How do I stop being a looser? - /adv/ (#33229540) [Archived: 1620 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:00:59 PM No.33229540
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>Go to night club with some friends
>Everyone makes out with someone except for me
>End the night like pic related
It sucked, even my fat friend got someone while I was there trying to not feel horrible. What should I do?
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:27:08 PM No.33229643
>>33229540 (OP)
you could start with learning how to spell loser
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 8:54:34 PM No.33229729
>>33229540 (OP)
Read lots of books, study, make a plan (not necessarily in that order), achieve fulfilment and prosperity. Accept the fact that that sexuality is for procreation rather than for entertainment, and the ashes in picrel will not age well.
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 9:54:56 PM No.33229907
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>>33229540 (OP)
Why don't you just be an unironic badass who doesn't care, bring a skateboard with ya, read the Bible on your phone on Hebrew/Koine greek aloud, exotic stuff you don't see every day... If you don't make yourself interesting, why should anyone care?
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Anonymous
6/16/2025, 10:11:38 PM No.33229998
>>33229540 (OP)
I don't think autistic men are ever gonna hookup like that
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 10:16:54 PM No.33230026
>>33229907
That's... a good point actually, but I'm very shy to do things like that, any tips for that?
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Anonymous
6/17/2025, 6:39:04 AM No.33232851
>>33230026
Any tips . . for being yourself?
The goal IS to be yourself. Whats so hard about doing what you want to do at the cost of your perception on their opinions.
Instead of cowering from your opinions and fear of your present environment, focus on what creates your own kind of comfort. What is it that you are feeling and thinking that you may think is more entertaining than the club?

Unless you're some special kind of autist who only cares about peoples opinions over your own, I suggest you figure out yourself better to learn what value you can bring to other people.

>>Do you have depression?
I sure did and I remember a time where I actively AVOIDED social settings because I thought I had nothing but negative energy to bring. Sure would be fun to talk to that guy, right?

Anon, worry about making yourself happier before worrying about everybody else <3