I have gf who loves me beyond this world. I want to marry her and have like 7 children and have means to do so, but im hesitant. I'm attractive well above average in inteligence (mechanical engineer currently in areospace industry). On the other hand she's pretty dumb, average maybe bellow, works in retail, pretty face, bit chubby. She makes me food, cleans, works. She's what i want. But i'm worried my children will get her brain not mine. I will i go crazy surrounded by dumb children or maybe they come out just fine, maybe without the existential pain of being inteligent person?

state if you have children in your reply

tldr will dumb wife give me dumb children?

>>33258117 (OP)
According to Cambridge, yes. A 1984 study stated that the X chromosome includes things like intelligence, so on account of women having two X chromosomes and men having only one, intelligence has a higher propensity of being inherited from the mother rather than the father.

>>33258129
no bueno, too bad inteligent women do not want children. So if you want inteligent children your option are:
a. force impregnate smart woman (she will hate you)
b. impragnate a old hag
c. cheat and have children out of wedlock (gay sons)

>>33258117 (OP)
Just have more than one or two children and at least one will turn out smart. Also, pure brain power may be mostly genetic but attitude toward and interest in intellectual pursuits is more based on nurture so just don't neglect connecting with your child over smart people things. How about informing yourself properly on the whole topic of child-rearing and intelligence like a really smart person should do, to begin with?

>>33258117 (OP)
Somebody has to breed and raise the next generation of goyim nigger cattle. Most normies will happily step up to the plate and wage their life away for a chance to reproduce. I'm just glad that's not me.

>>33258229
I do not know. Maybe I won the lottery but I found a smart woman who wants a family eventually, but she lives in a BRICS member state, so it might put my security clearance application in jeopardy. (I have a thread on security clearances, as I am preparing to enter the aerospace field too).

Keep looking, I wish you the best.

I have 2 kids. If this woman is perfect in every way besides intelligence, you are retarded if you dont marry her. You can raise your children to be intelligent through good parenting, teaching them to read at an early age, installing good habits and interests young and just being involved in making them interested in learning. You flatter your own intellect with an awful lot of spelling errors in your post btw.

>>33258241
I know, i hope i can have 7, more than 9 seats in a car and you need to have a special bus license.
I'm interested in raising respectable human beings since 18, im 24. My gf is 20.
>>33258241
I want to outbreed the jews, you should too. Raise strong men, not goyniggercattle.
>>33258250
With due all respect, by BRICS standard my gf is smart. I overblown my standards by attending best in the region schools thanks to an internship.
>>33258260
Thanks, english is not my first language, i try to focus on the essence while captcha doesn't time out.
I believe genetics play major role in intelligence. I think i will marry her anyways. I'm just afraid i will be dying on the inside like my father's friend who married retarded whore and now is stuck with 3 retarded children himself being pretty clever guy. This is way worse scenario than mine, but his drunk talk i heard couple times as a teen haunts me to this day.

>>33258411
I go to a decent college, but not a "best in the region one". I mean, she is accepted into a very good university in her country too (within the top five).

Mind if I ask what country? France?

>>33258542
Poland, sorry didn't mean to offend you.
I had a gf that "eventually" wanted kids, but her career was more important. I want mother of my kids to be 25 max. I think it's almost impossible to do if she goes to college. And I assume being pregnant through college is nightmare.
Sorry for late reply, i hope you'll see this.
Wish you luck!

>>33258117 (OP)
Look man, you never know, okay? I'm smarter than both my parents. Do you even love her? What, you're going to find someone else and abandon her?

>>33258117 (OP)
You have very little influence on this. there is such a thing called regression to the mean. I've known enough super-smart professor types who have literally disabled retard children. And retail workers who's children are very smart. If you are smart and your wife kinda average, there is nothing to worry about. You should look more into hereditary diseases in your and your wife's family if you want to be serious about your breeding program.

>>33259140
It is fine. She is not Russian (which is probably a good thing), plus she hates the guy who initiated the BRICS membership (who was reelected after his party framed the opposition). I mean, half my family is from Belarus (which let's it, is the same shit just a different name for the country). I try not to act like an orc, at least.

I did receive your message, I was just doing some chores and ordered some hobby supplies (funnily enough from a Polish distributor). I like your country very much, it has a very good industry and I ordered some Polish made watchmaker files in the order that I placed today.

Do you work for PZL, by any chance? I have a couple of contacts who work for them. One is in Mielec and the other is in the glider branch, which I think is in Bielsko.

Have a good night.

>>33258117 (OP)
I won't read made-up hypotheticals concocted by perpetually-online subhuman morons who have nothing better to do with a Sunday afternoon.

>>33259151
What is even love other than a choice, i'm not driven by emotion. I think in today's dating market abandoning her would be a big stupid gamble. I just wanted to think out loud to sort my thoughts before going into marriage
>>33259326
(you) for you, i laughed, just helping the odds
>>33259535
No way i'm posting any clues on my work here. I was born in a place where Brześć is technically the closest big town. Still putting off my visit in Belarus. I had only positive interactions with Belarusians.

Strong and specific political opinion, ok she's alright.

>>33259912
thx for bumping

>>33258117 (OP)
Since I finished High School and started university, everywhere I went I was competing with literal geniuses for positions and career. While I put my all, these people surpassed me without even trying.
There's nothing worse than being born dumb or of average intelligence in the current and coming rat race. Intelligence determines the difficulty at which you live life; if you are average, half of people have it easier than you. I had the chance of marrying a woman who was much smarter than me to have potentially intelligent offspring, but I fumbled it because again of my stupidity. Don't risk having dumb kids, the standards and the competition are raised to the point that they'll never live respectable lives.

>>33258117 (OP)
>that good feel when having children with a smart woman and they end up at the top of their class year after year

>>33262395
That's what i've always felt, but from the other side. I've never really studied through all of my education and always was one of the best. I have no work ethic and sometimes felt alienated because of the bluepill status quo. Even right now in my job i do only things that i have interest in and straight refuse to do any stupid robot excel shit and they still extended my contract.

After getting some sleep in i'm still hesitant about my gf's kids. I'm afraid i will hate them.
Getting new gf is not really a gamble i want take up. I think i might resort to cheating. I'm pretty sure my gf will forgive me, but it kinda exceeds my morals, i may sound like one, but i'm not a psycho.

>>33262398
Here is a (You).
I worked as a physics teacher for 1 year with 14 and 15 yr olds and brilliant kids were a blessing. They made me love life.
And kinda reinforced my view on eugenics.

>>33258117 (OP)
psychopath take: have children with her OP. she soudns like she'll take good care of them and you guys will educate them right, that's at least as important as genes.
nad have some kids on the side/divorce her for a smart woman down the road and have some more

>>33262851
You're a psycho not because of that, but because you worry more about how your children would make you feel than how they themselves will feel. Living life on hard mode (low IQ) is a hassle already, plus it would be better for their emotional development if they ended up smarter than their father as adults, not dumber. Is your girlfriend just lazy or actually genetically stupid no matter what? If she's really stupid I wouldn't take the risk, not for my own good but for my children's.
>>33262879
>And kinda reinforced my view on eugenics.
Genes matter much more than upbringing. I'd rather be born smart in a shitty family than dumb in a wealthy and loving family. Only genes determine your maximum potential. No matter how much scientists taught language to apes, they could never learn.

>>33258117 (OP)
Yes. Stupid women produce stupid children. Genius comes from mother, more than anywhere else.

>>33262940
That's what im thinking, but my own kids being stupid make me sick on the inside. I don't want them stupid, i don't want to discard them.

>>33262964
I think of my children as of an extension of myself, strongly disagree. This is feminine opinion.
Her parents forbade her everything, she was sheltered child (I hope you get what i mean language barrier kinda bites me here) and she was raised in probably the most brain-drained region i know off. So there wasn't really a chance for her intelligence to shine through. She was trained to be a housewife basically. That's what drew me to her at first.
Her mother is housewife and her father is a political figure in her village. He has some based and insightful takes but he's also trauma-ridden so it's sometimes hard to talk to him. Fuck this really can be cross to bear.

>>33262981
(You)

>>33263405
>She was trained to be a housewife basically.
Then there's a chance that her level of intelligence is not caused by genetics and your kids will be fine.

>>33258117 (OP)
Irrelevant question, since intelligent people are going extinct anyway. The retarded will inherit the earth.

>>33258117 (OP)
I'm in a similar situation, I am far more intelligent and educated than my gf, I'm a doctorate holding Diplomatic service officer, she's a hotel front desk worker who graduated HS.

My question to you is not even about kids but like. How are you happy with that level of difference? What do you even talk about? Im bored constantly and I fear that she will never be a financially capable, intellectually capable, support or partner in my life.

Strange thread. I was under the impression that the political left has completely debunked eugenics.

>>33263435
Yeah, pray for me anons.
>>33263649
Only leftist types imo. I don't care, i care for my closest family and friends.
>>33263665
You know, i always said to my self "hating women for being stupid is like hating dogs because they bark", it's almost impossible to find a woman that you are going to respect for her intellect. She's very submissive i mostly pretend to listen to her, she knows it and doesn't care. I believe she thinks it's "manly" when i tell her to shut up. She knows that i'm smarter and listens to me, it's peaceful life compared to past "smart" gfs.
I chose her like that and now i'm second guessing myself, but as said earlier, i will probably marry her anyways.
>>33264026
Part of abortion debate is eugenic abortion and leftists support it.

>>33264236
>abortion
Nta. Idk why not tax the little faggots, instead of each kid being worth a small fortune to welfare moms. The problem is all the evil sociopaths in charge of what should be regular natural functions in response to our current ecosystem. Better people should be encouraged to procreate. Lesser ones can be rewarded with the savings that comes from keeping it in their pants.

>>33258117 (OP)
I can't imagine dating someone >2 SD dumber than me. What do you even talk about?