I'm addicted to psychoanalyzing people. I'll hear their interests and make assumptions, who they were at certain age based on their favorite franchises or even down to what specific facts they memorized as children to read into what type of education they received since it's easy to tell if it was bad or not when someone repeats it years later. I want to figure out the truth of who they really are. Let's be honest nobody wants to say the truth of who they are, so I'm obsessed with finding it. The truth. How do I fix this?

I can tell a white woman posted this.

>>33251172
I'm a white male 25. If people aren't going to not give me a hard time talking about them I'll figure who they are without even speaking to them.

>>33251219
I'm also a white 25 male and do the same thing; pretty sure it's a trauma response. You try to get a feel for people so you know what to expect, you been blindsided and hurt a lot?

>>33251106 (OP)
You don't have to fix it, just readjust it. Separate the hobby from how you treat them. Enjoy dabbling in psychology, but remember to not act on your findings. Maybe even go a bit farther and turn your hobby into something you can use to help people. Get a degree in psychology, and find a job in the mental health system, or volunteer.

>>33251301
When I was 6 I would tell my parents I was bullied to get out of being punished but then my mom who had a history of being bullied took me out of district school and into another one. I got shunned or nobody wanted to talk to me in the other school because I was too weird for weird kids let alone normies. I got sent to secondary school for threatening suicide to my mom even though I wasn't gonna do it. I was put in a place where kids were arrested or delinquents beginning to go to a normal school life to the staff, I never even had a normal elementary school experience so I never understood their woes. I spent the last year in a early college program and was annoying by other kids and they told me they weren't hanging out but id see them hang out on Snapchat. I was thrown out when graduated with no friends. But you know what I noticed? How all of these "professionals" aren't so professional. All of the teachers were terrible human beings who had to follow a script by the school. But I stopped having to really think about them, because they all ended up being the same eventually. Just miserable, unempathetic, disgusting, ugly people who will let children rot just cause they're annoying. I don't believe any narratives because I know everyone is just like those people. You know what's funny? They actually think they deserve sympathy or breaks, like they aren't just slaves that try to give themselves personalities. Maybe it's me though. Maybe I'm the only normal person. It's why I have my eyes, my eyes are righteous eyes that only I have. that's why I have them, I can see everything because I'm the only lucid person in the room.

>>33251106 (OP)
You’re a neurotic who fears other people, specifically fearing what they make be capable of. You got abused and now you call your hypervigilance an addiction to psychoanalysis.

>>33251172
An invasive, racial alien incel posted this.

you'll have to come to realize it's not really important and also a little bit rude to try

You can start by accepting the other for who they are, first step being who theyare presenting themselves as. Then you can ask questions about their choices ans decisions rooted in your desire to get to know them better. Connection is about openness of who each other is and a muytually willed decision to be open without needing the other as a way to gain something.

Also this is not what analysis is at all, stop calling it that.