the end.

>>41335911
There's your answer from kek

>>41335911
How do if you are really talking to your soul mate and not a demon? I don’t mean to sound insulting because I’m in a similar scenario with my soulmate. I feel like they throw me signs like their name cropping up both in the internet and irl and it’s not a common one. When it first started it was online so I thought I was being spied on and then it was brought up more in real life conversation and tbf I did ask them to send me sign in this realm if they can hear me. I think where my situation differs is that I’m definitely the more immature person in this relationship and I try to throw back signs to them like wearing trinkets that I associate with them.

>>41333834 (OP)
yes, but is not just ONE soul mate
there are several soul mates for you

>>41333834 (OP)
Yes and no. It’s more this
>>41336014
Think of it like a spectrum of compatibility and your soulmates are in this cluster of people that you are most compatible with.

>>41336009
there's karmic and twin flame ones. one wants you to become the worst person of yourself, and the other wants you to grow. but if you are not spiritually mature, like in control of your anima, or in your masculine or feminine, the can become your worst nightmare

>>41333834 (OP)
sheesh!

>>41335911
>I went to war
what war was it?
French invasion?
Crusades?
Muslim conquest?
Even older?

>>41335911
You see I’d hate to find out me and my soulmate were this far apart from each other, navigating it would b feel like hell I’d think.

>>41333834 (OP)
>is soulmates a real thing?
No

>>41333834 (OP)
Wasn't like a third of gen z aborted? I really, really hope soul mates aren't a thing, anon.

>>41340362
Now we don’t know how many of those would have actually been born with souls and how many of them would be hylics. Of course we don’t have any data on soul vs soulless people running around now. Perhaps the good ones are in heaven.

>>41333834 (OP)
You may have a soul mate who doesn't match to your soul, for whatever reason. It's like unrequited love, but more brutal. I miss you, babe.

>>41341602
Wish it were so, anon.
It was a strange twist of fate that brought us together. My soul mate is gone and I'm just waiting for death. Maybe next time around it'll stick - that's how I'm directing my energy.

>>41333834 (OP)
I actually think there is however I don't think most encounter them while among the living. I mean it's kinda in the name, "soul" mate. Course you talk stuff like that people are just gonna call you crazy or call it coping. But if you're strictly talking in a materialistic sense, then no it's just a matter of compatibility with whomever you have access to. Spiritually though there most certainly is but again "spirit". Don't give up hope though, but also don't settle if it doesn't feel right.

>>41342260
Those were my thoughts too, it’s best not to encounter them on earth but I do envy those that do and don’t blow it. The worst part is that I think this way still be impatient, I hate waiting to meet them.