How can i cope with the fact that i ruined my body by being fat, now when i try to lose weight i will have loose skin and look disgusting. How do you make peace with your sex and love life being over at a young age?

>>33250851 (OP)
How tall and how heavy at your worst?

>>33250856
172cm and 120kg at my worst. I am now 105kg

>>33250864
You're fine, you've already made positive changes.

How old are you and what kind of weight distribution do you have? Does it go to the "right spots"?

>>33250864
Pure sex

>>33251220
I am 18. While im wearing clothes i look pretty normal for being so fat, but disgusting naked. And my weight goes all around my body pretty much, but i dont have like a big round ass or big tits like some of the fat women have, but i dont look like a square either. My problem is cellulite in my legs, and now that i have lost weight, between my thighs is this weird spot of fat or loose skin, And it looks weird and disgusting. I also have a lot of strechmarks on my stomach and sides. It doesnt feel like its fine, i hate myself, and i know that i did this to myself but i cant change my past. It just hurts knowing i will never be normal skinny like other girls my age.

>>33251230
What does this mean

>>33250851 (OP)
Everyone dies alone. What, you think they're going to come with you? Hahahaha!

>>33251332
>i know that i did this to myself but i cant change my past.
really your parents failed you more than anything. I would just keep losing weight. You are still young enough that you can just get the skin removed and youll look like you were always skinny. People who wait until late 20s and beyong and then start losing all their fat look weird and never quite normal. Just remember that as you gained more agency you were the one who lost weight, and you got fat when you depended on others and didnt understand the world as well.

>>33250851 (OP)
Date a fat fetishist.

>>33252654
This. I know a friend, that's definetly not me, who's into bigger women.

>>33251454
>Just remember that as you gained more agency you were the one who lost weight, and you got fat when you depended on others and didnt understand the world as well
d.. d... does this still count if it happens... at 34?

>>33252724
it's never late to learn and to be better anon
just lower your expectations on a partner
many guys around here are virgins at 39 but refuse to get an ugly practice gf even as a first step how else do you guys think you learn how to kiss and how to treat a girl right.

>s/he doesn't know about the fat fetish community

>>33252724
No.

1. Obviously I have no idea how much loose skin you have, but losing weight at a slower pace compared to starvation usually will avoid excessive extra skin
2. It would be a hefty purchase, but cosmetic surgery does exist to remove excess skin. Only do this once you have achieved your goal physique and research potential complications.

>>33252771
It's a dude, I've seen obese grannys that find a dude, i guarantee you OP is a dude.

This must be bait, everyone knows a lot of guys unironically like fat women in the current year

>>33250851 (OP)
You can probably recover at your age if you don't lose and gain weight over and over again. Also there is surgery for it. You are very young. Just lose weight slowly and sustainably. You won't do this though. Only 1% of fat people will ever lose weight and keep it off because they all in my experience starve themselves to lose weight and then binge it all back.
>>33252771
This. Find filling foods, not foods that are 2 days worth of calories and leave you feeling empty. You literally just have to fill your stomach.

>>33253304
I am currently eating 1000 calories and its working good for me, i eat sweets and stuff too when it fits under 1000 calories. Also when i happen to binge or a party is coming or something, i dont eat the day before or after so my calories even out. But i feel like my weightloss is still slow, but if we are talking about loose skin, should i up my calories to 1500?

>>33253294
Because all the fat women have their fat in their ass and tits and its round and big.

>>33253298
Fat women who are the beauty standard. I feel like i ruined my body even more by starting to lose weight, because as i said before i have these weird pieces of fat or loose skin between my thighs, and when i bend down they look like globs of fat or loose skin.

I dont know if my worries are as bad as i make them out to be, but i have been seriously considering hurting myself over this. Whats the point of losing weight if i will have loose skin, Why didnt i just stay fat? Loose skin Surgery will leave scars if i ever need one.

>>33253321
Probably the slower the better but it sounds like you are doing really good. I eat sweets around the holiday seasons without guilt but eat as ascetic as I can the rest of the year with maybe the occasional feast day. After you lose the weight things should tighten up over time especially at your age. I think you should do the right thing and go into the future knowing if there are any problems you will do the right thing and find a way to fix that too. You are very young and have plenty of time. There is a high chance your skin gets better. You can fix it if it's not your ideal. You're going to be very happy and discover you can eat hot legumes and leafy greens with a bit of olive oil, salt, and red wine vinegar, and it's actually really cheap and good.

Once you reach a good weight, it is relatively minor surgery to remove and/or tighten up the excess skin, tuck the tummy, lift the boobs, etc.

>>33253553
So i shouldnt kill myself because of this?

>>33251332
your fine and 18 your not going to die alone.

>>33250851 (OP)
If it makes you feel any better, you aren't the only one.

>>33251332
No man will ever love you, you fucking ugly fat bitch.

this is ai picture but i love it, and i love mcdonalds and whoever this girl in the picture is.

>>33250864
>>33250856
Melbourne? I'm that weight now and 6ft 2

>>33259218
As just saying.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_8WS7VDBPM

We've got a chad here boys, hide your wife.

>>33258653
I dont think im ugly, just fat like i said
>>33259218
What does this mean