>>41445891
that is not what anon was talking about at all. you are actually confusing us with the real gaslighters who will tell you manipulative shit like you choose to have bad things happen to you. same argument rapists make for raping (wearing revealing clothes, etc.). The truth is more subtle; firstly, is that NO ONE asked to be here, you retard. secondly, despite not asking to be here, our reaction to the situation is 100% in your control. its only when we yield that control consciously or unconsciously that shit goes wrong because you literally give up your birthright power to choose your own fate. in light of such a truth you can literally choose to be happy.
Think about retards like most billionaires, they have insane amounts of power and money yet still have VICTIM MENTALITY. paradoxically, that has probably allowed some to slacken their sense of morals due to always seeing other people as enemies and rivals, and with less morals its easier to exploit other people, to lie, to steal, which pretty much is the only way to actually get a billion dollars. however not a trillion, 1 brazillian, 1 fuckillion US dollars will buy 1 second of real peace, which some of these niggas clearly don't have.
it might not seem like this is true because it does take some practice through meditation and mindfulness but it is possible to just choose to be happy at and time under any circumstances. your peace and happiness is not a justification or explanation for bad things that others may have done for you, let me be very clear on that point. it is simply something you can do if you actually do want happiness and not just keep seething, even if its justifiable anger.