How to get gf as 23 year old male in uni?!??

talk to a girl? what a shitty 0 context thread

>>33194832
Tried that. More detailed advice would be helpful. I have been endlessly ghosted and rejected

>>33194685 (OP)
be 6'4, white, handsome, broad shouldered and deep voiced. It's as simple as that

>>33194685 (OP)
Do the exact opposite of what your pic related did and you should be fine.

>>33194965
It's funny how much shit Elliot gets when, cringiness aside, he was spot on about women's dating habits. They all want to date white jocks and badboys.

Why Uni where there are women who will look at you as the atypical fuck boy from that?

>>33195183
he really was ahead of his time, the only thing he kinda got wrong was thinking women only want "brutes" but given he fell into the popular redpill shit at the time, its understandable

>>33195312
>b-but he wouldn't even speak to girls!
Because girls (esp. college girls) don't want socially awkward manlet hapas.

Would he have slayn today in the kpop era bros?

>>33195324
not your average chang maybe but if you have a car and dress well and your dad is second unit for hunger games you could absolutely 100% leverage that to get a gf

eliot is laughable because he had blonde Stacie oneitis and refused to see he had more privilege (not social justice privilege honest to God stacking paper privilege) than 99% of men

honestly pathetic to see people who truly will never get a gf idolizing someone who could have had half the buffet and instead threw a tantrum they were out of crab legs

>>33195529
lol did you even read his shit? asian women didnt want him , not that he cared, he identified as white and as you said, had tunnel vision for blonde stacy
its all irelevant though, he lived in chad central in 2013-14 as a manlet and would have still got nada even if he was a kind, talkative guy

>>33195655
chad central? when I turn on the news I can see plenty of poor, mid-looks, young latinx on the streets everywhere. you cannot tell me a handsome, rich boy like him cannot get laid if he just tried - unless his expectations are too high.

>>33195183
No, they just don't want to date ugly wimpy twinks. And yes looks matter, just like you wouldn't date a woman you consider ugly regardless of how "nice" she was. Though looks matter, for most men it's not completely over as they can make up for looks with raw effort (starting by going to the gym, dressing well, practicing hygiene, but also by working on other aspects of your person like competence and wealth).

>>33197674
Oh and btw I was making the assumption that the person is white. Just date within your race, or better yet stay in your country so you don't have to compete with such large disparities in traits

>>33197674
you mentioned so many things except the most important one, charisma (social skills). those cannot be learned so easily, they require neurotypical genes and a healthy upbringing. past kindergarden age it is very hard to improve those.

>>33197690
I can't mention everything. I think it goes without saying social skills is part of the equation. It's not easy but nothing worth achieving is

>>33197690
>past kindergarden age it is very hard to improve
you're a retard, sorry

>>33194685 (OP)
im literally the same as you OP, i will commit suicide soon. It's over. If you haven't fucked by the time you're 20 you will never be normal. Just end it.

>>33197693
except charisma > looks > job/money/talent, at least in the west in your 20s. you can get laid as poorfag, even as a criminal. there are deadbeat dads with 15 children out there. there are also plenty of popular ugly and short guys who get around. but if you have no friends and ask nobody out, you end up like Elliot

>>33197725
who needs to be normal, lol. I enjoy my life with wife and 2 kids and I am a sperg with 0 friends. life gets exponentially better once you get off your high horse, accept what you can get and ignore what you don't or have missed already.

>>33194859
How many friends do oyu have?
Personal, meet them in person friends.
How many of them are women?

>>33194965
I love how incels pretend average men don't have GFs

>>33194859
Then we need a lot more detail about you

>>33195655
Meanwhile, poor guys like him had wives already.
You're coping as bad as him

>>33197736
>except charisma > looks > job/money/talent, at least in the west in your 20s
It's not quite so simple. For example in my case, and I would think it's like this for other males as well, once a woman gets past a certain "threshold" of attractiveness, things like personality start to matter a lot more. However without getting past that threshold, personality doesn't really matter. In other words it is not a simple a > b relationship.
> you can get laid as poorfag, even as a criminal
Yeah, it's not all one thing.
>there are deadbeat dads with 15 children out there
Sure but they probably are not getting high quality women.

>>33197690
Genetics fag?
And autism is not genetic, retard

>>33194685 (OP)
i got on a plane and went to another country. held maxed out credit card debt for a few years until i got a couple of jobs and paid it all off in short order, then i would do it again. have been married 10 years, not that it is without its troubles, but it is a technical fact that i am still married today. if you put in time with a local girl you end up with two problems. problem one is that local women tend to break it off after 3/5 years due to issues of empowerment and poor mental hygiene. the second issue is that the west is going to shit and it could be good to have a backup plan, of somewhere to go to, if you can stack 30k in the bank and go off to your wife's cheap country then that could last you a long time while things are absolutely going to shit.

there is a lot more to it than this and its by no means easy, you are going from a place where you are saying "im 23 and lonely halp!!" to actually becoming a fully developed and long married 35 year old man. you want it to have been one woman in that range no matter what happens

>33197777
Are you esl? ER was rich, rich for a teen his age. He wasn’t poor
L2r bluepill faggot

>>Niggas itt unironically think charisma and personality Matter

>>33197814
Idk, I mean I know a dude who's below-average height, not especially goodlooking, and he's actually banged semi-famous actresses. He's highly extroverted and funny tho.

>>33197805
No, you fucking retard
ER was rich and whiny but guys that looked like him BUT WERE POOR already had wives.

Tell me you're a terminally online KHHV sperg but use different words
>>33197814
Thanks!

>>33194859
We need details on your situation if you want detailed advice, there isn't a magical check list that lands you a girlfriend you've gotta play your cards right.

>>33197690
>charisma (social skills). those cannot be learned so easily, they require neurotypical genes and a healthy upbringing. past kindergarden age it is very hard to improve those.
Hard disagree there.
My father had BPD, I have ADHD and might have a touch of the 'tism. I was raised in an abusive single mother household, in poverty with my sisters who also have BPD. I had zero social skills until I hit about 14, where I was just awkward but funny and nice so people liked having me around.

At 18 I went through some dark times, struggled with loneliness and drinking, and promised myself I'd become a better man and put the work in to be the kind of person I wished would have helped me when I was young.

At 25 I've got many close friends, I'm very charismatic and happily engaged. I work a job where charisma is essential (trades) and people just randomly start conversations with me in public.

Put in the effort and you can become better at almost anything.

>>33197765
not in the year of our lord 2025, if you belong to the 18-25 age category. Sure you may get some used up 30 year old, ran through pussy, but good luck dealing with the high expectations of women after having tasted chad's big dick and fine genes. It's literally freaking crazy that women are not called out as genetically genocidal nazis, which is literally what they're. Hitler would be blushing at women's idealism if he arose from the grave. It's even crazier that men are still busy trying to destroy each other from the dating market, in the hopes of getting crumbs, rather than uniting, revolting and redistributing pussy. Men today are total either retards or legit cucks who've cucked out or wish to cuck other men who're in the same boat as themselves rather than cucking women & chad, strategically & evolutionarily of course.

BUMPING ALL HAIL SUPREME GENTLEMAN ELLIOT RODGER

>>33197762
I have lots of male friends and acquaintances but 0 female friends.

>33198113>33198107
>needs tous like a tranny
>>Noo just be positive bro! Muh personality! Muh money

LMFAO at bluepill cucks in current year

>33198113
>tumblr slang
>esl khhv calling other people incel
Kwab

All hail supreme gentleman Elliot Rodger

Stop bumping retard

go to classes
meet more people
go to more parties
go to the bar
meet more people there
bring your friends there

it’s a recursive algorithm thing when you’re younger
it’s all about meet friends and going to places with those friends and meeting more people and repeat
and be friends with men and women

when you get into work everyone has extremely less free time and starts to pigeonhole up when they finally meet someone and you go out less

don’t burn bridges and stay friends with people, if you can
you might run into them years later
you need a decent amount of total numbers of connections to increase success of meeting someone
but luck is a real thing so streaks of bad and good are possible
some people have boosted luck by stats, some nerfed, but even then luck is supreme

that’s a supreme gentleman type response since you self identify

>>33199236
>after having tasted chad's big dick and fine genes
Lol at the projection, this nigga is DEEP in the closet.

>>33200586
Kek

>>33197778
>high quality women
Unless you’re dating a popstar or something like that it’s all the same if they like you. Bullshit ass statement kek.

>>33197846
Exactly.

>>33202251
>can’t differentiate between high quality and low quality women
Kwab

I LOVE YOU ELLIOT RODGER

>>33200586
how is it gay though when that's what women lust after nigger bugger?

>>33195183
He gets shit because he spent all his time whining about the realities of life and not being able to cope with it. The reality is that some people have higher value than others and the traits that make people valuable are immutable, because if you were able to BECOME valuable instead of being born that way, those traits would no longer have any value, like the art of an artist who keeps painting more paintings.

The entire point of value as a concept is that its measured around exclusivity. Beautiful people have something exclusive - beauty. You have to be born with it, people can't make it for you. You might be able to turn a 4 into a 5, or a 5 into a 6, but you can't turn a 2 into a 10. If you're born ugly you're going to stay ugly, if you're born retarded you're going to stay retarded. That's the whole reason why beauty and intelligence are valued - not everyone has them. Its a good barometer for who gets to be valuable and who has to work for a living.

>>33194685 (OP)
you don't. better luck next life

>>33204631
conveniently left use of force out which would also have been made scarce and monopolized though it isn't entirely wrong. And there'd be no such thing as "value" but opportunity cost, otherwise it's not the worse answer

>>33204684
I didn't ignore the use of force in value economics, it just doesn't apply here because you're talking about an individual citizen, in this case Elliott Roger. Citizens aren't responsible for the use of force anymore - we abrogated that responsibility to the State and its institutions in most countries, even third world ones.

Granted, a citizen can still decide to use force, but it won't accomplish much and it won't change anything. Someone might be dead at the end but the institution they work for will just get another interchangable person. The system isn't going to change its stance just because you used force, either, so ultimately it accomplishes very little.

Value is really just shorthand for the dynamic between people who have more and people who have less. You could call it 'value' or you could call it whatever else you wanted, really. Its just meant to illustrate that some people are worth more than others.

>>33204722
no such thing as value economics. And it applies to individuals because they're subject to it. Individuals didn't abrogate anything, they were forced under use of force to comply, die or leave. there's no "we" either. It accomplishes little from the bottom up and a lot from the top down, obviously, ever since the neolithic. Value is no shorthand. "some people are worth" also doesn't exist, "being worth" isn't magic, it is enforced by the very clear uses of force you mentioned. "monopolies on uses of force", "opportunity costs on choices" and "scarcity" are the shorthand for what you tried to describe

>>33204755
>I want to bitch about semantics and words: The Post
Don't care, didn't ask, fuck off. And don't (You) at me, you mouthbreather.

>>33204778
lmao, stay mad