Thread 33243635

i keep hearing stories about dudes making a girl cum multiple times in one sexual intercourse, like 3 or whatever. How can you do that? How can you last that long? Isn't it like at least 30 minutes or something to reach consecutive 3 female orgasms?

>>33243635 (OP)
Not hard when she's multi orgasmic, enjoying it and actually into you, and you slow down if needed. Just need all three of those.

>>33243635 (OP)
Guys talking about women cumming is like women talking about dick size; it's all hearsay. Be a good man that can keep a house bolted down and you'll find a woman worth your time.

first tongue on clitty then fingering then s*x

>>33243635 (OP)
1 I usually last up to 40 minutes fucking, this from years of death griping my cock while fapping before becoming sexually active, my record to shortest time fucking to orgasm is 20 minutes.
2. some girls just have one orgasm after another once they have their motors running, I remember an ex had 7 orgasms once, the first couple ones while I was eating her out and the rest while I was penetrating her, including during anal, some were not even a couple minutes before the previous one and other took some minutes but she was turned on as fuck
we stopped for a while because she started getting dizzy.

>>33243665
>40 minutes
you can't possibly be thrusting for 40 minutes continuously, right? What do you do to last that long besides the death grip?

>>33243635 (OP)
>How can you do that?
With your fingers

>>33243691
just the death grip bro I can't even blame or praise my age I've been like this since I was 19
I gotta admit at some point I was getting bored of fucking for so long to achieve orgasm because I was fucking girls who wouldn't enjoy it too much or were used to quickies so they got bored, I only started enjoying it again because I found out girls who stay horny the whole time.

>>33243635 (OP)
You can make a girl nut 3 times before even inserting your penor if the girl is into you. Its called the power of foreplay and using your talents.

>>33243635 (OP)
Some women cum easy, others don't.

My ex came easy. Just a little bit of movement on her clit and she'd cum in a few minutes, then she'd cum quickly in penetration and we'd cum together at the end. But I honestly think she over acted her "orgasms".

Meanwhile, my actual wife takes a while to cum, but when she does it's so fucking strong, she instantly taps out and can barely move for like 5-10 minutes after.

Tl;dr: each person is different and sex works different for each couple

it's a reference to guys OP. you cum really fast two times and then cum once after a regular time. the meat of it is the two times quickly.

>>33243644
>>33243704
>>33244233
>>33244319
These
I can make my wife cum literally 20 times and no, this is NOT a larp
For reference, I've been with about 50 women (I'm older) and it really varies.
Too many women simply cannot cum no matter what you do and it's THEIR fucking problem to solve, it's stressing and disappointing to have sex with them. In my experience they are about 1/3 of all women.
Almost all the others will orgasm one, maximum two times. What varies is how - some need tongue foreplay, some need fingers foreplay, some will cum just with penetration alone, some need simultaneous penetration + clit stimulation.
Then, a very small fraction of them are multi orgasmic. They really really enjoy sex, and the harder you try the more reactions you get, it's amazing.
From my experience, stories from others and reading about the topic, looks to me that it is mostly a mindset issue. The annoying bitches that can't cum seem to not be able to relax and let it go. Nothing you do is as they expect, and they don't even really know what to expect or what they want, fuck them. Then, most can cum only one or two times because they take quite a while to drop some barriers and slooowly get into it. The multi orgasmic ones always seem to be upbeat and optimistic about sex, they dive really deep into it really quick.
>>33243635 (OP)
Now, back to a more practical answer to your question: yeah lasting longer helps a lot, but use your fingers, hands, tongue and body as well, but be smart about it. It's not a chore, find what works with each woman.

>>33244479
>lasting longer helps a lot
how do i last longer?

>>33244479
>and it's THEIR fucking problem to solve
why do they always blame men then?

>>33247493
the same reason dudes around here blame chad and impossible standards for not getting any: they refuse to take accountability of their own actions.

>>33243635 (OP)
female orgasm is a myth, just fyi

>>33243635 (OP)
the g spot is a spongy part behind the clit

>>33244479
This. Preach. I believe it's a maturity thing. The worst thing about it is how these women who can't be enthusiastic about sex don't realize how important that is to men, and it's basically THE reason they stay around. Everything else is nice, sure, but if the sex stops, or she stops trying to please, why the fuck not just get a roomate? You can't have everything in a person, that's a given, but having a girl shut down on you in the bedroom is the worst feeling she can inadverdently create.

>>33247925
I make myself clear that sex is a main pillar of having a good and fruitful relationship with me on the first dates, a couple of times I told them that even before we were intimate for the first time.
granted a couple heard that and just told me we were not going to work out and bailed, the rest were ok with that
one older situationship we had told me she dreaded hearing me say that because most guys that say that expect as time goes on to receive a blowjob or a handjob or something and do nothing in return, or a quickie, cum and go to sleep, without worrying about the girl cumming or having a good time at all
she was pleased to know I asked as much as I gave in return.