Thread 33246389

i was a virgin and i lost it today
i thought if i felt in control and powerful i'd feel really good but i came in less than 3 minutes and i barely felt anything when i came
is this normal? how do you guys feel when u had your best sex

Try actually having sex with someone attractive and not just putting it in vagina and that's it
You're supposed to make out with the woman and all that shit retard

losing your virginity is the worst sex you ever have imo. it's easy to be so caught up in Big Life Event that you don't pay attention to your partner's needs or even your own. when the pressure is lower (hopefully with the same partner) you can actually experiment and figure out what feels best for both of you. the best sex is as emotionally bonded as it is physical, and it's more like playing than overcoming an obstacle

38 y/o oldfag checking in.
OP, the above is right, you're first time will ALWAYS be in your top 5 worst sessions. Maybe not THE worst, but definitely up there. This has been the case for everyone I know, male or female, without exception.
The quick shot is normal. The regret it wasn't "better" is normal, and so is the angst that comes after. Don't sweat it, pat yourself on the back for hitting a life milestone, and move on.
Also, don't wig out about how long you last in the sack. Everyone lies until they're about 30, then everyone stops caring. For most dudes 7min is a statistical average, which works well, because after age 21 the mucus membrane in most vaginas can only function for about 9.
People who are saying they constantly have marathon sessions are either full of shit, on something, or gentic outlines.

>>33247211
>People who are saying they constantly have marathon sessions are either full of shit, on something, or gentic outlines.
Overall agree with your post but this is cope. Lasting long is easy especially if youre a coomer like myself. I have had sex for longer than 45 minutes more times than I've had less than that and that isn't cap

>>33246389 (OP)
first times are supposed to be not great don't worry
you're nervous and experiencing something new and being intimate with someone is already something nerve wrecking so there is that too
this is why I tell people not to get too hyped about losing theirs and just go to lose it the first chance they have, the more years you wait the more expectations around it you build and it'll never reach them-
you'll do better next time

>>33246389 (OP)
sex is overrated, keep the cum inside you to get the nonut energy

>>33247211
years of me fapping death gripping before I started having regular sex with an ex made my penis very resilient to regular stimulation, the shortest time for me to cum has been 20 minutes after not touching my dick for two weeks and fucking a veritable model, my average is 40 minutes.

>>33247231
>>33247297
Meh. Hats off to the both of you, sincerely, but I've got no shame in my game and nothing to cope over. The dozen or so times I've gone past 15min I just get board, and the one time I hit a full 30 it stopped being fun and was just full-on work. You want marathons and have a gal who accomides? Have at em!

I'm nearly 40, have a kid, been with +/- 30 partners, and by now fucked in just about every situation / position. For me, 30min of eating pussy, a 6min quicky, and a nice nap are the ticket. Ay02x

>>33247380
yeah I commented somewhere else that sex was starting to get boring for me because most girls would start complaining that I didn't come yet when we got to 30 minutes of us fucking and I still hadn't come.
it wasn't until I found girls that are as much into long sessions as me that I've started having some fun with it.
I sometimes envy people who can have a quickie all the way to completion, my quickies have always left me wanting because of course I couldn't cum.

>>33246389 (OP)
I didn't cum until I'd had sex dozens of times.

>>33247380
>>33247423
Man, 30 minutes? I usually go for a few hours. I thought that was normal.

>>33246389 (OP)
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Maybe there is a reason sex wasn't good for you.

>>33246389 (OP)
My first time was terrible.
>jerk off A LOT before getting 1st gf
>think dick is desensitized due to jerking off so much
>ex gf and I finally get down to it
>feeling confident I tell her I'd last 30 minutes kek
>we start making out and I can barely move, as I'm so excited and hard I feel like I'm going to bust at any moment, just from kissing
>the years of jerking off didn't help, my dick was only desensitized to my hand, but the actual touch of a woman almost made me instantly cum
>think ill lose my opportunity to lose virginity and cum in pants like a beta cuck loser
>start acting like actual caveman
>get really fucking rough making out to somehow distract myself
>grab and throw bitch on bed asap
>almost rip off her jeans lmfao
>put on condom in milliseconds and hit it from the back
>bust in like 4 pumps

So lasting 3 minutes is actually pretty good OP

>>33250329
kek best answer

>>33246389 (OP)
>i thought if i felt in control and powerful i'd feel really good
nah the opposite is true. the best cums are always when your girl upends your expectations with a finger in the butt or saying something slutty and unhinged when you least expected it

>>33250326
ceo of ppo over here