Thread 33243989

>Be me 29
>Get sent on a work trip, 3 states away.
>5 days in, fiancée calls me crying, and says she had a miscarriage.
>Says she was in pain, her mom drove her to the hospital, baby’s gone.
>I’m destroyed.
>Couldn’t leave early, sat in a hotel room staring at the wall.
>Come home, fall apart.
>We were 5 months in.
>I cried for days.
>Couldn't eat.
>Couldn’t function.
>Took time off work.
>Started therapy.
>She seemed sad but bounced back fast.
>I figured people grieve differently.
>Two days ago, she broke down crying.
>Says she has to confess.
>She didn’t have a miscarriage.
>She had an abortion.
>Her mom helped her plan it and drove her to the clinic.
>Said she wasn’t ready.
>Didn’t want to throw away her career.
>Thought lying would be easier for me.
>That I’d “move on” faster.
>I mourned that baby like it had died.
>Blamed myself.
>Nearly lost my mind.
>She watched all of it and said nothing.
>Now she says she regrets it.
>Says she wants to try again.
>Wants a baby now.
>Wants to “start fresh.”
How do you come back from this?
Can you forgive something like that?
How can she do that to me?

>>33243989 (OP)
I won't read soap opera bait.

>>33244005
fpbp

>>33243989 (OP)
obvious bait, but if the story was true you should kill her and her mother

>>33243989 (OP)
Leave her chances are shes sterile from the abortion now. And its possible it was your kid at all. And that's why she killed it

>>33244103
Probably fake but if true then she knew that the child wasn’t his and would have been obvious when it was born

>>33243989 (OP)
Dump her, you dumbass. The baby wasn't yours.

>>33243989 (OP)
This is bait, but I'm on the toilet so I'll bite.

If something like this actually happened there are 2 possibilities

> 1. She's mentally retarded
If she is not ready, she shouldn't have tried for it, but even if she did and regret it instantly... Why wait until month 5? If you're gonna get it off, kill it early. Dumb bitch, you shouldn't procreate with someone that's this slow.
Consider yourself lucky and leave her.

> 2. She cheated
She knew the baby wasn't yours, probably was going insane seeing the clock tick down and the birth date getting closer and that's why she waited till month 5, because she was playing with the idea of possibly fooling you into raising a kid that ain't yours, but thought it was way too risky in the end.
Consider yourself lucky and leave her.

>>33244234
The second one happened to my friend, he had to go to court to get his name out of the birth certificate after the baby didn't look anything thing like him and she confessed that she had slept with another man and only got it out after her parents gave her the ultimatum if she didn't delete his name from the certificate they would kick her out of the house

>>33243989 (OP)
don’t stick you dick in crazy

fr she is confused and feels guilty, say to her it’s okey and she can relax, to take things slowly. no need to rush, her decision is valid and you want ways best for her, if she thought that what she did was the right choice there must be a reason. give her a hug till she fall sleep

bait, people on 4chan don't have sex unless it's non-consensual

Obvious bait thread.

>>33243989 (OP)
Woah, we gotta pass laws against this or something. I'm sorry OP. It's up to you if you can forgive her and continue ultimately.

>>33244189
Correct. Nearly the same happened to me but I was happy she made the decision to abort. We lasted 4 more months, she broke up and married a coworker 3 weeks later and pregnant again. So women are always banging more than one man and most pregnancies they have no clue who is the father so they shop for daddy.