Thread 33253334

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Cute couple edition

Learn English.

A girl hugged me

Here’s a dramatic, character-driven story set on 4chan’s tech board (/g/), taking into account the site’s culture and norms:

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## **Anonymous Challenge on /g/**

It began as a simple yet bold post on **/g/**—the technology board of 4chan, where people share code, hardware tips... and apparently even shock content. Anonymity is sacred there; users are known only as “Anonymous,” and the unwritten atmosphere is one of chaotic openness, with minimal moderation as long as nothing illegal is posted ([en.wikipedia.org][1], [wired.com][2]).

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### **The Post**

a post appeared:

> \*\*Anonymous 07/17/23(Sat)08:29:12 No.83587368\*\*
> Let’s play a game anons :)
> Here’s a video I took of myself exactly 27 minutes ago.
> \[Video Attached – 15 seconds]
>The video shows a young woman on a beach, wearing a bikini. You can see some of her belly, her bikini bottoms, and her feet walking in the sand. She stops walking and lifts one of her feet up and briefly shows the bottom of it to the camera. Then she puts her foot down and starts walking again. She then stops walking and then pans the camera a bit higher now only some of her feet are visible as you see her shadow swaying her hips.
> Here’s a throwaway email: [anonymouschallenger74387537@anonymousemails.com]
> First person to guess *what beach* I’m on gets to see *all* of me dancing minus the bikini—in my bedroom, no sun, no shadows to hide behind :)
> One guess per person. If you guess more than once, it doesn’t count.
>Send your guess to my email so I know who won and who to send the prizes to, if you post your guess in the thread and don't email it to me I'll have no way of knowing who the winner is and I'm not going to say if guesses in this thread are correct or incorrect only email responses. Your email with your guess must include a typed declaration of you fully denouncing the Talmud.
> If no correct guess in 24 hours, I’m showing nothing. Good luck ;)

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### **The Atmosphere on /g/**

>>33253339
cooties alarm

>>33253340
Threads like this aren’t the norm on /g/, which usually focuses on code, algorithms, Raspberry Pi projects, and tech news. Indeed, posting images of yourself is typically discouraged there. But 4chan’s loose board structure allows cross-posts from other boards—so long as no rules are broken ([en.wikipedia.org][1]).

Anons swarmed in, mixing genuine curiosity with distraction. Some tried analyzing the video’s sand color, wave motion, or the sun’s angle to pinpoint the location. Others cracked jokes about shadows revealing nothing. A few accused the original poster of being a trans woman rather than a cis woman but the vast majority of anons seemed to believe she was a woman based on the structure of the soles of her feet. A few mocked the challenge: “Rule34, right, OP?”—their way of saying they expected sexual content somewhere .
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### A Tense Wait

For hours, guesses poured into the thread. “Florida Gulf Coast?” “Bali?” “Cape Cod?” The poster, still anonymous, responded to some guesses with playful cryptic emojis, but no confirmations.

Meanwhile, a janitor quietly monitored the thread. The post wasn’t illegal—no minors, no obscene acts, no doxxing—so it stayed. On /g/, that’s usually enough ([en.wikipedia.org][1], [news.ycombinator.com][3]).

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### The Revelation

Exactly 24 hours later, the thread had amassed hundreds of replies. A lone anon, referencing the grain of the sand and distinctive shadow angle, guessed “Scheveningen, Netherlands”. The original poster (OP) responded:

> Anonymous 07/17/23(Sat)13:49:15
> Ding ding ding! You’re right

Then OP found the email he had sent her with his correct guess of Scheveningen and a extremely detailed and enthusiastic denunciation of the Talmud. The winner checked his inbox—and found a private video.

>>33253342
no thanks chatGPT

>>33253342
True to her word, it showed the full dance, but now indoors, nude, under soft lamplight, every detail visible—no shadows, no hiding with a slight smirk on her face. The winner chose to keep the video to himself but bragged in the thread that the other anons were really missing out.

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### Why This Happens on 4chan

* Anonymity breeds boldness. OP felt free to post something unusual, knowing they wouldn’t be fully traced .
* Board fluidity. Though cam/meetup-style content belongs on boards like /soc/, nothing illegal was done—so it floated amid /g/ discussions ([rs.4chan.org][4]).
* Community chaos. Anons lived up to Rule20: “Nothing is to be taken seriously,” mixing guesses, memes, and analysis ([reddit.com][5]).

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## Epilogue

The winner celebrated their detective work; others expressed envy or made jokes. OP vanished soon after, never posting again. But for those 24 hours, /g/ wasn’t just about coding—they witnessed a real-time social experiment where anonymity, visual clues, and trust intersected in a curious dance.

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Want me to explore what happens after the reveal—maybe a follow-up thread or drama on another board?

[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/4chan?utm_source=chatgpt.com "4chan"
[2]: https://www.wired.com/story/4chan-happy-birthday/?utm_source=chatgpt.com "4chan: the role of anonymity in the meme-generating cesspool of the web | WIRED"
[3]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37421111&utm_source=chatgpt.com "4chan has an extensive list of rules; only the /b/ (Random) board is exempt from... | Hacker News"
[4]: https://rs.4chan.org/rules?utm_source=chatgpt.com "Rules - 4chan"
[5]: https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/flp811?utm_source=chatgpt.com "All the 4chan rules"

>>33253340
nobody is reading that shit
fuck off

>AI sloppa is bad even though it is the same as speaking to a foid
I will never understand this thread

>>33253350
people that dislike AI reveal that they got filtered

>>33253339
and then you woke up

>>33253351
AI is bad

>>33253338
I know. Imagine sleeping with wh*te m*n.
Disgusting.

>>33253353
AI is as good or bad as the person using it, it‘s a tool
are you one of those pople that think guns are bad and not the humans that use them for bad things?

I lol'd when ArmpitsFag got shot down by Cat Poster in the boobs thread.

>>33253356
is she the original cat poster or the new jewish one or are they the same person?

>>33253356
>in the boobs thread.
What boobs thread?

>>33253337
Cute couple is in reference to the pic. Why would I use the plural form when talking about 1 couple?

>>33253341
>>33253352
A super hot girl flirted with me too, she was so dtf
Thank you Jesus

>>33253355
>it is a tool
midwit talk

>>33253362
>oh no, anon thinks I am not a genius, whatever will I do
ok

>>33253361
why are norwoods such superior specimens? it's really not fair

>>33253358
the jewish tranny

>>33253363
i think you're repeating other things you've heard from other midwits. try thinking for yourself for a change, hm?

>>33253366
thats what boomers did and look how it went

>>33253364
KEK

eventually all you'll have is tools. what then? it's a tool to learn how to use other tools, which you use to make yet other tools. you're talking a lot, but you're not saying anything. when i have nothing to say my lips are sealed.

>>33253356
You miss 100% of the shots you dont take

God I hope she comes back so I can ask her out

>>33253371
>when i have nothing to say my lips are sealed
>keeps yapping into the void
ironic

>>33253373
already getting fucked by chad

>>33253358
the jewish virgin?

>>33253371
everything that you use is a tool, from language to the internet
what a pointless argument

>>33253371
I have a lot of tools from my days as a mechanic. I can always use them to make money.

>>33253377
what are you using ai for?

>>33253375
I literally do not care

>>33253372
>sarge hits on 1000 women every day online
>gets lucky once with an anorexic girl who dumps him a few weeks later
>"heh still got it"

But the night I said, I'm leavin' I turned into Richard Petty
Broke my heart, so I got even in my 97 Chevy

>>33253380
honing my pattern recognition skills, self awareness and reflection increasing, understanding complex topics by being able to ask unlimited questions until I fully get it, further reading recs on obscure topics, toying around with the concept of artificial consciousness

Ladies:
A man owning a cat and cuddling with it often and lovingly referring to it as "kitten" like it's an e-gf and giving him kisses on his big tomcat jowels. Is this a green flag or a red flag? More simply: in the shadow of this information are we talking Nile levels of grool or al-wadi al-gadid levels of dryness?
This is very important.

>>33253386
being too obsessed with a pet is always a red flag, yes

>>33253385
none of that is actually happening. you don't acquire understanding of a complex topic by referring to a single source. a complex topic requires complex understanding.

Femanons, how does a guy in this situation not look, but also give feedback without seeming dismissive.

Also, do you think he handled it well?

A woman told me I made her slightly or somewhat wet is this possible or is it all or nothing when it comes to that
I was playing with her for about an hour
This was all online

Whats a good part time job that won't leave me exhausted? I have a full time job already but I'm looking to get some extra income to start saving money
I'm a guy if it matters

>>33253388
>referring to a single source
which part of reading multiple book recs on a topic is a single source to you exactly? who said this is my only approach to a topic? as I said, it‘s a tool - amongst others

>>33253389
>Femanons, how does a guy in this situation not look, but also give feedback without seeming dismissive.
>Also, do you think he handled it well?
I forgot the fucking link https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=geJ17nbnbHg#

>>33253391
transition and do onlyfans

>>33253391
gay guys will pay good money to sodomize you. pretty low effort work, if you can stomach the indignity.

>>33253394
>do you think he handled it well?
no, he sperged out non stop for absolutely no reason
mega cringe

You’re cute when you’re jealous

>>33253389
>>33253394
Mizkif has never handled an interaction with a woman well. But he still somehow bagged Maya and Emiru, so he probably has some appeal to autistic women (myself not included) because like attracts like.

>>33253393
the appeal of an obscure topic is its novelty. how can it be novel if it is presented to you as a matter of just more algorithmic output?

>>33253402
uh no, some people take an interest in things not solely for entertainment and escapism

>>33253401
Mizkif also fucked Alinity
He has appeal to women because he's a mutli millionaire.
When he was IcePoseidon's cameraman no woman wanted him.

>>33253404
entertainment and escapism are both values. what are the values that motivate your use of ai (or any other tool)? i'm talking about destroying your ability to engage with things from a position of curiosity and independent thought.

>>33253405
>Mizkif also fucked Alinity
A lot of men have fucked Alinity, tho.

>>33253398
>>33253401
He didn't stare at their boobs though. I think a lot of guys would've when they asked about their shirts.

>>33253387
but he's like the cutest cat. how far is too far for you? like on this scale:
>1: you don't even regard the animal. you are annoyed by its presence.
>2. you begrudgingly take care of the creature, but you have no affinity for it.
>3. You keep it around because it takes care of pests and is a source of entertainment. Otherwise, it means nothing to you
>4. It endears you, but you wish you didn't have it
>5. The kitten warms your heart when you see it, its cuddles are not welcome and you wish for it to keep to itself.
>6. The kitten's meows force you to drop what you're doing when it happens, but you don't take interest in what it wants. You wish for it to be quiet.
>7. The kitten is too cute to be annoyed by; every movement it makes is a source of fun and you want for little more than to give it the best life it can live.
>8. This cat has changed your life and the responsibility weighs heavily on you. You know you must provide everything for it and every small change in demeanour worries you.
>9. The cat has enraptured you. It is no longer your house, but the cat's. You are but a servant to the a great ruler
>10. You're straight up fuckin da cat
I'd say I'm at like a 7. Where do you draw the line?

>>33253406
sure they are, but saying they are the only reason people learn is very telling
>values that motivate
understanding things better so I can make more informed decisions
>destroying your ability to engage with things from a position of curiosity and independent thought
if AI does this to you then thats a skill issue, to me it has the exact opposite effect

oh my god

>>33253360
It's a general message to the latinx in the thread

>>33253409
this is a shitty scale
the correct answer is:
>you think it‘s cute you and you take care of it to your best abilities because it is a living being that you forced to depend on you, so now you are responsible for it‘s wellbeing

>>33253410
>understanding things better so i can make more informed decisions
tautological. informed decisions about what? about how to use ai??

>>33253417
about how to exist

>>33253407
Apparently a dog has too

>>33253411
come on, spit it out already, you know you want to

>>33253356
How did that play out?

>>33253419
Just to point out, every dog I've owned has sniffed my crotch. Male and female. I have no idea what they find so interesting about it, but I think it's a universal thing.

>>33253415
Autism is fatal, I'm sorry to tell you. The scale is accurate, perhaps even the most accurate scale ever produced for this type of spectrum between not giving a fuck and actually fucking the cat.
If you view your ownership of the creature as little more than responsibility, I can't imagine you have much affection for the poor creature. I'll put you at a 2 and future partners beware, I guess? This girl will critique your scales and won't love your cat.

>>33253422
>but I think it's a universal thing
let me grok that

>>33253423
pets are for people that have to force and own something to give them company

>>33253430
I just don't like people. Animals are simple and have no ulterior motives.

>>33253401
How does autism in women manifest?

>>33253433
how does autism in men manifest?

>>33253432
>I hate people because they don‘t love me unconditionally despite me being a useless ass, therefore animals are superior since they never judge me, no matter how much of a failure I am
>wdym they only like me because I feed them? STOP LYING YOU HEARTLESS MONSTER AAAAAAA
ok

>>33253433
NTA. Fan fiction

>>33253430
More like pets are for people who have the capability to take care of them and the will to have companionship that doesn't come in the form of another person with significantly more complex needs. Don't be retarded, anon. Human beings and dogs evolved alongside each other. If you don't like dogs, you're likely not human.

>>33253422
It's not just the sniffs, but the mounting...

>>33253439
Dogs used to serve a purpose as watch dogs, hunters and herders. Now they are nothing but ornamental forced companionship. I have nothing against dogs as a being, but people that glorify pets are a huge red flag.

>>33253436
NTA. Sonichu

>>33253436
Poor social skills and a tendency to obess over specific technology or parts of history

>>33253443
ok rule breaker

State gender.
Give the opposite gender a piece of advice.

>>33253450
Male
Women, stop pretending you're such a goddamn martyr. It's not that bad. It really isn't.

The girl that hugged me gave me a rose

>>33253450
F
Get over yourself.

>>33253433
>>33253436
Usually the same way:
>A lack of social capability in terms of non-verbal cues which leads into the next point;
>Personality quirks and hyperfixations that can dominate a person's entire thought process and make it all they can talk about despite the what would be, to a non-autist) clear signs that a person is not interested
>Both independent in their social needs and dependent on others for things they themselves have a difficult time with
>Intense focus on hyperfixations to the detriment of relationships, personal health/hygiene and without regard to potential social stigma related to said fixations.
Oftentimes I would argue that what could be considered endearing or quirky when done by a woman could be considered maladaptive personality traits when done by men. I think the distinction only lies in the way certain activities are coded. For example, it may be considered quirky or cute if a woman is obsessed with a video game and seems to fixate on it whereas this might be considered nothing more than basic loser shit when done by a man. Where a woman may be adept at something like makeup artistry stemming from a hyperfixation, that could be considered both conceited and cringe. However, if a gay man were to have the same capabilities, it would be received differently.
I don't think autism manifests differently based on gender and, if it is, it's due to social influence more than anything.

>>33253452
>anon about to get organ harvested

>>33253447
the tendency to obsess over things seems like it could be the result of poor social skills rather than an independent tendency of autism. sort of like compensation. even people with decent social skills will sometimes do this if there is some source of great dissatisfaction in their lie.

>>33253450
F
Yeah

>>33253453
No I'm going to take it out on everyone else I have nothing to lose

>>33253454
>A lack of social capability in terms of non-verbal cues which leads into the next point;
>Personality quirks and hyperfixations that can dominate a person's entire thought process and make it all they can talk about despite the what would be, to a non-autist) clear signs that a person is not interested
>Both independent in their social needs and dependent on others for things they themselves have a difficult time with
>Intense focus on hyperfixations to the detriment of relationships, personal health/hygiene and without regard to potential social stigma related to said fixations.
so a narc

>>33253455
Gladly

>>33253450
M
Stay golden

>>33253453
Chicks dig confidence

>>33253450
M
Men ain’t shit, be super choosy with your energy

>>33253450
M
Remember that when men give unsolicited advice during an emotional conversation where you may just be venting and not looking for an answer, it generally isn't meant to cause any harm. Usually men are expected to solve problems and they sometimes default to problem-solving in these kinds of conversations. The first thought goes to "how can we overcome" rather than commiseration. Even if you think a man is not totally socially inept and can pick up cues, it isn't always true. When we give advice, we're trying to help usually. Please give us grace before you give us a hard time for unsolicited advice

Would you say this is already kind of goth-y?

>>33253437
Humans only ever want to use other people. Dogs are always loyal and reciprocate the love you give them.

>>33253459
I consider a narc to be more of a moralizing ninny. Randal from Recess. Autists don't usually give a fuck about what others do until it directly affects them and even then they'll tend to just abandon the situation rather than confront it. Or in some cases they spazz out and start lashing out violently to themselves or others. They're not all the same.
But if I had to use a trope to define the average autist I wouldn't say "narc", I'd say "nerd."

>>33253450
>State gender.
M
>Give the opposite gender a piece of advice.
Make him actually commit before sex, not just promise to. Make him wait several months, introduce him to friends, even family. Otherwise he's probably gonna pump you and dump you.

>>33253472
>throw a tantrum whenever things don‘t go their way, just sometimes they throw a tantrum in private about it because they are too uncomfortable to do it to someones face, or they just avoid any situation where things might not go their way to begin with
sounds like what a narc would do to me

>>33253445
Do you have an ideological opposition to pet ownership or have you just truly never felt a connections between yourself and a domesticated animal? If the former, then fair enough. If the latter, that's the saddest shit I've ever heard and I feel sorry for you lol.

>>33253471
dogs are incapable of love https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxHkkaNsKOIFbRWPSI9ar0ABHMu0o80k

>>33253474
then we have different definitions of a narc and idk where you learned the word but that's not what a narc is. a narc is a snitch.

>>33253394
The Hayley Williams looking chick is staaacked

>>33253469
Yeah, it's enough. What's she wearing below the waist? And are the nails painted black?

You're most consistent fuck ups with the other gender? For me its asking women
>How old are you

>>33253477
>t. got bit by a dog one time and never learned to trust again
You were probably being retarded because you're an idiot. But thanks for that link lmfao

>>33253481
M
Accidentally glancing at their boobs.

>>33253481
Asking a woman something too quietly, then forgetting the question.

>>33253481
M
not talking to women

>>33253475
Yeah, I am against owning a living being just because you are incapable of having the social connections you crave and have to force something that can‘t defend itself to keep you company instead. Animals are wonderful beings, which is why owning pets is such a vile thing to do. And yeah, I am aware that it‘s hypocritical since animals get used in much worse ways but I would prefer if pet owners at least could admit that what they are doing is selfish and not this wholesome and innocent thing they want everyone to think it is.
Like this anon
>>33253471
A prime example.

>>33253450
M
Start valueing his personality over his height, looks and wealth.

>>33253454
>>33253456
What do women with autism obsess over then?
Because I've never met a women obsessed with trains, cars or the roman empire

>>33253450
F
Don't give up your hobbies and interests or pretend to be someone you're not for the sake of attracting someone. What's the point in it all if you have given up on your very being and abandoned all your passions?

>>33253478
narc just means they would do anything to get their way, snitching is only one way they do that

>>33253479
She has a OF. Fake tits, but great abs.

>>33253481
Being vulnerable

>>33253481
Not escalating when it’s obvious they like me

>>33253480
So black clothes, dark hair and eye liner is already goth coded? What if she had blonde hair?

>>33253490
this works for women but not for men, unless they prefer staying single for life.

>>33253481
F
Talking to them and treating them like humans
Gotta stop making that mistake

>>33253487
Okay, but I literally saved my dog from euthanasia and youth in Asia

>>33253492
>Fake tits
Shame

>>33253497
>saved my dog from euthanasia and youth in Asia
And? Maybe death would have been a kinder fate than having to be around you.

>>33253469
M, no. She just has black hair. Just liket the woman at my work with black hair, she looks like a basic bitch.
Black clothes don't make you goth either.
If she had black lipstick, something like a spiked collar or wrist band, a band shirt with some popular goth band, etc, then she would, but this is literally just someone wearing black, one of the most popular clothing colours

>>33253496
NTA
M
I'm handsome enough that I don't have to abandon any hobbies.

>>33253487
>it’s better for the animal to die on the streets instead of being saved and loved because of generic middle aged white women using their dogs as surrogate children
By your logic, the people who own pitbulls are the most noble animal owners

>>33253495
It is to me. Blonde hair works amazingly if she wears black lipstick.

>>33253492
What's her name?

>>33253490
I already feel empty and worthless with my hobbies and interests without a girlfriend. Sometimes being yourself it's not enough.

>>33253500
Then why not do yourself the kindness of killing yourself

Today I will buy some soda.

>>33253506
https://www.instagram.com/jennalynnmeowri/

>>33253487
>you are incapable of having the social connections you crave and have to force something that can‘t defend itself to keep you company instead.
Lmfao man. I get where you're coming from but you need to think for like two more seconds about your position. Are you seriously arguing that animals have a better life in the wild than they do in captivity? Their lives in the wild might be natural, sure, and they may have some of their natural impulses suppressed by humans through punishment and training, but the relationship between humans and domesticated animals like cats and dogs is far from exploitative and your assertion that pet owners are only trying to make up for a lack of connection with others is plainly retarded on its face. Again, think about that for like two more seconds. Do you *really* think that all pet owners are simply lonely and therefore subjugating a less intelligent creature to assuage that? I can all but guarantee you the amount of pet owners who have fulfilling friendships and other relationships outnumbers the amount of people that fit your caricature.
And that's not even touching on the fact that the relationship between man and domesticated animals is *purely* symbiotic. It may make you feel nice to think that a cat in its natural habitat, for example, is happier because it's living according to its instincts but you'd really have to be blind to think that a house cat's life is worse than a feral cat's. We feed them, protect them, guard their health and all we ask of them is companionship and even then you take what you can get.
People own pets because they crave companionship and in return, they pamper a creature and elevate it above the natural order. Your only real argument can be against the disruption of natural order because otherwise, house pets have objectively better lives than wild animals.

>>33253508
Mom would be sad

>>33253510
Thanks

>>33253509
I'm proud of you anon :)
You got this :)

>>33253489
>What do women with autism obsess over then?
Whatever tickles their autism? The point is that it can hardly be generalized and, if it can be, it's due to societal influence. The example I gave for women was makeup artistry, but it could be anything. Check out this very clearly autistic bitch playing irl Dwarf Fortress on her fuckin suburban plot of land, undermining her neighbours without a single fuck given because special interest:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Rb4uRanEBg

I want MORE GIRL TOUCH RIGHT NOW

>>33253511
I never argued that pet life is worse for all pets. Although it likely is for many, since most people suck ass at taking care of their pets. All I said is that its pathetic behavior from the humans side.

>>33253509
based, what kind?
I'm on the diet coke koolaid rn
>>33253502
the struggle is juggling hobbies with a full time job and dating an extroverted girl
>>33253490
>What's the point in it all if you have given up on your very being and abandoned all your passions?
damn this hits ngl
>>33253507
having a gf and less time for hobbies can also make you feel worthless tho
low self-esteem bros in the chat

>>33253469
Nah. Black lipstick you change everything though.

>>33253433
>>33253436
Its a spectrum for a reason. And you can work on it,
For me personally, I'm not actually shy or bad in social situations particularly; I'm actually very funny, apparently. I just don't really have the urge to say "hey how is your day" or similar, the small talk most people make. And I don't smile.
The chick who lives like 1 flat away from my neighbor smiles, talks normally and I wouldn't have guessed she's autistic.
Girl I went to school with was really into games (Sonic, Zelda, Pokemon) and really talktative... with her friends. And no one else.
Guy I went to school with, her brother, was coddled by his 'helper', so he'd think he can just do anything because 'he's autistic' and just hit people for no reason. We only because friends because I immediately hit him back and then he never did it to me again, so it was clearly a raised/taught behavior, but people would associate it with autism. He also calmed down (and almost instantly became fat) when he stopped taking rhytaelin, considered an autism 'cure' at the time (since autism comes from a different amount of white/grey matter, it, of course, doesn't fix shit)
My cousin is just shy and otherwise a completely normal kid, but I'm not even sure he's autistic; my sister simply kept visiting different doctors until one of them said he is, because she wanted him to be autistic for some reason. I think she was just copying me.

So tldr
It varies a lot and autistic people can just be cunts and have it attributed to autism and people can be diagnosed without having it if you're persistent enough

>>33253518
You're right most people probably shouldn't own pets. I don't agree with you that it's pathetic to own animals though, I think interacting with animals is good for humans because it allows for low stakes emotional connection and also teaches us to be more observant, responsible, knowledgeable and it gets us in touch with a primal part of humanity through interacting with nature even when we can't be in a natural context. It would be exploitative if we didn't cater to them like they were royalty lmao but most people do treat their pets better than they treat any random retard they may encounter on the street.

>>33253512
Only because of the sunk cost fallacy

>>33253481
F
Being nice. Guys think being a polite nice human being is a signal for sex or romance. I keep making this mistake over and over, part of me doesn’t want to believe guys are this bad. But that’s on me.

>>33253524
Ex-fuck boy here
I don't think that, I just think anything other than you being a cunt means I have a chance and I don't really care if I fail since I can just find another chick

>>33253394
insane to think people watch this garbage and try to glean any kind of information about natural interaction from what is basically a fucking livestreamed OF advertisement. shit is awful these days

>>33253481
on the very rare occasions I do actually meet and start dating women... historically probably drinking/partying too much, being a bit of a wildcard, and like other anons said not escalating or being vulnerable enough (though think I got past that barrier somewhat my ex)
the only women who don't care about this, are also the ones who don't want anything serious
>>33253481
>asking women how old are you
you always gotta shoot low with your guess bro
>>33253450
M
Stay safe stay based make sure your drugs aren't laced
>>33253446
>tfw just got all 180 emblems in Sonic Adventure 2 on housemate's xbox

>>33253522
>for low stakes emotional connection and also teaches us to be more observant, responsible, knowledgeable
Which is exactly why it is a red flag if you need a living being for that that asks nothing in return but some food every day.

>>33253516
Incredibly based project
What a queen

I hate women.

>pay off 1000 dollar credit card bill in one swoop
>credit score is higher than it was before the bill
I see you, bankers, tryna psyop me with dopamine numbers to take on more debt

>>33253533
oh my god i missed you i love you so much!!!
how have you been?!

>>33253529
They don't just require food. They require attention, responsibility and companionship in kind depending on their individual personalities. I'll say it again, it's plainly retarded imo to stigmatize pet ownership as some sort of exercise in domination to deal with loneliness. People who aren't lonely own pets, why do you think that is? Because the pets people usually get are inherently friendly and also seek companionship which they obviously comfortably find in their human owners. You don't have to be convinced by my position, you can think whatever you like, but is there not a point where you find taking this contrarian position with such strained fucking logic against such a ubiquitous and obviously benign thing tiresome?

>>33253433
just some common patterns that I've observed from some autistic girls I've dated and been friends with
>struggling to deviate from routine which can make them stressed on trips and when things don't go to plan
>being easily overwhelmed in busy social sitautions and struggling with loud noises and bright lights etc. (and then sometimes shutting down/becoming withdrawn and disengaged when this happens)
>sensory issues, e.g. not liking the texture of certain clothes or picky eating
>intense special interests, e.g. certain shows or games or even things like fashion/make-up
>overcompensating with masking and camouflaging, e.g. they might even be a popular stacy with their friends but feels like they have to play a character and act how they're "supposed" to all the time... which can sadly lead to feeling isolated and lonely even if they have friends
>issues with sleeping consistently and "shutting off" their brain at night
>social naivete and not being aware of dangerous situations or taking things too literally
>>33253534
based
I think the deranged part of me gets off on the risk of accruing credit card debt, being stressed how I'm gonna pay it off when I'm out of a job, then getting a phat paycheck and axing that shit lol

>>33253533
Same

>Enter bus
>No seats
>No seats
>No seats
>Aha, a seats
>Its one of those bits where 4 seats point at a table; all 3 spaces taken by girls
>Seats down on the seats
>They all instantly clam up, awkwardly look at me, one of them starts giggling
>I ask her, something funny?
>She just stares at the floor
>Bus stops
>Could move, someone got up
>Continue to make them feel awkward by sitting there, in this public space they don't own
>They eventually get off, having not spoken a word since I got on
>Switch to a new seat
Its the little things in life

>>33253535
Women are fake and say fake things.

>>33253540
> I think the deranged part of me gets off on the risk of accruing credit card debt, being stressed how I'm gonna pay it off when I'm out of a job, then getting a phat paycheck and axing that shit lol
You’re such a goated psycho bro holy fuck lmao

>>33253542
>I ask her, something funny?
bruh... defensive much?
I would've just said what's up gals and ask if anyone wants a beer

I read something moderately sexual in an fanfic and felt a rush of blood down below. Is this what a half chub feels like for guys?

>>33253546
Based drunkard drinking on a bus where that's illegal in the middle of the day

>>33253544
lol truee theyre such bitches
have they wronged you recently?

>>33253545
I also used to get off on the automated stern female voice messages from the bank asking to pay off my credit card debt
I'm just a twisted cycle path
>>33253548
fuck the law bro not like I'm the one driving the bus

>>33253531
Her fly by night engineering is pretty impressive and it seems like she learned it as she went along, but it's gonna be hilarious when she causes a cave-in on one of her neighbour's properties lmao. The bitch lives in some suburb surrounded by other people. She's already gotten visits by officials representing whatever bullshit city she's from because of constant noise and vibrations from her work. Idgaf I'm just trying to see the standoff she has with the cops when they try to shut her down. I think she lives in the US so there's like a 90% chance of the whole thing being bungled and blood being shed needlessly.

>>33253550
There’s no way bro you have to be fucking with me

>>33253539
It‘s ok anon, you can have a pet. It‘s ok if not everyone thinks you are based and wholesome.

>>33253552
which part am I fucking with you with lol?

How do I get an artist/writer/musician gf?

Art and creative stuff is the only thing I can talk about without awkward silence, I can't get along with people who are only consumers.

>>33253555
You jerked off to the bank’s automated female voice message findomming you. I refuse to believe this

>His IRON MAST penetrated my TENDER FLOWER, I felt THE INTENSE HEAT, as HOT COALS WERE BURNING DIRECTLY INTO MY NETHERS, BURNING AWAY MY INNOCENSE. He held me TIGHT in his STRONG, DEPENDABLE ARMS. He looked me in my eyes and I could SEE HIS SOUL, as he smirked, grabbed me by the throat and choked me. It FELT AMAZING. It couldn't breathe. I couldn't move. All I could do was feel HIS LOVE as he PUMPED HIS PISTON-LIKE, BURNING HOT, IRON-ROD in and out of my MOST VULERNABLE AREA. I DIED. It WAS GREAT

So questions:
A: Why do women write like this
B: Does a penis actually feel that hot inside?

>>33253549
>have they wronged you recently?
I woulder what it would take for them to stop.

>>33253557
What is there to talk about?

>>33253554
I'm going to crush him into a ball and you can't stop me

>>33253559
this was written by a man

>>33253562
Sounds psychopathic.

>>33253563
I said LIKE THIS not THE SAME learn TO READ

>>33253566
idk what kind of tranny smut you consume but I have never seem anything written like this

They hate you because you work for a better life, their bitterness and envy has damned them

>>33253568
>Trannies out of nowhere
legitimately obssessed

>>33253558
oh no I didn't actually jerk off lol I just thought it was pretty hot

>>33253570
>man writing how he thinks women write and trying to pass it off as female writing
>out of nowhere
ok

>>33253569
based. stay grinding stay based
>>33253488
>M
>his
bruh
>>33253469
I don't think so, but it's a nice look

>>33253573
We keep it based man we keep it very based

>>33253559
This is very clearly not written by a woman. Let me fix it for you:

>His STINKROD penetrated my SNOTPOCKET, I felt SUCCULENT THROBBING, as HOT COALS WERE BURNING DIRECTLY INTO MY TUBES, BURNING AWAY MY CHLAMYDIA. He held me TIGHT in his STRONG, MANIPULABLE ARMS. He looked me in my eyes and I could SEE THE REFLECTION OF HIS CASHAPP BALANCE, as he smirked, grabbed me by the throat and choked me. It GAVE FIFTY SHADES. It couldn't breathe. I couldn't move. All I could do was feel THE POTENTIAL TO HAVE A CHILD AND HOLD IT AGAINST HIM AT A LATER DATE as he PUMPED HIS BURNING HOT PIZZLE in and out of my MOST PROFITABLE AREA. I DIED. THE FUNERAL WAS SAD BUT EVERYONE PAID ATTENTION TO ME

need a gf like this
spontanious, funny, smart, hard-working, loves her job, good sense of style

>>33253391
M, if you can get it then reception desk, it's mostly pretty chill
else maybe working as a cashier or selling tickets etc.

>>33253356
>boobs thread
why do I miss all the fun around here...
>>33253577
based
glad I'm not the only one who thought this bitch was hot
>>33253575
basadoo

>>33253577
You should try and seduce that chick Samantha Quick on instagram
https://www.instagram.com/samanthaquick_/
She's like how I imagine Ms. Frizzle would be if the Frizz was younger and hotter. God I wanna cruise down Samantha's main street. She's a natural redhead, you just know the bush is straight copper. I'd floss my teeth with her pubes if she'd let me. Tell her to answer my DMs

>>33253581
bro is nutting quick to her posts

>>33253450
M
Wear a fucking bra or get used to people staring. I don't know why, but so many women just aren't wearing them right now. Saw some 60 year old looking granny with her nipples out yesterday. Bitch think she's immune to being perved on? I

>>33253526
lol whiny cunt-boy complains about nice people

>>33253583
Nipples poke through bras you pervert.

>>33253583
>you have to cover your tits all the time else it's indecent!!11 and yes I will ogle you
America moment

How do I explain to my niece that just because the guy she likes isn't in to her, it doesn't mean she's ugly? She seems genuinely incapable of comprehending men have types and aren't universally attracted to the same women.
Am I wasting my time and I should just leave her to wallow in misery since she's like 17 and people are retards at 17

I approached a hot chick in a bar i was really into. Said that i like her style and she's cute and if she wants to grab a drink sometime. She said we can get a drink, but in a few days she'll try to find time. She proposed Telegram for contact but i don't use it so she gave me her IG instead.

She accepted my request next day and started following me back, i asked her about meeting up/grabbing a drink and she said that these days she's busy but will try to find some time with a happy emoji and i just told her to let me know when we can meet and she heart emoji my replies.

Should i try to remind her or ask her once a week is up? I thought that if she wanted to ghost me or ignore me she could just delete me as follower or just simply not follow me back or just not respond so it doesn't make much sense. Also she sort of has an excuse to be busy - she's a foreigner and was part of something that looked like a student/corpo party at the bar.

Question to girls - should i just wait or is it fine to ask her again after few days?

>>33253450
M
Learn to twerk.
The consistently best sex I ever had in my life was with women who knew how to do it at a basic level at least

Do women ever smell their fingers or taste it after schlicking

>>33253453
Unironically what the fuck does this mean.

>>33253595
Stop feeling sorry for yourself all the time and coming up with a million ways to justify feeling sorry for yourself. This advice also applies to women.

>>33253594
>smell
yeah
>taste
no

Women, if your man told you he wanted to offer a bunch of money to a shy virgin girl from a poor background who didn't want to but needed the money, in order to devastate her ass would you let him, what would you think about him

>>33253599
Yeah, why not. Sounds like a good investment of our money. Happy man, happy afghan.

>>33253596
Are you ever allowed to feel sorry for your own situation or are you just supposed to put up a stoic front to appease you and your ilk? I get being annoyingly negative, but if you leave no room for a man to vent you'll only get a shadow of a person. Don't be surprised when you learn something new about a person to presumed to have known because you didn't leave room for it to show itself earlier due to your own callousness.

>>33253590
Anon, you can't trust any initial interest or attraction they seem to show. The moment you try to go on a date or ask her out, they can do a 180.

>>33253598
why one and not the other, what does it smell like

>>33253604
dude imagine if she did a 1080 tho

>>33253602
lmao, don't bother. For them feeling sorry for yourself means feeling sad because something bad happened to you and needing time to process it.

> but if you leave no room for a man to vent you'll only get a shadow of a person. Don't be surprised when you learn something new about a person to presumed to have known because you didn't leave room for it to show itself earlier due to your own callousness.

Why the fuck would they care?

>>33253602
>stoic front
No, you are supposed to actually not feel sorry for yourself, not just pretend you don’t. You are supposed to change what you can and stop whining about what you can‘t change. It‘s not that hard.

>>33253605
Because I only check to see if everything is healthy and in balance, not because I am a degenerate pervert.

Don’t take it to heart and you’ll be fine.

she told me in a roundabout way she loves me (“thats what i do for someone i love”) we aren’t even official yet and only exclusively dating for 3 weeks. is it a red flag? im nowhere near that level

>>33253616
Depends on what they did.

>>33253613
Yeah, so put up a stoic front then. That's exactly what you're saying.
Emotions can be dealt with as they come up, but initial emotional reactions can hardly be helped in the moment. One feeling sorry for themselves, when they don't let it consume them over a long period of time or allow it to colour their behaviour toward those closest to them is healthy in moderation. Expecting Buddhist-level emotional control from your average person is a fool's errand and will lead to constant disappointment. Not to mention it's inconsiderate and selfish to expect such a thing.
Mind you, I agree it should be the goal for people to try to disregard the things they can't control and focus on what they can, but you have to realize that's not the first impulse for most people. It takes practice and what you're describing is a cornerstone of stoicism lol, so once again you're asking people who are close enough to you to be emotionally open to be stoic and to avoid opening up to you. If that keeps you happy, then more power to you. But expecting others to abide by your philosophical precepts and then being upset when they react emotionally is kind of the definition of caring about matters you can't possibly control.

>>33253619
i was ill and she was taking care of me basically

>>33253630
That’s not too bad then. Means she cares a lot.

>>33253604
I mean sure, fair. The thing is if it makes sense to ask her again?

>>33253629
I never said I expect it or am upset if they don‘t. All I said is that getting over yourself is the goal of maturity when asked about what advice I would give the opposite gender. If you are over the age of 25 and still feel sorry for yourself the majority of the time something unpleasant happens, then yeah, I do not need that kind of immature and whiny behavior in my life, but feel free to cry yourself to sleep and punch walls because another day failed to treat you like you are the center of the universe.

>>33253630
She means what she says. Do you plan on reciprocating or will you break her heart? What's she like? She sounds sweet

>>33253450
M
Spread legs.

>>33253596
Makes sense. I'm sure the anonettes in this place would love us as winners.

Bit of a stretch but I need help from anons on how to get this endgame.

>>33253644
Has nothing to do with being a winner. Has to do with being able to handle losing with dignity.

>>33253638
I agree with you but only because you clarified that you meant feeling sorry for oneself the majority of the time. Of course that's perfectly understandable, no one wants to deal with constant whining and defeatism. All I was saying is that, within reason and considering moderation, it is healthy to vent to those who you trust to listen which would include a partner and I think it's incumbent on a partner to be there (again, within reason). There's a middle road between being an emotional tampon for a man child and a stone wall for a man who just needs someone to listen, would you agree?

>>33253638
The hypocrisy…

>>33253596
>Stop feeling sorry for yourself all the time
what the hell, that's like one of my favourite hobbies though
nah but in all seriousness I agree with ya. less morosing more action
>>33253602
>this means I can never express my feelings ever!
why y'all gotta take things to extremes lol
>>33253616
she sounds sweet, I'm guessing she's quite a young girl tho
>>33253644
wtf is this wish.com chess board
I'd move the pony up one and right two to check, then bro is cooked

>>33253644
Rook takes rook then put your black horse in the middle.

>>33253652
>this means I can never express my feelings ever!
>why y'all gotta take things to extremes lol
I didn't say that and I'm not taking it to the extreme lol. I'm asking when it's acceptable for that person to have their partner feel sorry for themselves. They made a pretty declarative statement without any nuance

>>33253648
>There's a middle road between being an emotional tampon for a man child and a stone wall for a man who just needs someone to listen, would you agree?
I never said someone can‘t have a need for comfort. Thats fine. But there is a difference between mourning the death of your father and using your loss as an excuse to not take any responsibility for your life anymore. One is human, the other is pathetic. Ofc you can have tome to grieve but if it turns into you not leaving your bed anymore, losing your job, not paying the bills and letting your kids fend for themselves just because daddy isn’t here anymore to shield you from all consequences in life then you are a worm. You‘d be amazed how many people can‘t get over loss simply because losing that person inconveniences them by forcing them to take responsibility for themselves. Ofc that’s just one example of a million possible ones to make that distinction.

>>33253639
i don’t know. i have no clue what i am feeling or what i am supposed to feel at this point. id hate to have her develop even stronger feelings while i keep this going and don’t feel it myself. she is indeed very sweet and there’s chemistry, time together feels effortless. i have some issues with vulnerability which probably prevents me from feeling all the way.

>>33253657
well I can't speak for them but I'm presuming they're mainly talking about the whiny types here who are constantly self-pitying and making excuses for why they are doomed etc.
I would like to think that they're not a psychopath and their partner could vent frustrations or feel sad sometimes

:)

>>33253659
>if it turns into you not leaving your bed anymore, losing your job, not paying the bills
tfw I did this when my gf left me lol
back on the grind now though

>>33253516
>her

>>33253665
Skibbii, I say. Skibiidi. He looks at me with a look of a man looking at a man he is looking at. He reponds, "rizz". I feel it. the pain. In my heart. I have no rizz, and he knew it. I am skibidi alone.

>>33253668
Ermmmm are you being a worm or something? Just don’t feel emotions bro!

>>33253669
>bro is triggered

>>33253669
>Just don’t feel emotions bro!
bro is entering his villain arc

>>33253671
It’s two things I hate: the arrogance and the hypocrisy. The retardation and callousness are secondary. I’d blast this bitch to pieces.

>>33253659
Sure, I don't necessarily disagree although I think I would say that you can't be too strict about the length of grief or sorrow; everyone is different and some will take more or less time than others. But there's certainly a limit. And I agree that people can and do regularly abuse the leeway people give others who've suffered a loss or whatever to manipulate people into taking care of them and allowing them to acquiesce their own responsibilities. Really I think I only disagreed with you initially because your statement was short and very black and white. I just hope that in your personal life, when it comes to a partner experiencing hardship, you know when to thread the needle between being there and being taken advantage of. It can be pretty delicate, but I'm guessing you speak from experience so I'm not telling you the news.

>>33253674
>you can only say something true if you are flawless yourself
ok

>>33253672
You can control your emotions. If you refuse to do that, everything that happens to you is your own fault.

>>33253678
This, unirnically
I spelte that corekt

>>33253678
now you are starting to get it

>>33253677
It’s not the truth though. Tell me more about having pets is evil though, you fucking retarded cretin.

>>33253682
never said it‘s evil, just pathetic in most cases

>>33253661
One would hope but imagine you get into a car crash and lose your entire lower body forcing you to get around by rolling around on one of those little fuckin trolleys they used to pull out for gym class and ya gf gets mad at you for being a pussy because you're upset about it

>>33253683
That anon is sure giving you a lot of credit you don’t deserve, huh?

>>33253661
I am diagnosed as having an impaired sense of empathy but only a little I think

>>33253678
You can control your emotions, but initial emotional reactions often come on suddenly and can take some time to come to grips with depending on each individual's capabilities. It may come as a shock, but not everyone can deal with the same emotional shocks as easily as others. If you expect that they can, you will always be disappointed.

>>33253686
maybe you should go do a little self harm over it

>>33253667
I've seen his vagina

>>33253690
Nta but nobody said anything about initial reaction. Although if you don‘t feel like the victim 24/7 to begin with, your initial reactions to almost all things will be less pathetic by default. The issue is more with the drawn out whining and wallowing.

>>33253667
>>33253695
That was my first thought too...
But some autistic women are just incredibly autistic, so I wouldn't even be surprised if it's a biological woman.

But anyway, I feel incredibly sorry for the neighbours.

>Girl showing me her magic tricks, bragging about how creative she is
>Ask her how that's creative, like, did she invent any of the tricks?
>No, she learned from youtube
>Ask again how its creative to just copy other people, copying other people, copying other people, copying the guy who ACTUALLY created it
>She gets angry, calls me a fag and leaves
>Get told I'm the bad guy
autism sucks
but I still don't see how that's creative

>>33253616
>>33253630
I wasn't there but I feel delivery matters here. I can hear it as a cutesy "get ready for more where this came from" - she could be implying this is down the line for you more than that she already loves you. But it could also be a red flag where she did mean to imply she loves you already.

Did you invite her over or did she invite herself over? Honestly I think three weeks is also too early to have your brand new bf/gf come over and take care of you. She isn't wrong that that's something you do for someone you love - family, your best friends. If she invited herself over then yeah it could be a red flag that she is trying to get super serious super fast. If you asked her to look after you then consider that does give off the message you are quite serious about her.

>>33253709
it‘s not, very little things people claim to be creative actually is
so what? you just nod and smile and clap and tell people what they want to hear so they leave you alone

>>33253709
People like her are annoying.

But people like you are outright insufferable.

>>33253709
>party pooper anon plays victim
Autism indeed.

>>33253489
You're probably long gone but: people. I don't know how common it is for women with autism overall, but the cliche equivalent to the train obsession would be the woman who's the head of the "[typically niche celebrity] fanclub" and can tell you literally everything about them. It has the same obsession where details like what she's allergic to are equally important and meaningful as details like her having a child or not.

This obsession can also be with a "normal" person, a friend of friends, someone in their class.

>>33253678
>You can control your emotions
meanwhile me crashing out over the tiniest inconvenience
>>33253709
"creativity" is somewhat subjective and I agree monkey see monkey do is not really creative. but she's learning the tricks, maybe putting her own spin on them, putting on a show and keeping the audience's attention requires some level of ingenuinty
needs moar context though, I'm playing devil's advocate here
>>33253718
this tho, even if it's not creative at all, just smile and clap lol

>>33253719
Wish she would obsess over my dick and balls that way...

How much does being skinny influence whether a guy will ask a girl out

>>33253705
I did. I said earlier that initial reactions and the subsequent fallout have to be allowed a certain amount of grace but within reason.
It's fair to not want to have to deal with a constantly malding, emotional manchild who can't get a grip, no shit. No one actually respects people who put up with nonsense like that on a long term basis and no one wants to have to deal with someone doing that with no end in sight.
What I'm saying is that there are levels and nuance to your assertion and what an individual or couple is willing to put up with will be vastly different from another. You already explained what you consider to be your limit, it's not unreasonable. I'm just saying when you say something like "get over yourself" it sounds callous and gives the impression that you wouldn't care what your partner had to say if they were hurting one way or the other, as though their feelings don't matter.

>>33253709
So you define creativity as creatio ex nihilo? Someone playing an instrument typically did not invent either the instrument or the music they are playing. Even someone writing music from scratch, will be influenced by the music they have heard and loved.

Creativity is about finding new, surprising ways to combine things or give personal touches to them. The myth of the lone creator is really romantic but it is hardly real in practie. And I say this as someone who does make original work - but it's not coming from the vacuum that is your genius mind.

You were combative and belittling over something she did to show off and have fun together. You were mean, basically, even apart from being right or wrong. You rained on her parade. Bragging or not, she tried to include you in the fun.

>>33253725
Its not about being skinny, its about not being a landwhale.

>>33253725
M skinny
I refrain from asking girls out.

>>33253719
I'm about to hang you from a cross because you just spoke gospel. it's real

>>33253730
I don't know why you're responding like you didn't read my post.
She explicitly stated her tricks were just from youtube.
There was no spin on them.
It was monkey see monkey do flatly.

>>33253726
I was not trying to be subtle, nuanced or exhaustive in my one sentence post. Anyone that takes it as an attack on them is exactly the kind of person I meant with it.

>>33253709
with due respect: kill yourself nigga
captcha: 4vrgn lol

>>33253719
>don't know how common it is for women with autism overall
nta but I think it's pretty common from what I've observed, with guys leaning more towards interest in "things" and women towards people, even if they're fictional characters in a fandom they know everything about and try to dissect their psychology etc. lol
pretty sure my ex masked well but was on the spectrum, as a bubbly extrovert she was very interested in people. but to the point where she would ramble on and on about minor details as if it was the most important thing ever lol
>>33253725
do you mean the guy or the girl being skinny lol?
don't think one's looks are much of a factor at all in how outgoing and bold a person is desu
skinny girl might get hit on a bit more but still depends on her figure and how overall attractive and noticeable/charming she is

>>33253734
You're assuming that this is her final form, that she cannot use the power of creativity to improve upon this initial offering. This is just her starting position, and she is seeking feedback for her to address and adjust creatively.

>>33253738
She's been doing magic for 7 years

I may have landed a 9/10 fwb brosisters..
>going out for the third time
>ask her if she wants to have sex
>she says sure but not today
>she will text me when shes ready
>not looking for anything serious just casual
>shes way out of my league
of course, Id prefer a serious relationship but Ill take what I can get. that is if she doesnt change her mind

>>33253735
If you say so. I'm certain you can see what I mean, even if you won't admit it outright. You seem miserable, I'm not gonna lie to you. How often do you reckon you complain about stuff to others? How often do others listen?

>>33253742
she will never contact you again, lol

>>33253741
Thanks for leaving that out of the story. I like how you hide details from us for no reason.

>>33253744
what gives me hope is that she texted me after today. if she wasnt interested at all she wouldve just ghosted me right afterwards

>>33253744
This.
Nothing indicates that she wants him and hot girls aren't going to do hook-ups with mid guys.

>>33253743
See what? That there is nuance to it? Yeah ofc, but as I said, the people that think there is no nuance to it are exactly the people that need that advice.
>You seem miserable
Because I think endless whining is pathetic?
>How often do you reckon you complain about stuff to others? How often do others listen?
In general I only tell people what bothers me if they ask. The people around me, I have told repeatedly that I prefer to just deal with stuff on my own since talking about it just gives it more stage presence for absolutely no reason. Or are you making the argument that one can only have an idea of what ideal human behavior would look like if one is able to always pull it off oneself 100%?

>>33253749
>hot girls aren't going to do hook-ups with mid guys
lol slutty girls do this all the time bro

>>33253734
I did read your post, but there's no such thing as "no spin on them". If you are from memory reenacting a trick, you are performing it in your own way, even if it's wooden or you stick to what you saw.

It's like how singing a cover without a spin is still performing a song.

And as the other anon pointed out, this is usually how people start getting creative, you take baby step first. You sing a bunch of covers before you start giving them more of a twist or writing your own songs. You can't just go from never attempting anything to mastering an art form. It is quite possible that her doing these tricks she saw is step 1 to branching out and thinking of her own stuff - but that won't happen if people make her feel like she should be ashamed for not being "creative enough". If you ask me the contrast between just watching the videos and trying to do that stuff irl is more significant than her doing a trick she saw vs doing her own trick. The fact that she didn't stop at watching but got inspired to give it a try is big.

All this said of course you are technically correct that it's hardly a creative accomplishment. But it sounds to me like she was just super proud to even dip her toe in and that is fair I think.

>>33253583
Pasties

>>33253742
lmao even
lol
Good luck being on standby for two years until her usual rotation is unavailable for some reason.

>>33253741
Other anon and it would've gone over a lot better if instead of saying it wasn't creative at all, you said something closer to
>wow so after seven years and getting lots of practice, don't you dream of doing your own magic? did you ever try that?
showing interest rather than judgment.

>>33253742
>didn’t have sex
You already failed

>>33253742
>not looking for anything serious just casual
>shes way out of my league
I mean so long as you're not really worried about catching feelings or whatever, and just keep an eye on things, then fuck it might as well go for it
been in this situation before and honestly if I could go back in time I would tell my younger self to stop being an overthinking faggot and just have sex with her lol

Do women like knees?

>>33253751
>bro bro plss brooo pls bro vegana
They don't, pajeet.

>>33253749
>>33253751
This, hot girls can get hot guys easily/whenever, if anything they care more about getting fucked well instead of just getting fucked. Girls with average looks are much more likely to get giddy and forgiving over a guy being handsome than a stunning girl.

>>33253762
Why didn't she fuck him when they met then? Looks like this >>33253754 will happen instead

>>33253756
>>33253754
if she truly wasnt interested she couldve just blocked me or ghosted me afterwards, but she didnt
she said she liked me, and mentioned particular things but also that she doesnt want a serious relationship because she wants to focus on her work. but I asked her if shes still okay with just having sex then and she said yes

but im not keeping my hopes too high till weve actually done the deed
>>33253757
that i imagine is going to be difficult if it becomes a regular thing

>>33253764
Full disclosure I just jumped on the "hot girls don't hook up with mid-guys" part, reading the greentext it does sound like she is probably not interested. Or she is actually used enough to lots of attention that she will hit him up for a bootycall exactly the moment she feels like it (and probably never again).

>>33253765
>if she truly wasnt interested she couldve just blocked me or ghosted me
Because you're slightly viable for the purpose and she prefers to keep you available, along with like 30 other men.

I've had lots of girls interested in me over the years, but I literally never had a situation of perfectly mutual attraction. There was always an imbalance.
Either I was not interested, or she seemed indifferent.
Sometimes the imbalance would even switch.
Like I'd become interested and then she'd lose interest.

At this point I am starting to question if this is just normal life. Like do people always settle or be settled for?

>>33253755
Oh she is a magician though, that's the convo that lead to her showing off. Self-taught and apparently quite succesful

>>33253769
>wah wah wah it was never perfect like in my anime

>>33253765
It’s still not a fwb if you haven’t had sex

>>33253773
You don't have to be an asshole about it.

>>33253386
Sweet amnimal liking mannnn <3

>>33253776
Says who? You? And who are you?

need mature woman to spit on me, use all my cash and cuck me
women, can you relate?

>>33253394
Idk. They're both sperging.

>>33253765
>if she truly wasnt interested she couldve just blocked me or ghosted me afterwards, but she didnt
This isn't always the case. Girls keep orbiters around for validation. Did you kiss her at least?

>>33253400
Of?

>>33253782
no kiss. where we are its kind of taboo to do that in public

well we'll see. Unfortunately she gave me hope. but I got other prospects as well so the blow wouldnt be too hard if it turns out to be nothing

Women should look more like anime.

>>33253772
Okay then I do understand your reaction better. At the same time it also does not surprise me she would probably be extra thin-skinned if this is her actual profession (?) or at least a big part of her identity. At the same time, if she is quite successful, apparently she can do something well. I know next to nothing about magic tricks but I do know the details matter most and it is less about understanding/doing the trick and more about how smooth and skilled you are with directing the audience's attention and playing with their expectations, manipulating them subtly basically.

>>33253450
F
Ask things genuinely. Stop spamming the thread.

>>33253785
I disagree. Anime girls look like a mix between hypersexualized children and those bobbleheads, huge heads on tiny necks and all that.

>>33253634
Why not. She'll pobably ghost you or invent some bullshit excuse if she doesn't want to.

M
Feeling hot girl happy today :^)

>>33253765
>that i imagine is going to be difficult if it becomes a regular thing
>doesnt want a serious relationship because she wants to focus on her work. but I asked her if shes still okay with just having sex then and she said yes
well idk what experience you have but sounds like it could be some summer fun desu, just watch yo feelings
>>33253761
I mean I'm pretty mid (maybe a bit above average) and I literally went out with a model who wanted casual sex kek (I knew her from highschool though tbf). and another very good looking friend proposed being fwb (she slept around a lot), probably hotter than I could ever date seriously
a lot of people who like casual sex are often less picky because, well, it's just casual, there's no strings attached. all of the considerations of anything serious and is this person a good match and I can't sleep with anyone else anymore blah blah go out the window.
the way I see it it's like taking a temporary summer job vs. committing to a career. if you just want some cash in the summer to have fun then fuck it you might take any job that presents itself to you and try to enjoy it and have a laugh. if you're deciding on a college course and what career to seriously pursue etc. you're gonna put a lot more thought into it to make sure it's a good longterm investment
>>33253764
>Why didn't she fuck him when they met then?
presumably because she didn't know him at all lol and hadn't built any intimacy/trust yet
>>33253769
I think this is pretty normal desu just statistically
not that I think people should settle, but you're way more likely to meet somebody where one person feels more strongly about the other, than that you're both legit crazy about each other
>>33253772
>Self-taught and apparently quite succesful
even if she is mostly mimicking others' tricks then, surely this requires at least some creativity and talent to make a name for yourself?

>>33253789
Deep down, all men crave Funko Pops.

>>33253792
>surely this requires at least some creativity and talent to make a name for yourself?
Apparently no, evidently, since she had none.
You act like most people aren't wowed by something as simple as a coin vanish.

>>33253505
Ok I'll wear it more.

>>33253794
>mfw

>>33253794
>>33253797
theyre ugly as fuck
id be more likely to buy really nice stick

>>33253557
What about music/art?

>>33253795
>You act like most people aren't wowed by something as simple as a coin vanish.
So are you saying anyone could easily make a bunch of money doing magic? I don't think that's true...

>>33253750
>Because I think endless whining is pathetic?
That's not why. You come off as hostile at worst and abrasive at best, but that could just be the way you type.
>In general I only tell people what bothers me if they ask. The people around me, I have told repeatedly that I prefer to just deal with stuff on my own
This is good for you and perfectly valid, but I'm sure you understand that individuals are different and have differing needs for interaction and commiseration when they deal with issues. You don't have to change your stance, I'm not trying to change your mind but I am trying to convince you to not be as staunch in your position as you make yourself out to be considering that you've already acknowledged the potential for nuance and variance in your stance.
>Or are you making the argument that one can only have an idea of what ideal human behavior would look like if one is able to always pull it off oneself 100%?
No. I'm saying that human behaviour when it comes to emotional matters is not easily generalized and when you hold a stance of "get over yourself" in response to emotional turmoil, you risk alienating someone who is already in turmoil. What I've argued for this entire time is a certain grace toward emotional turmoil, because stoicism in the face of real hardship is more of an ideal than a reality for most and also generally can be eased with support from those closest. The point is that there is a balance to be struck like I said earlier. I'm not sure why you accuse me of thinking people have to be perfect to have an idea of ideal human behaviour when you are the one demanding that others adhere to your ideal of emotional maturity.

>>33253803
Sure, I can pick locks which is considered slight of hand so I could actually just take money if I was so inclined

State gneder
Would you date funk pop

>>33253794
If I was going to collect a bunch of plastic toys I'd at least go for proper action figures or legos or something mildly interesting, funkos are deliberately ugly and uninteresting, the corporate memphis of toys

How is Russia Jewish, but also Ukraine is Jewish?

>>33253588
You're supposed to say "many fish in sea"

>>33253772
>>33253795
You're not exactly a reliable narrator, leaving details out and only dropping them to add twists. If she's reasonably successful at this then I'm more likely to believe that she is more skilled and creative than you portray her as, and you're just assuming otherwise for personal reasons.

>>33253734
Retard. How do you think people learn these things. Do you think they just have a natural affinity for sleight of hand? They may, but like any good discipline you're best being taught by a master. Rather than pay for courses, your girl learned it on her own using free resources and you want to shit on her for it? Can you do anything nearly as cool as a basic magic trick?

>>33253599
Beat to death, nonswiftly

>>33253811
Everything I don't like is Jewish. Everything I do like is Jewish too, but in a different way. It's complicated.

>>33253795
>no, evidently, since she had none
you seem quite hellbent on denying that she has any creativity or ingenuity lol
even if she is blatantly copying others' tricks, I do think that a certain level of creative thinking is required to put on a fun and engaging show and read the crowd well

>>33253808
I think you are underestimating everything that goes into it. People are watching that stuff to be entertained, you need to be a good entertainer. You need a good sense of timing. To feel fully comfortable in front of a crowd. Ability to improvise. Charisma, it helps if you're someone people like to look at. If you are independent then you need to invest in getting a professional network and getting your name out there. You need to establish your brand and promote. There's the administration and choosing people to support you, how many, in which way.

A lot of stuff looks super easy when you have never actually tried it. But even being successful on OnlyFans - where you'd say you really do not need much more than youth and looks people want to see - is only for a niche minority and most fail.

>>33253811
Everything could be considered Jewish if you squunt hard enough. I mean, if Zelensky alone could determine the fate of Ukraine during and after the war, isn't it to some extent under Jewish influence? Obliquely of course, I'm sure politically they diverge in some spaces.

>>33253815
No, the convo is pretty easy to understand
>What do you do for work
>Oh, I'm very creative you know; I do magic
>How is that creative
I just wanted to know

>>33253725
I'm not going to ask you out, it's 2025 you have to do all the work.

>>33253823
This is your first time meeting her, and she's uncreative because she didn't have an advanced routine prepared in advance for your first meeting?

>>33253805
>alienating someone who is already in turmoil
As I said before, having a valid emotional reaction to a situation and wanting to talk about it with the people in your life is np, what is a problem is if everything is a huge deal and an emergency and you always find a way to feel sorry for yourself much longer than necessary. In that case the goal is to alienate people like that because I don‘t need that in my life. There is no point in trying to convince me otherwise, I know I am not cold hearted or cruel, I just know when emotions turn pathetic and that there is seldomly any coming back from that once someone has chosen to go down that path.

>>33253818
So you wouldn't mind it if your man devastated your ass?

>>33253821
None of that is creativity though.
I did not question her charisma or skill, just her claim of creativity

>>33253826
Third

>>33253745
What else to expect from a autist?

>>33253829
And what could she have done to convince you of her creativity, put on an impromptu show for you right there in that moment?

>>33253829
Truly fucking hate incredibly autistic retards like you.

>>33253829
>I did not question her charisma or skill, just her claim of creativity
You said in the post I replied to that since you could pick a lock, you probably could make a bunch of money doing magic tricks. That is downplaying her skills that went into it.

>>33253832
Tell me she had tricks she made herself.
I never told her to show me anything original, I just questioned her claim.

Do women like a big dumb loud cheerful himbo that loves to prank people and have a laugh when he's drunk

>>33253828
You do not need ass, faggot sodom.
This is not the hole you are looking for.

>>33253837
pranking people is subhuman behavior, so no

>>33253837
If you're pranking people on TV, you will be loved.
If you're not on TV, you will not be loved.

>>33253835
What does this have to do with her being creative or not.
I know I'm the diagnosed retard here but you people are being very dense
>Hanging out with girl I like
>She makes claim
>I question it
>Its over
Its that simple

>>33253836
>questioned her claim
Anon if someone tells you they're a magician it's fine to ask more about it, but coming out the gate criticizing anything she says about it is stupid. Like if you said
>I like painting warhammer guys as a creative outlet
and a girl said
>I don't see how that's creative
you don't see how that comes off as hostile no matter what your response is?

>>33253843
you want to be right or get your dick sucked faggot?

>see bunch of zoomzooms
>realise I'm old
Turning 30 feels like hell I might as well kill myself.

>>33253836
>>33253843
It comes off as you being unnecessarily aggressive and confrontational. It's your third meeting, she shouldn't already be on the defensive.

>>33253846
bye bye

>>33253843
The point is that it’s not that simple. You being fundamentally incapable of understanding that is why people are frustrated with you. It has nothing to do with the reality of it, it’s all about feelings, an arena you are woefully under skilled in, apparently. Also yeah, you’re an unreliable narrator so it definitely contributes, makes you look like you’re hiding something.

>>33253843
>you people are being very dense
No.
We all understood you, despite you being utterly abysmal at story telling.

>>33253827
>As I said before, having a valid emotional reaction to a situation and wanting to talk about it with the people in your life is np, what is a problem is if everything is a huge deal and an emergency and you always find a way to feel sorry for yourself much longer than necessary.
We're already in agreement about that. Everyone's conception of "grace" is going to be different and you have every right to set your own limits. If that works for you then whatever, enjoy yourself and I'll take your word for the rest of what you said.
Now what if someone you knew well and respected had their cat, an enslaved creature meant only to assuage the loneliness of its owner, died (and we'll assume you didn't poison the cat for this example but I know you would) and this person was upset about it. How long would you allow the to grieve before you told them that you think the cat is better off dead than enslaved to them?

>>33253843
>What does this have to do with her being creative or not.
I am trying to say that you are probably underestimating the creativity that went into her routines. You are clearly underestimating the level of skill/talent necessary to make it for yourself as a self-taught magician. That should be a hint to you that you should more seriously consider that you might just be a really tough crowd rather than that she lacked creativity.

Basically, if you have no issue glossing over how much skills she would need to make money from this, it is just likely that you are also glossing over how much creativity went into her "monkey see monkey do" routines.

>>33253844
I didn't critiscize her. I questioned her claim. I did not say being unoriginal is bad, I was just curious how she was original.

>>33253845
Neither, oral sex is gross.

>>33253847
I know, this is why autism sucks

It reminds me of when I was in school drawing and kid looked over and said I should be in art class, so I reponded with
>I am
And scared him off
Rather than
>Thanks

>>33253843
how come you needed three meetings to get to the topic of what she does for a living?

>>33253837
That depends on if he only does light hearted lil pranks and word slips.
I could see it being cute and attractive.

>>33253854
>Neither, oral sex is gross
With every post you out yourself as an even bigger unlikeable cunt.

>>33253823
>for work
nta but this is the first time you've mentioned that she's a self-taught career magician of many years lol
this does require coming up with a persona, marketing yourself, putting together shows that people actually want to see/pay you for, crowd participation/engagement, costuming and props and other accoutrements even if she's just doing kids' birthday parties and stuff
we are arguing semantics but imo you are being pedantic and have a very narrow-minded idea of what constitutes "creativity" lol
>>33253837
what kind of pranks are we talking kek
>>33253846
walk up to them with a skateboard and backwards cap and say "how do you do, fellow kids"? then you'll be down with the youth, ya dig
>>33253854
>this is why autism sucks
remember the old adage "if you can't say something nice, don't say anyhing at all"
instead of criticising her lack of creativity if you disagreed with that claim, you could've instead commented on her skill executing the tricks or whatever lol

>>33253851
I‘d never poison anyone or anything. If people want to be pathetic, thats their own problem, not mine, but don‘t expect me to treat your cat like it‘s a baby.
If your cat dies you get about three times and three months of talking about how you miss it and how you are sad. After that, you are overdoing it.

>>33253855
First was a group meeting, second was a 'pet date', third was in a cafe

>>33253854
People read your story and feel like you're intentionally leaving out details, so we begin to believe that you may not be telling the truth.
Do you like it when we act like you aren't telling the truth?
Now imagine how she feels when you act like she isn't telling the truth.

I would like to formally apologize to native atogans, whose webpage my forefathers colonized and enslaved.

>>33253863
Aspies who are this bad don’t feel empathy.

>>33253854
>autism suck
Why not be honest and admit that you know exactly what to say in those situations but you prefer to make people feel uncomfortable instead because it makes you feel superior?

How do I deal with aging parents? They're both showing signs of dementia.

>>33253863
I mean its a conversation. We learn as we go. I am fairly indifferent.

>>33253860
Yes, I know what I did wrong. I'm not sure why people act like I don't get that.

>>33253867
I don't.

>>33253870
>I don‘t
Not only a sociopath but also a liar, I see.

>>33253870
> I'm not sure why people act like I don't get that.
You aren’t giving the normal emotional response.

>>33253861
Lmao is that three times in three months? So one complaint a month? Again, whatever works for you. I think it's funny to imagine someone you care about complaining for the fourth time and you immediately dropping him. I do hope you let people know your limits before they begin sobbing at you. Otherwise how could they possibly know?

Im getting anxious
I have so many positive prospects
usually that means something bad is about to happen

>>33253871
But I knew I hurt her feelings and was sad about it. That's not sociopathy.

>>33253872
I'm autistic.

>>33253874
You'll deal with it.

>>33253876
Ok so then you know why people are acting like you don’t get it. Why say that?

>>33253865
That's not enough. You need to educate developers on secure coding practices.

>>33253873
Yes anon, last week I had to block my mom because she complained one too many times about her health issues. Thats just how it is with me, you cross a line - you‘re gone.
Again, I won‘t cut people off for crossing those lines if they are important people in my life. But I will think leas of them if they keep whining for no reason and if they do it to the point of draining me whenever we spend time together then yes, I will stop spending more time with them than necessary.

>>33253876
>not sociopathy
Sociopaths are very good at reading other people‘s emotions. They just don‘t give a shit about it or enjoy making others feel uncomfortable.

>>33253868
a little more detail plz
>age of parents
>sibling situation
>overall financial status of you + them
>any other health issues

>>33253874
Not American, right?

>>33253868
Know when to outsource care

>>33253880
There are no secure coding practices. There is only fucked code and very fucked code.

>>33253868
It's a learning process, basically you will have to simultaneously (slowly) say goodbye to the relationship you had with them, with you being the child, and learn to love them for who they are now.

Dementia can be very bad or not so bad at all. It mostly depends on how frightened and/or angry the people involved get. If either or both get quite paranoid or aggressive, you will be in for a bad ride and chances are it's a matter of time until they need to be in a facility. But other people lighten up, become more open, softer, easier to show affection too.

It's easier said than done but in the long term you will have to find out how to connect with them now. If you used to have intense discussions, you will learn to feel close by singing songs together or holding their hand. Teasing, playfulness. Even if they no longer understand the joke, they will still recognize being lovingly toyed with. Usually the old memories of their own childhood will go last. Make sure to ask them a bunch of questions about their childhood (including stuff like "how did your garden smell", "how far were you allowed to walk on your own as a child", very concrete questions that invite them to truly relive the past in sensory details), not just for their pleasure but also because you can still ask now. Old pictures or songs popular in their youth can help light up their brain a little more.

State gender
Do you think buying groceries on a sunday makes baby jesus cry?

>>33253883
You would know lol
BAZINGA

>>33253886
no, why? you think ww3 is about to start?

>>33253890
F
It does people good to not be able to get their snacks 24/7. Requires you to think ahead, plan and delay gratification.

>>33253859
NTA and F but I actually agree with him and yes I mean both ways

>>33253890
M
I always go grocery shopping in the week if I can, one of the advantages of being a wagie that usually works weekends but has some weekdays off

>>33253870
>Yes, I know what I did wrong. I'm not sure why people act like I don't get that.
Because in the statements that you have been posting in this thread you have been defending your behavior as valid rather than acknowledging an understanding of why it was invalid. It is not enough for you to think thoughts in your head, you must also express them to other people in order for those other people to know that you have those thoughts.

Information must be communicated in order to be known. You might as well expect Sally to know where the Marble is.

>>33253892
Still triggered af I see.

>>33253890
No. But not evolving to 6 hour work days does probably.

Thanks, essay anon. You help people more than you know.

>>33253902
He will not fuck you.

Men, how do I have sex with him?

>>33253895
>I can't control myself therefore we should put pointless restrictions on other people too

>>33253903
“Pay forward the courage” saved my life, if it’s the same anon. So I hope they know that they’re very appreciated.

>>33253870
>I know what I did wrong
just sounds like you were more posting here to try and justify being rude to her, rather than acknowledging that you said something hurtful and could've been more tactful
>>33253904
who? contain yourself wench

>>33253894
Lol, I thought so. No, not that. I think this kind of thinking is common with Europeans and stuff. They're always waiting for the other shoe to drop because they or their relatives have experienced bad stuff before.

>>33253890
M
In Austria there are some supermarkets open until around midday.
Yes, I hope so.

>>33253898
My behavior was valid though. I understand it hurt her feelings, but I still don't see how she's creative.

>>33253904
Put your hands on his lap and go for a kiss

>>33253896
Sucks for you.

>>33253905
>not being able to get everything I want at all times is opression
Are you american?

>>33253906
Is is, I appreciate your comments very much and I can only hope you are right. (But if I had no hope for that at all myself, I'd stop.)

>>33253890
Also I'm glad that in the UK places close earlier on a Sunday. Gives us wagies more of a breather lol

>>33253882
Sounds like the bitch deserved it for getting ill and being upset about it. If there's anything we should learn from this particular thread it's that you can learn anything on youtube. One anon's girl learned magic tricks, I learned how to neuter my cat at home and your mom can learn to operate on her cancer if she would stop throwing a fucking fit already. Regardless of me making fun, your boundaries are your own and if it works for you then that's good. Can I get a booty pic with your panties on and one without them on? can I also get three different picture of your booty is any position? also can I get just a normal pic of your pussy from the front and one where it’s spread a bit open? can I get a picture of you fingering yourself? can I get a pic of you doing a kissing face but also with your boobs in it? can I also get a pic of your pussy and ass from behind in one shot? Can I also get a pick your full front body in just a bra and panties? and can I get a pic of your arse or your panties are all up? and can I also get a pic of your boobs while you’re in the shower? can I also get another pussy pic while while you’re in the shower for the rest of the pics can you just send whatever all the sexy things you want? for the videos can I get a video of you twerking in just really short shorts and one of you fingering yourself and one of you actually cumming? Also can I get one of you play with your tits while not wearing a shirt?

>>33253910
You barely know here, you've only met three times, you've only had surface-level conversation, you lack the information necessary to determine her level of creativity. You were deliberately creating problems for no reason.

>>33253919
Know her.
And she could have just told me how she's creative.
>Oh, I invented a new shuffle
Done
I don't even need to see it, because I don't think she would lie twice

>>33253918
Can‘t even be mad, most entertaining post itt so far. Thumbs up.

>>33253922
>lie
NTA
She didn't lie.

>>33253916
I’m doing a lot better since then. I think about your words a lot, especially the eating part. I have come a long way since then and you played a big part. Thank you. You’re a wonderful person and I genuinely wish you nothing but the best in life. You make a difference.

>>33253922
Why would she indulge you when you only took three meetings to present yourself as someone who is unpleasant to be around?

>>33253919
>Hmmm
>today I will belittle a girl's hobby and argue that it's not creative despite not showing any sign of being able to do anything creative other than find creative ways to not get laid

>>33253925
Nta but what advice did they give you?

>>33253915
>describes a personal struggle (self-control).
>makes a societal claim about oppression and fairness.
One is about individual behavior, the other about collective rules. The two don’t logically justify each other.

Where do I meet clingy gf

>>33253918
lmao

>>33253924
Yea she did.
>Says she's creative
>She's not
???

>>33253927
That's her problem to work out

>>33253934
As the other anon said, you are unable to put yourself into her shoes since you are a sociopathic outist.
For her, magic tricks are being creative.

>>33253934
She did work it out. She no longer has private meetings with you, and as a result her stress levels are lowered and her quality of life has improved.

Nevermind she texted me and we're meeting on monday so she can show me an original trick

>>33253939
Imagine getting rid of anon, it must feel like a two weeks vacation.

>>33253940
Beast lol

>>33253940
she must be very ugly to put up with you

>>33253940
lmfao all of this debate for nothing
godspeed bro
be nice to her

Also after the trick she's going to suck my dick.

>>33253947
Maybe anon was the one tricking us all along...

How is magic not creative? Are movies not creative because they all basically retell the same stories?

>>33253947
>inb4 the trick is her sucking anons dick (against his will) and making it disappear by biting it off and swallowing it
very creative

>>33253911
H-h-h-he's gonna knock me out!

>>33253950
The same way people say that rap isn’t real music.

>>33253950
If someone has done it before, it is not creative.

>>33253940
Whatever "original" trick she pulls on you, you will now realize that no trick is original. Every trick has already been thought of even if it was independently reproduced at a later date. No movement she can make will ever be truly original. You have to emphasize this to her.

>>33253943
I think she's cute but I'm not sure most guys would agree. Kind of a butter face

>>33253925
That is fantastic to hear, I am so happy for it. I know sometimes I strike a chord but of course you never know who is on the other end and whether it will live on in some way or it is just too little. I really appreciate you speaking up and letting me know, and it is even better that you have come such a long way since and are feeling much better. I will be able to draw from that if I get discouraged about this in the future, that's how it works, so thank you for your willingness to speak out and I genuinely hope it will only get/go better in terms of finding your stride in life!

>>33253957
I
MET YOU
BEFORE THE FALL OF ROME

>>33253957
I would argue that putting a spin on something to make it seem new is MORE creative desu.

>>33253963
Lame, been there, done that. Come on, entertain me, invent something new under the sun or else…

>>33253966
No, see
>>33253967

>>33253967
>or else...
Magicians reading this be like [gulps nervously]

>>33253970
Where's your rebuttal? Come on anon, I've seen that argue tactic before.

>>33253954
What did you do to make a man angry enough to respond with physical violence when trying to initiate sex? I know women have an autistic idea that they can get out of trouble with sex but that works with little things, if you've really fucked up it's only going to make a guy angrier.

Granted most guys are just going to rebuff you not elbow you in the face.

>>33253973
*cuts you in half (as a joke) whilst reciting italian brainrot (for creative twist)*

>>33253978
see
>>33253980

>>33253980
Is that a Monty Python skit?

Some of you are all are weird. I see you fetishizing the most "why the fuck" shit
>fetishzing braces
I get this
>fetishizing tall women
can't account for shit taste
>fetishizing sociopaths
okay I can undersrand the fantasy, I can comprehend it, its extreme enough to feel removed from reality
>fetishizing bpd
you just want your relationship to fail?
>fetishizing autism
that's a spectrum, this makes no sense
>fetishizing cripples
the fuck

>>33253985
NO HOW DARE YOU I INVENTED IT WITH MY UNIQUE AND NOVEL CREATIVITY REEEEEEEEEEEE

>>33253979
yeah but imagine if she said some stupid shit like "I think the first Terminator is better than the second"? How could you even keep yourself from pulling the roundhouse?

>>33253988
Fetishes are usually rooted in trauma. I like corruption because I was traumatized.

Speaking of girls and tricks, I'm trying to learn juggling to impress a girl I know who works as a clown and its the hardest shit ever once you get to two balls since the natural reaction is to throw sideways. I'm hoping she'll appreciate that I tried at least

>>33253993
>I swear its my dads fault I am a perverted coomer

>>33253950
hey baby wanna see a magic trick
just by looking at your boobs I can make my wand levitate
>>33253957
all creative work is derivative to some degree
>>33253988
>tall women
>shit taste
I feel sorry for you bro
saw a tall blonde scandinavian girl in shorts with long legs on the phone yesterday that must've been about 6' awoooga

>>33253988
How the fuck do you get braces but not the cripple thing? I'm in a wheelchair and I get that one.

>>33253998
I just don't okay
Like how does that even work

>>33253994
just spend a day practicing bro following a good tutorial, also practice juggling two with one hand (both hands), then it's easy to progress to three and four
I also recommend diabolo juggling, girls love that shit and you can jump it around their legs

>>33253993
I am just naturally dominant.

>>33253996
No, there’s no fault. It is what it is. You could argue it’s my fault for getting a boner at Marquis de Sade when I was 15.

>>33253997
>all creative work is derivative to some degree
This. Nothing comes from a vacuum anymore.

>>33254001
this
same here
I like to dominate women

>>33253993
>Anon takes one step off the plane in a third world country
>Cums and starts farting immediately
What wonder is your life

>>33253998
Wheelchair femanon?

>>33254001
That’s not what a fetish is. Everyone falls inside the dominant/submissive axiom, somewhere.
>>33254003
NTA but
>anymore
It was never was. Only God creates something from nothing.
>>33254005
It is glorious.

>>33254003
>Nothing comes from a vacuum anymore
I agree with other anon, it never did
whether you're doing collage/a sampling, or simply inspired by an event or feeling, every creative impulse and desire for expression stems from something else, tis the universe working its magic

with my luck when my suppose fwb calls me up for a booty call ill die on the way there

>>33253999
The wheelchair thing? Some people think it makes us helpless and that puts the natural caring instinct a lot of people have into overdrive. You can sub in a lot of disabilities here.

What's up with the braces thing?

>>33253993
NTA I'm so sorry that happened to you anon
I don't mean to pry, but do you mean you like media where a young boy is "corrupted"?

>>33254000
I can try 2 with one hand, sounds weird but its worth a shot thanks

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=whHBjHFh4Uo
This?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zxm9s5fd5oU
I don't think I have enough room to do it

>>33253988
Tall women have long legs and if you're submissive, it plays into the Amazonian goddess idea.

>you just want your relationship to fail?
A lot of things people are attracted to (e.g. guys loving women that dress and style quite sexy) do not necessarily bode well for a relationship. You feel attracted because it is sexually appealing to you. The cliche about bpd is that it's all really intense, passionate people. The whole idea of crazy girls fucking crazy good. Plus if you grew up with a bpd parent you are usually drawn to the familiarity without recognizing it.

>that's a spectrum, that makes no sense
Lots of things are a spectrum. Liking "small boobs" or "tall girls" is also a spectrum. You can still overall (usually) like it.

>cripples
Vulnerability, savior/hero complexes, some people are just generally intrigued by people being a little different physically. AFAIK people that like to fantasize about having limbs removed, are mostly drawn to the helpless aspect, like an extreme form of bondage where you literally cannot walk away anymore.

That said the line between fetishizing and just being open to something is also thin. A lot of the stuff people call fetishes is just a preference/turn on that is not considered very normal. And thank god (some) people are attracted to stuff that is not (just) mainstream. Otherwise, can you imagine being crippled and having to choose between people rejecting you or "putting up" with you, and diehard fetishists who lust over specifically your disability? Fortunately there's just a grey area where people can sexually enjoy this without being obsessed with it or being unable to get off on able-bodied folks.

do women fantasize about guys eating their ass

>>33254006
Yo.

>>33253998
NTA but I see what he means, I'd judge and be weirded out by someone with a wheelchair bound person fetish

>>33253898
That’s not a marble

>>33253992
But I like the second terminator.

>>33254019
this fantasize about eating the ass of a fat bastard
the humiliation thing gets them

>>33254013
They're cute
Like freckles

>>33254018
>. Plus if you grew up with a bpd parent you are usually drawn to the familiarity without recognizing it.
I feel alone in not being attracted to things that resemble my parents.
I see like hitomi tanaka and she does nothing because my mons tits were even bigger and anyone with big tits reminds me of her and it gives me the ick

>>33254013
Do you mind people helping you?

>>33254022
It's a big marble for you.

>>33254014
Nah, it was more that I was molested at a young age and used to fascinate about it, then as I matured it became about, like, destroying women? It was the appeal of Philosophy of the Bedroom for me, that the mother was so insanely cruel, felt like catharsis. I’ve very much managed to prune it down to “I like my gfs to dress in revealing clothes and maybe we have an MMF threesome”.

>>33254025
>I feel alone in not being attracted to things that resemble my parents.
Both liking it (subconsciously or otherwise) or rejecting it expressly for the recognition are more or less equally common as far as I know.

Realize though that your parent having (had) bpd is a LOT more impactful on your own life than the breast size of your mom. It totally shapes what you think of as normal behavior for people, normal ways to express affection and so on.

>>33254007
But being a natural dominant comes with things you often fetishize, no?
Like tying a girl up, wanting her to look a certain way, say certain things... without being traumatized.

>>33254020
No offense, but you seem to be here a lot.

>>33254032
You can only notice that someone is here a lot when you see them a lot by being here a lot too.

>>33254021
But braces are totally ok? :/

>>33254025
Oh, wait, so it's a purely aesthetic thing? That's like saying you have a fetish for sun dresses.

>>33254025
>braces shitter also thinks shit spread across the face is cute
Not even surprises.

>>33254024
women are gross, why can't they make cute slim guys eat their ass out by threatening to accuse him of rape :(

>>33254033
Yeah, and?

>>33254019
I have, but only because I knew the guy I crushed on at the time was super into that.

>>33254027
I'm ok with that if it's like something on a high shelf or opening a door or something. I'm not one of those FUCK YOU I CAN DO IT MYSELF people.

Someone want to explain emotional labor to me? I keep seeing women claiming they do a lot of emotional support for their bfs husbands but it always seems like almost none of them really do and it's always the men who are the emotional rock in the relationship, are these women just hallucinating it or something?

I want a gf I can tell what to wear
I don't know if women are into that though

>>33254012
>casual sex
Gross

>>33254041
why would you fantasize about the guy you had a crush's doing the things he wants and not the things you want

>>33254045
I did this with my first gf.

>>33254032
>No offense, but you seem to be here a lot.
None taken. I see where you're coming from. I don't have much of a social life. I need to work on that. Also I think I'm a little addicted.

i want a gf whos clothes i can wear
i dont know if women are into that though

>>33254045
I'm M, but some want to be dolled up by their man.
It is rather rare, depending on how obsessive you are about it. But no decent woman would say no to doing her nails a certain way or wearing a collar you like. Usually they are happy to please and shop stuff together.

I want a gf who calls me daddy

>>33254044
Originally it meant having to be cheery and nice for people in the hospitality industry, but as society became narcistic and selfish not acting like an asshole to your partner became a major plus instead of the standard

>>33254052
>You have to be collared by your man of you're not a decent woman
M
Its so fucking weird the shit I see other men say here without a hint of irony
Straight up sociopathic behavior

>>33254045
I will do that to a point. I don't like being told to dress like a stripper.

>>33254004
>>33254032
Dominants are scary- I hope you guys are gentle..

I want a gf with a Venn Diagram of clothes.
Some clothes are exclusively for her, some clothes are exclusively for me, and there's a defined overlap of what we share.

I do not want a bf because you are all insane

I want a gf who takes all of my clothes and wears them outside.

>>33254057
maybe it depends on what the guy is into and where he wants you to dress up
for me it'd be something like this when going out in a nice day
cardian and jeans on a shittier day
and slutty clothes in bed

>>33254044
Emotional labor isn't really something like "always being strong emotionally" it just refers to the jobs/tasks that are not important in themselves and do not register with many men as a job, but they are the glue that holds social relationships together.

I don't doubt that this is changing somewhat, but especially traditionally it was definitely considered the woman's job to, say, remember the birthdays of all her in laws and either buying gifts herself or at least reminding her husband to get his mom a birthday gift. Stuff like "I haven't heard you mention [friend] in a while, are they okay, shouldn't you invite them over?" Stuff like, your husband lashed out at the teacher at school so now you can call her up and grovel and say all the right things so your child won't get punished for it. Reminding your partner to go to the dentist/doctor or making the appointment. Being the one who does last minute tidying up before friends come over, or who cooks so you can entertain guests your partner invited. Also remembering that stuff needs to be done in the first place, bringing up that your child has to go to the dentist again, doing the household agenda. I think the last one is actually the most common complaint, that men say "just ask if you need help", but that means she's in charge and he's just there to help out, they are not planning out the thing together and not sharing responsibility from the start.

Also a lot of men are a bit less communicative so getting them to talk about stuff bothering them is usually also achieved only after asking them multiple times if something is wrong, they are quiet, did they have a bad day etc. I know women are famous for going "I'm fine" when asked what's wrong, too, but that is more in a specific scenario and not the usual response to any issue. It is for many men - not through their own fault, but still.

>>33254063
Fair enough.

>>33254065
nta I don't personally like waists like that desu.

>>33254016
>sounds weird but its worth a shot thanks
it's a good way to practice not hitting the balls on each other (lel) when you throw them up, plus not actually as hard as it looks (just throw one ball slightly to the side) and impresses people, then make learning 3/4 much easier
anyway if she's a clown ask her to teach you hehe
>this
yeah
>don't think I have enough room
you practice outside lol
>>33254018
>Tall women have long legs and if you're submissive
I think regardless of submissiveness long legs are just sexy
>>33254045
>want a gf I can tell what to wear
you might as well just get dolls at that point
(not a weird sex thing, I'm talking actual dolls you can get cute outfits for)

>>33254047
Super valid question and I think it was definitely that I was very young at the time and it was hard for me to differentiate between "feeling sexual pleasure" (in imagination) and "feeling sexually desired/'successful'" (in imagination). Basically imagining how much I turned him on, was what turned me on the most.

>>33254045
No because moid fashion sense is retarded

Gend'her
Is it a turn on or a turn off if the person you like is better than you at a thing you like?
Does it matter if that thing is something your gender is stereotyped or expecting to be good at?

>>33254067
Some of these are mental labor, not emotional labor.

Women, when you're making a list of the extra labor you're expected to do in a relationship, why can't you make two columns instead of one?

>>33253918
>pic of your arse or your panties are all up?
??

>>33254071
>>you might as well just get dolls at that point
>(not a weird sex thing, I'm talking actual dolls you can get cute outfits for)
Someone here posted a cool doll site once and then I couldn't find the link.
Sucks.

>>33254074
F, turn on. Teach me, master.

>>33254078
/toy/ could probably help you with that.

>>33254071
>>you might as well just get dolls at that point
That's like saying I may as well just jack off or text myself and delude myself into thinking its a woman
Doing thing + girl is what's hot

>>33254064
But his are smol clothes. I'd be squished.

>>33253988
I like tall women because I don't like feet.
The taller she is, the more of her there is to enjoy far away from her feet.

>>33254075
>mental labor
Maybe I misunderstood the term emotional labor from the start but I feel even if it is a mental task in the sense of being logistic or practical, the emotional part is more keeping everyone's needs and well-being on the radar and evaluating that all the time and drawing conclusions. Thinking for others, too. In that sense I don't think you can really separate the two.

>>33254074
M Probably a bit of a turn on. Even more if it's something women aren't generally associated with.

>>33254074
M
turn-on, competence/skill is sexy
don't care about gender stereotypes, I have some ''girly'' hobbies
>>33254082
I'm just saying if you like the dressing up aspect there are other avenues
to each their own I just think telling a partner what to wear day to day is incredibly bizarre and controlling
unless you're just suggesting/getting sexy outfits for the bedroom and rp that's totally different

>>33254087
Can you give some examples?

>>33254084
Wearing tight clothes is hot.

>>33254074
F
It really depends on the thing, but I'm not envious in relationships.

>>33254067
This doesn't sound "emotional" this sounds like these guys expect their wife or gf to be a secretary lol.
>it's hard to get guys to open up
This has been discussed to death everywhere on the internet but overwhelmingly this is because women just don't respond well to it, every time I've been upset about anything it defaults to two outcomes
>she just outright turns hostile and kicks me when I'm down
or
>she's upset that I'm upset and now the focus and all the attention go to making HER not upset.
Thanks for the explanation I guess, but women might want to rephrase that as they don't want to schedule men's lives because most men won't react well to being told women are emotionally supporting them.

>>33254090
Mmm... maybe computer or car stuff. But then I'd worry that she probably gets that a lot and clam up.

>>33254074
Turn on. Not really. If you show skill demonstratably with a breakdown, that is even hotter.

>>33254020
You're so lucky cuz you can just roll down a hill and I'm stuck doing that stupid embarrassing long stride trying to avoid falling down the hill. Fuck you.

>>33254086
Reminding your husband to go to the parent-teacher conference is mental labor. It doesn't really weigh on you emotionally, but it does weigh on you mentally that you have to be his secretary/assistant/mommy.

Apologizing to the teacher that your husband forgot the parent-teacher conference is emotional labor. It doesn't really weigh on you mentally, but it does weigh on you emotionally that you have to be his spokesperson/apologist/mommy.

>>33254065
NTA that sounds fun

>>33254072
what do you fantasize about now

>>33254091
But I could break it.
Is it hot if I like.. the clothing rips because I'm too big?

>>33254074
F, generally a turn on, but NGL if it was my actual passion I simply wouldn't be able to deal. I am so used to it being "my thing", I couldn't deal with my own partner both sharing it and outperforming me in my own eyes.

>>33254101
>parent-teacher conference is mental labor. It doesn't really weigh on you emotionally
It's about your kid. How does that not affect you emotionally?

>>33254056
Whatever you say.

Where are the men?

>>33254084
Are you talking about someone who knows you or an e-celeb who doesn't know you?

>>33254104
Are you big from just being tall or are you wide too?

>>33254104
>Is it hot if I like.. the clothing rips because I'm too big?
nta depends where.

>>33254058
That depends on how my partner behaves.
I don't punch, but sometimes a corrective slap is in order. Or just one on the butt to make her ride faster.

>>33254105
>I couldn't deal with my own partner both sharing it and outperforming me in my own eyes.
People like you bug the shit out of me. :) Especially the lazy ones that use that as justification to not take up a hobby at all.

>>33254074
M
I don't care.

>>33254111
Currently laying on my couch, on top of a comfy heated blanket, turned off
Naked aside from my boxers
Sweating
About to have a shower, get dressed and go to work

>>33254112
>who doesn't know you
Nobody knows me. Except fbichan.

>>33254107
It affects you emotionally after he fails but I'm talking about that period of time beforehand when he hasn't failed yet.

>>33254094
>This doesn't sound "emotional" this sounds like these guys expect their wife or gf to be a secretary lol.
But you give a secretary instructions. You tell a secretary to buy flowers for your wife for your anniversary. I am saying that the emotional part is expecting her to remember for you that it's your mom's birthday, to remember what your mom likes and to pick it out. Then there's definitely an emotional aspect.

>this is because women just don't respond well
Granted not like I have a huge sample size as I am still in my first relationship. My partner has always been pretty emotionally open with me - hell, he spontaneously told me he was abused in his past when we were dating for like six months. I have held him in my arms as he cried more than a handful of times in the years afterwards. He knows I do not judge him or do not expect him to be stoic whatever.

Still talking to him about emotional topics is very different than talking to a woman. I have to encourage him to ask himself how he feels, for example, it's never a neat story he can just tell me, we have to figure it out together.

Obviously this has to do with his own upbringing and him never being encouraged to explore or express his emotions more as a kid. But it can go a lot deeper than simply holding off because you're not sure your partner can deal, and that only applied all the more to previous generations.

Is there any benefit to skipping breakfast?

>>33254119
Non-response. Celebrity worshipers are cringe, e-celeb worshipers doubly so.

>>33254120
Even so. The apprehension.

>>33254104
Depends how big and where. Naturally ripped jeans might look good.

>>33254116
I don't blame you, just being honest. I have been doing it for over fifteen years though and it's not a hobby.

>>33254122
are you even hungry in the morning? I always found it pretty pointless, if you are trying to lose weight just save the food for when you are actually hungry

>>33254111
>We miss you.
Who is we?

>Offputting ai slop popping up in my "black sweaty breasts" google search
The future is now and it sucks

>>33254129
kys

>>33254126
That's understandable. Doings something for so long and than someone comes along and beginners luck or something. What is it?

>>33254101
I do get the distinction you try to make but it still feels forced to me. If it is your job to remember teacher-parent conferences and you forget, you'll feel like fucking shit, so then it sure is emotional. Then suddenly it's "your fault" that you both made yourselves look bad in the teacher's eyes. So that carries emotional weight.

>>33254122
You cannot escape breakfast. You can only escape the americanized brand of foods that they labeled as "Breakfast".
Breakfast is whatever you eat after sleeping. Be it a steak or salad, you still breakfast-ed.

>>33254127
>are you even hungry in the morning?
I mean, sometimes. I think not being hungry is due to stress or poor sleep or something like that.

What did you eated for breaksfest?
For me, I need to go shop for food, so i had to settle for a
>2 tablespoon peanut butter
>2 tablespoon oil
>200 ml milk
>banana
shake

>>33254123
Fuck you, I do what I want.

>>33254133
So whatever you use to break a fast?

Does anybody remember the name of the guy or the videos on Odysee of the dude who goes Chadfishing and stands up random sluts on Tinder?

>>33254131
Writing, so it's also hardly something you necessarily get better at over time. Sure maybe the extra practice makes you better. But it can also make your writing stale, your opinions becomes ironclad, you lose the new/fresh eyes.

Plus there are always people that are simply incredibly gifted in a way you never will be. I am great at writing lifelike dialogue, for example, which many authors suck at, but I will never be able to write a thick-ass intergenerational novel. Just the scope of it, the technical abilities you need to craft all the storylines and the characters. I feel somewhat at peace with that but at the same time I know if I wrote thrillers or literary novels like that, I would have so much more potential for success than doing what I love and am good at.

I love knowing people I admire in my own field, I do get inspired, but it easily evokes existential dread too and it's something I can only take in small doses without feeling defeated and there is simply no point in comparing and feeling defeated.

>>33254137
Okay, touch him.

>>33254136
>2 tbs oil
wat

>>33254136
What kinda oil?

Do you have an eating disorder?

>>33254103
Boring answer I know but I have been in a relationship with an amazing sex life for years so I end up just replaying my favorite memories a lot.

Otherwise my own kinks (pregnancy/lactation has been most featured lately).

>>33254136
As every single morning when I'm not hiking or traveling, absolutely nothing.

>>33254141
nta can't you get better at writing by reading a lot? Reading bad stuff even. So you know what not to do.

>>33254144
Its high in calories, makes the drink smoother and you can't really taste it.
My italian ex gf told me about it, she added oul to pretty much everything

>>33254145
Just vegetable oil
And I dunno, maybe. I'm underweight because I have to force myself to eat thanks to growing up very poor, but I'm not diagnosed or anything

>stupid little cunt ran away from home at 14, leaving her poor mother with anguish, anxiety, and depression
>turns self into police at 18 because she couldn’t get a driver’s license (18 when photographed)
>let her mom and everyone know she’s okay but living in Montana still, where the guy that groomed her still lived (has sense been arrested)
She needs to be raped and charged with mental and emotional abuse towards her mother. She needs to suffer.

>>33254136
>f
1/2 a gala apple and peanut butter. I ran out of milk and need to go to store to eat oatmeal again (usual breakfast), a big bowl this time.

>>33253334 (OP)
Is it normal to get semi hard when over-confidently rizzing girls? It makes me feel potent, so I get hard, the type of hard when I steer the wheel on the super-highway, it's not even sexual, but it makes me feel awkward and like a perv (wich I am not).

>>33254150
>Just vegetable oil
OH SHIT BRO

Use olive oil even...

>>33254135
When i was doing 20 hour intermittent fasting I even went to sleep a bit hungry sometimes and always woke up not hungry. Feels like breakfast is a psyop or something you do if you work construction

>>33254151
>She needs to be raped
>She needs to suffer
and you need your meds mate

>>33254148
Absolutely yeah, you can, I don't think there are many writers that are not avid readers. Still it helps but it's hardly instructions. You cannot just combine everything you like in other books into a book. You still have to make the judgment calls - what can you actually pull off well in terms of skill and affinity, how much can you combine (how many characters, how many story developments, how many different moods and vibes, how many time jumps...) without it feeling cluttered and all over the place?

It is less about learning what makes a book a good book - there are so many ways for it to be good - and more about learning to simultaneously push yourself to get better and do better, and be honest about your limitations and act accordingly.

>>33254156
>breakfast is something you do if you work construction
monster energy, ciggies and a cheeky bump on a friday jk

>>33254157
Whatever you say

Why do incels schizo ramble about these 'news' as if anyone knows what they're talking about

>>33254156
That's hormonal adaptation to your fucked up schedule.

Women, what should I masturbate to
I will do what you say

Girls, do you like it when men look at your bodies this time of year when you're wearing less?

>>33254164
Well, if you were smart enough to download an image or screenshot an image and reserve search it, you can find out the bitch’s name: Alicia Navarro.

>>33254074
M
It's a turn on, but it can also be a source of insecurity like I have no value and nothing to impress her with.

>>33254146
Do you actually want a child or is it just sex fantasy
And do imagine your bf drinking your milk

>>33254159
>how many time jumps
nta but I just wanted to say that I hate when they do a flashback within a flashback.

Why is Ed Sheeran trying to be a rapper now?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgoHJE27Ip0

>>33254111
Certainly not shitposting on atoga.

>>33254170
I want a child in the near future, but enjoying the fantasy pre-exists that and the fantasy itself is not realistic or aimed towards actually becoming a parent, it's just about my changing body and him having done it.

>your bf drinking your milk
Yeah for sure.

>>33254172
cutting off MC Levy for Ed Sheeran is a bloody travesty

>>33254132
>If it is your job to remember teacher-parent conferences
The idea that it would be your job to remember is part of what makes it mental labor.

Chores may be a better example. He doesn't do chores unless you ask him to do chores. He always says "just ask and I'll do it" whenever you talk about this.

>mental labor, but NOT emotional labor
Every day you have to come up with a list of things for him to do, and then he does them. As you lie awake in bed that night staring at the ceiling you feel wounded emotionally that he doesn't care about your mental labor, but that labor itself is still just mental.
>mental labor AND emotional labor
He snaps at you if he feels that you presented the chore list wrong, so each time you present the chore list you also have to figure out how to present it in a way that fits his mood.

At that point though you really should just leave him.

>>33254172
For fun, I would guess. For the joy of learning a new skill widening his range of abilities as performer.

>>33254171
I feel you. That is one of the big issues for many - you want your story to be original, preferably feeling new and like you are entering uncharted territory. But most of your readers just want to read a good novel and are not remotely as interested in literary experiments as you are. So in your quest to not write a basic book you can easily overshoot and end up writing something that is smart and intricate and original, but just not a good read.

>>33254172
Who cares.

>>33254179
It's so bad. He does the rabbity fast rap mixed with half singing.

>>33254180
I don't have much to add, just wanted to say thanks for this post because especially the chores example indeed clarified for me what exactly you meant and I find it a very useful distinction.

>>33254172
gyaldem at 11:16 are pretty good tho I can't lie

>>33254183
NTA
The idea is to write a basic outline of your story, that way you are less likely to make errors and have inconsistencies you'd need to rewrite half of the story for.

>>33254187
lass at 12:26 laid down better bars than Ed has in his entire career lol

>>33254166
Futa-on-futa
Bonus points for Nyl2

>>33254180
That sounds very depressing.
Has it been this way for you?

Why do redditors talk about middle aged celebrities having 20 year old girlfriends so much

>>33254195
>Futa-on-futa
nah nothing gay with willies please

I think it's kind of bullshit that fucking a drunk girl is counted as rape. Like the girl is getting wasted and then deliberately coming up to you like OHMYGAWDIMSOFUCKINGDRUNK~ deliberately because drinking lowers her inhibitions and gives her an excuse to be more slutty. She wouldn't get blackout drunk around you if she didn't want you to take advantage of it. It's the same thing as a girl rooming with you. As soon as a woman puts herself in a vulnerable position deliberately she's basically asking to get advanced upon and pressured into sex.

Vulnerability is consent.

>>33254183
>you can easily overshoot and end up writing something that is smart and intricate and original, but just not a good read.
Right, they're often writing for the mind, not the ear or heart. Stuff like Joyce, Lovecraft. Even McCarthy with his lack of punctuation bugs me.

>futa on futa
manifest better taste

>>33254180
>snaps at you if he feels that you presented the chore list wrong
are you dating an 8 year old lol

>>33254200
>Vulnerability is consent.
That's fucked up.

>>33254167
Yes, I work hard to look good

>>33254172
British people want so desperately to be black

>>33254200
>>Vulnerability is consent.
oh now iget the wheelchair fetish

>>33254200
Look at the edgelord we got here, guys.

>>33254143
How do I do that

>>33254200
Hopefully you randomly get shot in the streets and nobody helps you, because "you put yourself in a vulnerable position".

And yes, I know you are just a baiting incel.

>>33254206
We don't, L*ndon is not part of England

>>33254168
i don't care enough to do that lil bro

>>33254208
lmao

>>33254188
The problem with the chores example is that, again, you really should just leave someone who snaps at you for trying to make the relationship work. I wanted something less drastic.

Emotional labor which you should forgive and move past:
>he misses 1 (one) parent-teacher conference
>you have to apologize on his behalf ASAP
>later on he goes to the teacher and he gives his own apology too
Emotional labor which you shouldn't forgive:
>he has a pattern of missing more than one conference
>your apology is the only apology, he will not offer his own apology

>>33254200
>bullshit that fucking a drunk girl is counted as rape
>Vulnerability is consent
I'm not even going to engage with this b8 lol
>>33254206
>British people want so desperately to be black
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QaZbrqE1CF4
>work hard to look good
you sound like a fittie
>>33254212
glad I escaped that shithole bruv
>>33254202
wanted hot suggestions not gay shit ffs

If Happy picked up Peter Parker in a tulip field in the Netherlands, and they're going to London, why the fuck are they flying over Dorset?!

>>33254138
Yes

>>33254200
>It's the same thing as a girl rooming with you.
I know this is bait but WHAT THE FUCK, ANON?