Thread 33249299

How do I make sure my girlfriend finds me hot enough to be considered for a one night stand?

>>33249299 (OP)
She basically told him he's the "nice guy" she'd "settle for" after walling/getting off the carousel, but would never consider in her prime.
Answering the OP, don't even say anything, just give him an unrequested bj.

stale bread

Only a low self-esteem guy would take that as an insult but she was dumb to not consider male ego
There are some men that are community cock. They are good for hooking up but not for long-term
A boyfriend is hot enough for long-term and daily dickings. Not just a notch in my bed post to say I fucked a certain type of guy or a dude to blow off steam
I had the perfect man physically as a friends with benefits last year but I dropped him in favor of my boyfriend because the guy had the personality of a rock.
Men just can't relate to having so many sex options they don't think like us. If we choose you and are staying faithful to you, that means you are the top man for us.

>>33249299 (OP)
Does she will bear yr children?
There is nothing more about it.
If she want your dna or not, that's the only question.

>>33249423
>Men just can't relate to having so many sex options they don't think like us. If we choose you and are staying faithful to you, that means you are the top man for us.
ya, until you get sick of your man and go back to ur fwb or someone else. bet u still keep in contact with him too without ur bf knowing. fucking whore.

>>33249565
Nope. I did leave things open with my favorite friends with benefit but I did tell him that I have a boyfriend and can't see him anymore. The perfect guy I just ghosted. I've been faithful without even talking to another man sexually for a year. I know what I have

>>33249578
>I did leave things open with my favorite friends with benefit
LMAO
ya because ur keeping him around for when u get tired of ur current grift. does ur bf know you left things open with ur fav fwb? bet not. ur just another whore playing guys because u can.

>>33249608
Why should I have to start from nothing if he gets sick of me
I haven't messaged that guy since telling him I have a boyfriend and can't see him anymore. I just haven't removed him. He's a simp with a huge dick. I would be retarded to remove him

>>33249627
do what u want, whore.

>Why should I have to start from nothing if he gets sick of me
I haven't messaged that guy since telling him I have a boyfriend and can't see him anymore. I just haven't removed him. He's a simp with a huge dick. I would be retarded to remove him

>>33249653
My boyfriend pays my entire rent. Your picture is dumb

>>33249663
>admitting betabux
LOL i feel bad for him

>>33249673
He's happy he loves it. His balls are drained his belly is full and he sleeps next to sexy little me every night

>>33249685
Hurry up and speedrun the divorce rape

>>33249685
Omg you really think he'll marry me

>>33249299 (OP)
Women have a dualistic dating strategy called alpha fucks, beta bucks.
They want the money and security but they want to fuck alpha chad.
Combat this with the triple M
Money, Muscles, Manipulation.
Get rich, have big muscles, learn game and how to manipulate her (that doesn't mean you have to).
Make sure you're talking and hanging out with other women to invoke her competition anxiety.

You have to be alpha as fuck to keep your gf thinking you are chad. Its basically the struggle that pimps went through to keep their girls working for them. You have to:

>Win every argument even when you are wrong, because its about power to women
>never show vulnerability unless it is part of a narrative where she is healing you
>always make her think that you could leave her at any second and replace her instantly
>never fail shit tests
>never show distrust toward her
>never show signs of stress or giving a fuck
>never shows signs that you even think deeply about the relationship or her. You are just an alpha machine who only cares about some higher purpose than her

>>33249627
Your posts make you sound like a hypocrite.

What if your boyfriend had a favorite perfect girl as a FWB that he left things open with that you found out he didn't tell you about? The only downside about her being that she had no personality but damn near perfect in every other way.

Chances are you would be pissed, jealous and probably demand him to delete all contact info. You'd be even more pissed if she is much more attractive than you.

>>33249801
Yes I'm a hypocrite but you are mad at me for thought crimes and that makes you gay. Boomers had little black books even in the '70s and '80s. You just need to grow up

>>33249810
That's cool but if you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't keep other dick in your contacts "just in case". To me it just seems you aren't confident in your relationship or you just don't really like him as much as you think you do.

If I met a great woman that was 100% my type, I would have no problem deleting old FWB contacts because there was obviously something that was lacking between us if it never moved up to a relationship. The only reason I'd keep a "favorite" fwb is if the person I was committed to wasn't really my ideal person and more of someone that I'm attracted to but not fully. Like she checks off most boxes but not quite the ones that I really want.

>>33249673
I pay the rent for my gf too. I don't really think its beta. She does all the cooking and cleaning. I was paying the whole rent before she moved in anyway. I have aquired a maid and sex on tap in exchange for nothing really.

>>33249627
>Why should I have to start from nothing if he gets sick of me

A whore's first survival instinct is to hop onto another dude
EVERY.
DAMN.
TIME.
LMFAO.

>>33249846
Ask her to pay rent and you'll find out.

>>33249866
You would do the same thing in my situation. Why should I have to go through months of loneliness with no dick just because my boyfriend decides he doesn't want to be with me anymore? Would be awesome to reconnect with an old friends with benefit instead
>>33249842
I love him very much. I just know that men are fickle so I can't depend on him being loyal. My mom and Aunt both have separate checking accounts just in case their scrotes go feral and they've been married decades. It's called watching out for yourself

>>33249878
Nah, cuz i'm not a sentient sex object. Humans are much more than that and they need control, i am sorry for whorecalling but it is important to have a pure heart and not to give in to your primal urges, what type of life will you live if lust dictates where you go?
Will you ever be free as a personb if your psychology chains you to seek validation from those who will offer you sexual service?
To answer your question, far from it, becuase i do not live for the world, but for the LORD.
"You have heard that it was said,
You shall not commit adultery;
but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a
woman to lust after her has committed
adultery with her already in his heart."

>>33249878
>scrotes
You need go back. Crystal Cafe or Lol Farm. Get out.

>>33249423
>he just had low self esteem
he had low self esteem for taking her back

>>33249919
They banned me from both of those spaces for not being woke enough. I'm a 4chan female

>>33249878
this is rage bait lol

>>33249423
>I gave myself to a handsome moron first
>someone more interesting was my second choice
Do you have no self awareness? You're only confirming what the incels have been saying.

>>33249919
Disregard it as you may, but when most people call you out on something, consider that it may be true, i don't judge anyone, just point out that we can change for the better - rejecting it has no effect, except what your situation had already causes.

>>33249299 (OP)
My advice:
Stop thinking plebbit is real life. That shit is made up.
Also ignore all incel/blackpill shit

>>33249947
At least I was knowingly using handsome men for sex. My poor boyfriend really thought he had the one each time with his failed relationships. I'm earnestly dating him for marriage and will never cheat

>>33249993
and yet you keep your fwb's contacts. you're not earnestly dating him for marriage, you're just a whore.

>>33249993
>At least I was knowingly using people
That makes it worse, ya psychopathic retard.

>>33249299 (OP)
>I told my boyfriend I don't find him physically attractive. Why is he mad??
TWD

>>33249627
Unironcally, KYS worthless whore

>>33249993
You're fucking retarded and in denial. If you were never going to cheat you'd delete your FWB's contact info you worthless piece of shit. Neck yourself and make the world a better place

>>33249299 (OP)
When are men going to realise how stupid they're being about this?

>>33250108
When are women going to realize yes being a whore is something the majority of men don't like?

>>33249423
Pussy is literally a woman's most valuable asset
How am I supposed to feel when you give your most valuable asset to some loser (the "community cock") for a night when to access it for the rest of my life I have to jump through all kinds of bullshit hoops and do the oofy doofy dance every day so you stay "faithful"?
>Men just can't relate to having so many sex options they don't think like us
How about just not having sex outside of a love relationship? If I wanted to I could see prostitutes and have sex with a different hot woman every week, I don't because I have a modicum of self control

>>33250352
It’s called a personality, if you only date someone for their looks you have no personality :) just accept that it’s worth staying with her because you love her personality:)

>>33250359
What's with the smiley faces, you trooner?
>It’s called a personality
Every single woman I've dated regressed to the same fucking personality type of "boring bitch who watches sitcoms." This has included girls who were artists, girls who were musicians and scientists, at the end of the day all that bullshit is a facade and they all just want to fucking watch Grey's Anatomy reruns

>>33250374
Because everyone here tells me I’m shallow because “women date guys for their personality looks aren’t everything”
When women don’t even WANT to look at me.

>>33250359
My people have a saying:
"A wolf changes his fur, but not his demenour"
As much as someone can put on a fascade, it's sometimes even just the nature of small things which define it. If your personality includes turning yourself into a sentient sex object, why would all other aspects matter?

>>33250398
Then don't be a fat slob at least and have some hygiene and sense of fashion.

>>33249423
>>33249578
>>33249663
You sound utterly based, anonette.

>>33249846
>>33249663
Jesus, modern relationships are grim. I bet your gf isn't even hot, you're being a betabuxx for some skinnyfat 5/10 foid who will leave you in a few years anyway.

>>33249866
no shit that's the objectively correct position

'best way to get over someone is getting under someone else'

>>33250421
I’m not fat, I’m 215 pounds and 6’8

>>33250796
So you're just freakishly tall. If you're not black or a basketball player at that height, you're just seen as a freak. Bad luck.

>>33250398
When women date for "personality" what they're actually dating for is "how trendy and socially connected is this person"
You can have a deep beautiful personality, like be the world's greatest poet, but women wouldn't give a shit and would date pic related because "OMG a mustache and cool tattoos!"

This is why women have to be brutally oppressed to have a functioning society

>>33249423
Die, whore.

>>33249299 (OP)
Girls love a man who is good at cunnilingus. That is what makes a man unforgeable in the eyes of a woman.
If she ever thinks about another guy she used to know, it is because he was good with his tongue.

>>33251311
Dicklet cope sure is funny

>>33251399
Most women don't cum with just penetration, virgin.

>>33251399
They don’t even know how big my dick is

>>33251426
Five out of the six women I've fucked did. In fact they never ask me to eat them about because they don't miss it and my dick is "more than enough"
I'm not even all that big, I'm just over 7 inches. Most men are just shrimps

>>33251530
really? im a bit over 7 inches too, why does my girl have to rub her clit and close her eyes when we fuck? give it to me straight bros.

>>33251562
most women are proto-lesbian clitcels. It is what it is. Women like this are a lot less likely to cheat on you or produce gay sons. Its not all bad.

>>33249423
Whore. You may be faithful to your current bf, but I bet you still close your eyes when you're fucking him and think of you past fwb
Men care more about being the best fuck for you than anything else a relationship comes with. Wonder what your bf thinks of this attitude of yours

>>33249299 (OP)
if you can climb a tree, you're hot enough

>>33249423
>self-esteem
you don't even know what that means lol
you're a manchild

>>33249299 (OP)
damn she sounds fat

>>33249299 (OP)
I don't understand why this offends men.
Is it because this woman had one night stands? I don't and never have, so I don't understand why I should want to if that makes sense? If I never want a one night stand and I only want a strong faithful devoted love then of course I would prefer someone who is what I'm looking for

This is partially why I am not interested in having a gf. If she sees me as bf material than I am probably not that attractive enough to her and she is only with me for other reasons (status/social proof, comfort, betabuxxx, validation). I don't want to be with a woman who does not desire me since I would only be setting myself up for failure. Also, women today have so many options and high standards that it's impossible for a man like me (short, average-looking) to keep one around.
I think most men are uncomfortable with accepting this reality.

>>33249423
I think your right but women have so many options they can't relate, they don't think like us.

>>33253239
Women have options for getting dick, but that's always been the case. Even a hundred years ago do you think a girl would have had trouble finding a random guy to turn her out for a night? Probably not. But the problem with you is that you are ugly and last pick anyway. You want to keep a girl around. Attractive men would never think like that.

>>33253120
She is saying she's open to having hook-ups and friends with benefits. Which means that she's open to having sex with guys that she is not married to. Which means that if she gets married, there is a serious danger that she will cheat, because she sees no problem with having sex with a guy that she's not married to.
The guy may have been able to delude himself before she said it to his face directly, but not after.

>>33253263
>But the problem with you is that you are ugly and last pick anyway
Wow man, I had no idea. Thanks for the insight.

>>33253120
>>33253271
No, it has nothing to do with cheating or even the casual sex itself. This offends men because you are revealing to us that you are not that attracted to us. Women largely hook up with men they physically desire. If you are telling your bf that you would not hook up with him, you are telling him that he does not elicit physical desire from you.

>>33253288
Why would you care if a woman is attracted to you or not as long as she does what you say, and is obedient and faithful?

>>33253120
Men basically feel like 5-10% of men are attractive to women and they just date the rest of us because they need a dad-blob to help raise their kids. In cases like you men don't feel like you are secretly yearning for some other type of man. That's basically what men want, to be what you actually want. Women deal with this with the Madonna/Whore Complex thing maybe but that's a bit different because you are being judged on your values, not falling short in the rankings to other men you imagine your girl-friend would secretly prefer to date.

>>33253291
Deep down, a lot of men actually want mutual attraction rather than to live as an ATM and to his prostitute-like gf/wife

>>33249299 (OP)
You know why this is not true.
1. No woman would self reflect and realize her comment was an issue. It would require her bf to point it out but that triggers days and weeks of denial and stop being insecure shaming
2. The friends of a woman would never side with a bf here and offer support instead that he is the insecure ass that has issues with her past

>>33249423
>I had the perfect man physically as a friends with benefits last year but I dropped him in favor of my boyfriend
So your boyfriend knows you were riding Chad cock before his, right?

>>33249578
>I did leave things open with my favorite friends with benefit
>>33249627
>I just haven't removed him. He's a simp with a huge dick. I would be retarded to remove him
Ah so this is bait of the highest order, thanks.

>>33250108
What's stupid about it?

>>33253120
>Is it because this woman had one night stands?
It's because she had one night stands AND she told her bf she wouldn't be one of them.
That means she was willing to give away free pussy to strange men only due to their handsomeness, but her boyfriend NEEDS other qualities before even being considered for sex.

>>33253291
Nigga I want the other person to desire and love me as much as I do them. What's wrong with you?

>>33249299 (OP)
Women don't seem to understand that we do relationships for them as a favor to because we have empathy but hooking up is the highest state of the male ego. When women think that they can appeal to us with ideas of domestication it just reveals an utter lack of cognitive empathy on their part its really sad that the female race has allowed themselves to delve this far into retardation we used to handle these differences better as a society.

>>33253120
If you're a woman, just think of it the other way around. What if your boyfriend told you he'd fuck you for a one night stand but wouldn't tell his bros about it or commit to you?

>>33249299 (OP)
just have:
6'5
trust fund
blue/green eyes
norwood 1
handsome face
broad shoulders
narrow waist
9 inch penis
a walking greek god

why is it so fucking hard when the requirements are pretty clear & precise? sheesh, men are really dumb

>>33249423
>i'll fuck hot guys everyday but only if they're dumb as a rock but those don't mean shit
>i'll fuck my boyfriend every day, but only if he's hot enough
>hot enough to help me resist trolldorf twiddletits and his weird long nose god how would that feel in my pussy
>i mean women are with you because you give sex
Dumb slut.

>>33249423
I'm not an incel but you're only admitting you're okay with being pumped and dumped but not by your boyfriend.

>>33254066
It's not comparable at all. What you are saying is a clear insult but what she is saying is a compliment. She is saying that he is good for both sex and for companionship not just sex. I know this is hard for you to believe because men are such weird liars but women mean what they say when it comes to stuff like this. Threads like this remind me to never be frank with my boyfriend. For all he knows he is the best I have ever had and he mogs every other guy I have ever been with. I honestly think he needs to believe that to be as successful and confident as he is

>>33254243
>She is saying that he is good for both sex and for companionship not just sex
Don't women understand don't give a single fuck about being bf material? The ultimate form of validation is pussy. If strangers can get your pussy on looks alone, that's incredibly more valuable than your bf having to put the effort to access what others did for free.

>>33254272
Bf material cares about being BF material

>>33254296
So you will just ignore the rest of his post huh

>>33254438
You talk to chatgbt too much

>>33254441
Smartest woman itt

>>33254092
based. death to shit gened subhumans.

>>33253291
its actually mindblowing how trained women are to think of men as emotionless automations, holy shit

>>33249787
>always make her think that you could leave her at any second and replace her instantly
What about if I would leave her at any second and enjoy the quiet life?

>>33249423
I'm sorry, but you also have a personality of a rock, ironically.

>>33254959
nice cope. FEMALE NAZIS or FEMINAZIS as they're called as based for being eugenic af. If a woman can always have a fling with a man better than her bf/husband, she must get pregnant with that man and increase the quality of her lineage and that of the genepool

>>33254781
They don't see no-chads as human

>>33249787
this.
I went through a hard time and lost a relationship I will never have again because I looked to her for warmth. I had something special with her. Too bad I cucked myself

The only women a man will ever respect are what they want in nature: tall, big muscles, huge dick.

There will never be equality between the sexes so it is oppress or be oppressed.

>>33249299 (OP)
this got to be a bait

>>33254225
This. Weird how women try to rationalize this
>>33254243
>She is saying that he is good for both sex and for companionship not just sex.
What she actually says is that he's not good enough for sex. The FWB is someone you are attracted to on a physical level. If she's not somebody she would have as a FWB then she doesn't find him physically attractive.

>>33256413
*If he's not somebody

>>33256051
>The only women a man will ever respect are what they want in nature: tall, big muscles, huge dick.
women in nature aren't tall with a big dick

>>33249423
Troon hands typed this post.

>>33254272
>The ultimate form of validation is pussy. If strangers can get your pussy on looks alone, that's incredibly more valuable than your bf having to put the effort to access what others did for free.
Amazing how all the women and simps who were posting ITT previous to this comment, instantly disappeared.
Absolute trvth nvke

>>33254243
>Men are weird liars
>For all he knows he is the best I have ever had and
You think of men worse than dogs

>>33253120
>>33254243
Another example is when a woman says, "You have a boyfriend dick." Which basically means your dick is either average or below average. What women think they are saying is a compliment which you're supposed to interpret as, "Your dick is the perfect size to have sex everyday and or multiple times a day." But how it comes out as, "Your dick is a Nissan Altima and it's good to daily drive but sometimes still want to drive the Porsche."

At the end of the day, if they had the chance, most women would rather daily drive the Porsche than the Nissan, even if the maintenance is higher. Unless the woman is extremely tight and or shallow.