>>281716444
Fuyutsuki says that humanity is incomplete because we crave for bonds
In my headcanon bonds between evangelion humans is happiness
Then instrumentality is paradise
Shinji and Asuka who have been traumatized into not making bonds feel instrumentality bonds weird and creepy thus they reject them
Asuka rejected them first and is so done with losing her chance at happiness
Shinji rejects them later and is just realizing he lost his last chance in life at making bonds with people, and he is just very angry
And it makes sense with the Anno hates otakus thingy: go outside, talk with people and experience things, or you will miss your chance at happiness because you will not be able to recognize