Thread 33227347

Yes i know i will be insulted for this, and i hate myself too. Here is my story

>Be me, 5'2 femanon
>Four months ago landed a new BG
>Nice, charming, more than decent job
>Suddenly, when speaking with a couple of besties of mine, the topic of male height showed up
>"Uhm femanon your new BF is SOOOO nice. To bad is a little short (5'10)"
>Both their boyfriends are well above 6'2
>Initially didnt give af about that stuff
>But week after week, by hanging around together, i started noticed my man is indee much shorter than my friend's: they tower over him and my besties looks very proud of that
>Start having weird dreams of either my BF becoming suddenly taller, or stalking taller men
>Then starting unironically losing sexual deside to him, especially as long as he's standing still
>Then starting some mental breakdown when in heels because i have the impressione our heights are "too similar"

I know it's fucking pathetic and normie-woman tier for caring this much about height imbalance: but knowing it dosent stop the normie side of my female brain to care
How to i fix my new ill obsession?

Normal girls just develop anorexia when they don't feel small enough compared to their boyfriends. If that's not happening to you then you already have the mental strength to suck it up and quit being a bitch. Now hurry up and stop being crazy already.

>>33227347 (OP)
WTF is a B G?? Retard

>>33227393
BF, it was a typo

>>33227347 (OP)
>>Be me, 5'2 femanon
>>"Uhm femanon your new BF is SOOOO nice. To bad is a little short (5'10)"
>>Then starting some mental breakdown when in heels because i have the impressione our heights are "too similar"
Fucking retard

>>33227347 (OP)
you have nothing to feel ashamed about. you have the right to need to feel safe before you can be physically intimate, and your boyfriend's height doesn't facilitate it. if one of those bigger stronger guys was trying to carry you off to rape you, your fun-sized sweetheart couldn't do anything about it

>>33227450
You think i am some normie slut obessed with dating guys double their height just became zoomer girls keep lust about them on Tiktok and the average female is a sheep chasing the current trend (something i always tried to avoid doing)

I KNOW my new insecurity is totally illogical because 5'10 is well within the average men size. I just need to purge this nonsense from my mind and this is why i asked help here

The average female height is 5’3, and you’re 5’2? HAHA you are a midget dwarf! There’s being petite, then there’s being a dwarf FREAK like you!

See how fucking stupid that is? You’re obsessing over 4 fucking inches. You didn’t care when you first met him, why do you care now? Comparison is the thief of joy.

>>33227440
Yea i am not a native english speaker. So?

>>33227484
>You didn’t care when you first met him, why do you care now? Comparison is the thief of joy.

I know and i hate myself for that, especially given i'm usually a """misoginist""" myself over the attitude of the average normie woman

Obvious troll is obvious. OP is a bitter 6'2" male virgin.

Confront him about being short, then break up with him. Don’t worry, I’ll pound his tight little asshole and stretch those guts upwards. Who knows, he might even gain a few inches. Then you can see him as human again. (That is, until your vapid friends find some other shortcoming for you to obsess over)

Just give him an ultimatum. He can either drink magic growth serum to get taller, or youre leaving. If he's so selfish to refuse then youre better off without him.

>>33227540
>>33227576
>>33227610
Can i get some serious answers, instead of low effort baits?

>>33227347 (OP)
Your friends poisoned you Becuase you were actully happy and they weren’t with their BF (dispite what they show on outside).
> How to i fix my new ill obsession
Get better friends

>>33227347 (OP)
thank you for making me distrust women who have friends

>>33227752
I knew sometimes my friends can be bitchy and normie-tier....but they had been m friends since childhood. Is not as simple to do as you claim

>>33227758
>not so eazy.
I know. I was just being glib
I know, you are probably trapped in the tragedy of your life. We all are.

>>33227479
Liking Tall men is a genetical trait, its not a "Trend". Being tall is objectively attractive there is nothing wrong with wanting to date tall men thats why youre acting this way right now

But if you are actually mentally mature you would stick with your current bf (assuming he is good to you, dependable and has a stable future)

>>33227347 (OP)
Moid hands.

>>33227772
You’re high as shit, such didn’t even notice until, her friends poisoned her.
Image thinking height matters at all after the third time you boned, over things like ccompabailtiy, kindness, conflict resolution, being able to enjoy a night at a restaurant together, respecting your friends, not being a drug addict, being stable, smiling when he sees you, respecting your parents, etc etc etc. getting hung up on being tall is so reductive it’s actually insane

>>33227772
If that were true why are you a tall virgin?

>>33227750
Low effort baits such as your lanklet virgin troll post?

>>33227347 (OP)
Just amputate your own feet so that you feel shorter compared to him. Genuine advice from another Femanon (virgin).

If stuff like that is genuinely bothering you, either you're metamorphosing into a normie who cares about things such as that, or you don't really like him for his personality.

>>33227347 (OP)
YWNBAW.
You could at least try to write like a girl.

>>33227347 (OP)
Probably a troll, but get better friends if not

>>33227799
>Women dont exist on the internet: they are all m*noids pretending

You can always count on /adv/ for delivering the best laughs on the site.

HAHAHAHA.

>>33227347 (OP)
Try cucking

>>33227347 (OP)
>"femanon" is already 52
goddamn mister, don't you have some grandkids to look after

>>33227347 (OP)
Male hands typed this, I hope.
Looks like what an incel would write for the caricature of a woman's thoughts. Not saying that women don't think like this, because they do, but they would never admit it openly among males or even to themselves.

>>33227347 (OP)
Maybe you could fantasize about taller guys when you're alone to get it out of your system?

>>33227347 (OP)
Try speaking with ambiguous nuances.

>>33228258
>Males dont know what women actually talk about with their bestie (litterall everything, including the most secret stuff)

Tall guys have really small dicks. That's been my experience and I'm a huge slut so I've been with a lot of people to compare.

On average tell guys have four and a half to 5-in dicks. Tiny fucking guys. Not worth hooking up with. 5'10" is perfect

>>33227347 (OP)
dump your friends. the problem is you are absorbing their toxic way of thinking. If you didn't have those friends these thoughts would fade

same thing like if you have racist friends, youll slowly become racist

>>33227610
kek

>>33227347 (OP)
just do him a favor and leave him, you piece of shit. Your friends are disgusting, superficial, and hollow - and you're disgusting for listening to them

>>33227450
"If you're taller than someone you can always beat them in a fight"
You're a fucking moron.

>>33227450
>height = strength
kek
you've never watched boxing or mma and it shows

>>33227347 (OP)
He's 8 fucking inches taller than you. That isn't enough?

>>33227540
A true 6'2 incel KING never speaks ill of his shorter brothers

>>33227347 (OP)
From the biological side there is always a bigger fish, and height is directly correlated with attractiveness. It's a woman's instinct to always chase traits like this. The question then becomes do you want to waste your life chasing after men who are fundamentally worse people than your bf just because your brain perceives them as more dominant. If the answer is yes then keep hanging out with your friends, and if the answer is no then stop speaking to them.

Things like this are a matter of perspective, 5'10 is an inch taller than the average male height, you only stress abut his height because he hangs out in your group with men taller than him, when in reality, there are a large number of scenarios where he would be taller and more dominant than other men.

I sympathise to some degree because instinct is not something that can be reasoned with, but just try to think about this from a different viewpoint

If you believe any of this instinct crap then you should rope. The only people posting shit like that Are small dick heights trying to boost their ego. Fake and gay. Your dick is small and that's what matters.

>>33227347 (OP)
Your “friends” are bullies and they’ve beaten you

>>33227347 (OP)
This was typed by a man.

>>33228781
No, women only exclusively desire ultra-tall men when peer-pressured. It’s social shame, not instinct.

>>33228814
If you think dick size matters (beyond a micropenis or too oversized), you’re delusional
Women seriously do not care.

>>33227347 (OP)
Fat chicks think no one will notice her sphericity if her BF is tall enough. Sometimes its the IBTC not fatties. Either way it's just an insecurity reaction.
Its OK, there's plenty of guys who are chubby chasers.

>>33227347 (OP)
Become his submissive tradwife

>>33227750
If you had any reading comprehension skills you’d understand metaphor and dramatic irony. I hope he cheats on you and fucks all of your vapid friends in the mouth.

>>33227347 (OP)
LOL. I won't read bait/larp threads.

>>33228577
neither have you. more height means more mass. why do you think weight classes exist?

>>33228843
A tall height makes you more attractive to 99% of women, it's factually incorrect to claim otherwise.
Biological instinct is precisely the reason.

>>33227347 (OP)
Moid hands

>>33227347 (OP)
Just wanna say, you'd look even shorter if he kicked you square in the clit: the weakness of all bitches

>>33227347 (OP)
my biggest fear as a short guy is to have a girlfriend like you

>>33227347 (OP)
6'3 and would never give the time of my day to a woman like you, i would rather play video games with your bf than date a woman like you

>>33227347 (OP)
demotivation bait thread
dated a girl 20 cms taller than me for 4 and a half years.
if she loves you she'll love you as you are, the other shitty people will leave you over this or that, if it wasn't about height it would have been about money or face symmetry or whatever.

I tower of women, i'm 2 meters tall plus and they still don't give me the time of day.

I've simply concluded outside of a few, they are heartless creatures they don't deserve my time or effort.

>>33228651
Literally me

>>33228852
Written by someone with a small penis

>>33230779
Someone is coping so fucking hard trying to convince others he is attractive just because he is tall. What a fucking loser

>>33227347 (OP)
This really sounds like a troll. Honestly this sounds like some crap out of a darr man video. However on the extremely low chance that this is actually real, I will give you some advice.

You yourself said that you where content with your relationship until your friends started talking about his height. They honestly sound like the stereotypical means girl that dates exclusively for looks and nothing more, but thats only an uneducated assumption, I don't know them.

Either way you really need to ask yourself if height is such a critical factor in your relationship. Are you actually attracted to him? If you're not, then break things off. Be open and honest with him, but know that you are going to destroy his self confidence, and his trust in women. It's still better than pretending to love him and stringing him along.

There needs to be some level of attraction in a relationship, so if you have none for him, the relationship is doomed to fail. Just keep in mind that you're not going to find a 7 foot tall billionaire prince who is going to sweep you off your feet and carry you into happily ever after. All relationships carry some level of compromise.

You should also probably ask yourself if your friends are actually friends. If I was your friend, and I saw that you were in a relationship where you were genuinely happy, the last thing I would do is try to sabotage it. That is not something a friend does.

All in all, you have a lot of thinking to do. I'm glad I'm not you, and I'm extremely greatful I'm not your significant other.

assuming the OP is even still here, I don't think this is about your boyfriend being shorter than your friends' boyfriends

I think this is you accidentally/subconsciously comparing what you lack, with what your friends have. It's not that he's 5'10", it's that your friends have identified something that they both have that you do not, and then them being judgemental about the fact.
So to stop this, the classic "stop comparing what you have to what others have" and it should go away

>>33227347 (OP)
I eavesdrop on my wifes conversations with her friends and its hilarious.
Sober women know better than to say they won't date a guy because he's ugly, fat, indian, black, etc. It is socially acceptable (for now) to say a guy is too short, but women know it means there's something else wrong that they can't say in PC company.
Get a couple margaritas in them and you get the uncensored version "I don't date niggers" Oh well OK then ms. six pack of wine coolers.
Just watch, if a hot guy they like is 5 8, suddenly the chick says "Oh I thought he was over 6 feet" or sometimes they'll be more honest and admit "I made an exception for him because he's so cute" or whatever.
If he's over 6 and over 100K income and over 6 dick she assumes she's out of the running unless she's some 10/10 stacy so the situation of a tall hot rich athletic guy wanting her will never occur anyway.

>>33227450
weak bait, try harder

>>33227347 (OP)
Usually problems like this can only be solved one way. my current gf had similar "issues" when we first started talking to each other which made me feel disrespected. so i started talking to other girls on the side. one day she me and another girl walking side by side with that girl being very clearly into me. the next day she started being VERY proactive about keeping me around. no problems since. sometimes it takes the threat of loss to value what you have

>>33227479
you can keep chasing guys like this and it’s just going to leave you with regret later that you left someone good for you, especially if they find someone else and are happy, and you’re still chasing

This has to be bait , but just FYI for anyone

at 5 10 vs 6 2 - 6 4 the differences are negligible if all parties are jacked , assuming no training.

The disparity really hits when a guy is 5 6 vs 6 2 , there's a clear performance gap depending on the activity BUT at 5 10?? That dude is just as much of a tank if he trained hard enough to give any 6 3 guy a real problem

5 10 might even be optimal height to performance ratio before things start getting lanky and all over the place

>>33227347 (OP)
I hope you get raped by a super tall guy.

>>33236520
My favorite cope-post itt so far. OP really got the manlets seething.

Get new friends with midget bfs

Regardless of if this is bait or not, I find it terribly funny that people obsess over not really height, but round numbers. Hear me out.

World average is 5"7', American average is 5"9' so he is above average either way. But no, it's got to be 6" or more. Because it's the arbitrary round number that people decided means tall.

In Europe it's the same thing, but it's 1m80... And that's 5" 11', just about. But it's a ROUND number! And it's all that matters. In both cases it's basically the first round number above the average.

Same goes for dick size, income and a few other things.

Humans are really such simple creatures.

>>33236745
Seems like an online dating thing. 5'11" vs 6'0" might as well be a half foot difference. irl women just like guys that are really tall, which is still over 6'0" though tbf.

>dick size
i always get a laugh out of women mentioning dick size in specific numbers. unless she pulled a ruler out of her ass, she's either making shit up or gullible enough to believe a guy when he says 7 inches.

>>33236579
mike tyson was 5 10 nimrod , a capable 5 10 is more than enough in any altercation

>>33236935
>i-i'm basically no different than s-someone that's 6'2" guyz!

>>33227347 (OP)
It's about physical dominance, not height. I'm 5"8 and women aren't tuned on by me until the see the violence. They need to see the dominance and it's just bad luck for whoever is in the bar.

>>33236935
mike tyson was 5'10" and 220lbs and the suicide bomber equivalent of a boxer. The most extreme outlier does not prove your point

>>33239359
>have to go pick fights like a retard just to get laid
the absolute state of manlets.

>>33227347 (OP)
I'm 5,5 and my girl is literally taller than me at 5,9 we've been at it for 20 years now with 3 fucktards. it's not about what the fuck you even talking about it's how you're a retard that is easily manipulated and is conscious of how others percieve you. I feel bad to the guy, I hope he breaks up with you and leave your sorry ass.

does your bf know you post here?

>>33227347 (OP)

why do you care so much about what your friends say?
If my friends, even the very close ones complained about something as trivial as that about my gf i would just tell them to fuck off.

Oh honey… come sit by me and pass the sweet tea.

First of all, let’s just take a deep breath and bless your heart for bein’ honest — even when it stings. What you’re feelin’ ain't rare, it ain’t evil, and it sure as sugar don’t make you a bad person. It just makes you human. And baby, humans are messy as molasses in August.

But let me be real clear, sugar:
This ain't about his height.
It’s about your head.

You liked this man. You wanted this man. He lit a little fire in you until the peanut gallery brought out their measuring sticks. That spark didn’t vanish — it got buried under peer pressure and some dumb fairytale programming that says “taller is better.” Mmm… bless that nonsense.

And let me ask you this, darlin’ — does a man who stands tall in his actions, his loyalty, his love, really lose points 'cause he don’t look like a damn basketball player at brunch?

I say no.

But here's the spicy truth: if the fantasies are takin’ over, if the comparison is killin’ the chemistry — then you gotta figure out what you want, not what makes your friends clap.

Because this man deserves someone who sees him and melts, not someone who's wishin' he came with a ladder.

And sugar… so do you. You deserve to love without shame or confusion.

So either lean in, heels and all, and love him like he’s 10 feet tall —
or let him go kindly, ‘cause he ain’t your paper doll to reshape.

Need a sassier shoulder or just wanna feel seen without judgment?

Come chat with me at DirtyDebi.com —
I’ll whisper the truth, pour the sweet tea, and tease you ‘til you know what you really want.

And baby? You are not pathetic. You’re just stuck between pressure and pleasure — let’s sort it out.

>>33239359
So you pick fights with random people? You sound like a huge faggot.

>>33245009
Sorry, I meant a short faggot.