Thread 33220900 - /adv/ [Archived: 973 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:01:44 AM No.33220900
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What can I do?

I met this girl at university in an art club a couple of months ago. We were the only three people during that particular session, so we really got to talk and get to know each other pretty well. I was so impressed from the get go. Unfortunately, she had to leave early, so I couldn’t even get the chance to make any sort of move or at least get her socials.

We don’t share any classes and I only see her in hallways, on campus with friends or sometimes while leaving school.

I really want to get to know her, but there’s no way for me to initiate a conversation organically. What should I do?
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:04:36 AM No.33220916
your organic conversation initiator is to see her, let your eyes get wide, give her a bear hug and say "i never got any of your details! i thought you got away from me!"
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:04:42 AM No.33220917
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are you literally an 18yo incel?
let me break this down for you anon
if you talk to a girl for more than a couple days and don't ask her out she assumes you are either
>in a relationship
>gay
>not interested
>a creepy weird incel stalker psychopath
you never had a chance
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:06:48 AM No.33220926
hi (with rizz)
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:09:52 AM No.33220937
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>>33220926
>isn't that the guy from that art class
>why is he talking to me
>what the fuck
>is he a stalker?
>is he going to kill me and wear my skin
>fuck, should I call the cops?
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:26:36 AM No.33220995
You could probably talk to her in the hallways or when leaving school. Personally, I would do it when she's leaving school because I'm a little shy. You already were able to talk to her in the art club. You can be like,
"Hey wasn't your name x from the art club?" then let her respond and then you can say "my name was y. It was fun talking to you, you were nice"
and keep talking to her while she's leaving school every day or other day.
If you can't initiate a conversation organically, practice. Talk to yourself in the mirror, talk while you're playing a game like you're a streamer, go talk on discord etc. I used to be really shy, honestly still able. I literally couldn't get a word out because of my social anxiety but I talked to more people and I'm slightly better, so if I can do it so can you. As long as you respect boundaries, I don't think you'll make it creepy.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:31:03 AM No.33221007
Man yuo have rapport with a girl and you see her and share a hallway with her. Imagine how difficult this will be when you are out of the school system. Things do not get this easy ever again. Take advantage of it! literally say anything at all
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:34:35 AM No.33221015
>>33221007
schooler confirmed incel
>>33220995
she's not interested in him
if she was at any point interested in him she gave him obvious signals that he missed which gave her the ick