Thread 33264204

>18
>Kissless virgin
>Autistic
>Socially retarded because I wasn't made aware of my retardation as a kid ("Autism is a superpower n shiet!!!")
>Nerdy hobbies like history and plastic modelling
>Doing an apprenticeship as an industrial engineer because I'm too dumb for six-figure jobs like programming
>Only friends are fellow autistic nerds (none of them are women)
>Too much of a pussy to even hire an escort or go to a brothel (thus I continue being ashamed of my virginity)

>>33264204 (OP)
at 18 I wouldn't take things that seriously bro
I had my first gf at 26 and other than a horny period when I was 12 all the way to 15 I had almost no action before that
just concentrate on bettering yourself and improving your social skills
it'll happen don't despair and don't get desperate

>>33264204 (OP)
Stop taking life so seriously and have some fun.

>>33264204 (OP)
Shut the fuck up your little nerd. You have plenty of time to fix this. I was a little pussy when I was 18 too and didn't have much friends and felt like retard. You can have 0 money, 0 gf, 0 anything and still have a great life at that age. Trust me, I'm 37 and I've had failed relationships after another, finical issues, health issues, etc and I have more of a reason to kms because it's harder to just start over. And If I told this to a 55 year old divorced guy he would tell me the same thing I told you just now.

>>33264208
>at 18 I wouldn't take things that seriously bro
If I didn't I'd be a NEET rotting away until I'd get tired of life and rope. If I don't "take things seriously" things will get worse.
>I had my first gf at 26 and other than a horny period when I was 12 all the way to 15 I had almost no action before that
So you experienced sex before the age of 18 unlike me. When I went to school all my (good-looking) classmates easily got laid and had gfs while behaving like shit, getting bad grades, taking drugs, and smoking.
>just concentrate on bettering yourself
In what ways aside from financial aspects?
>improving your social skills
>social skills
Don't exist. Went to therapy for 4 years when I was a kid to learn them, got me nothing. I only know how to mask (which is just the real word for "social skills") and every neurotypical can see right through. It's not as if I share any interests with them that I could talk about either.

>>33264240
I try to but the moment I see someone even *mentioning* anything romantic/sexual my day is ruined because it feels like the world is mocking me. I can't even enjoy taking walks in the forest and looking for animals anymore because of all the couples my age having fun there. Considered therapy to talk about that but I get paid peanuts so I have to be conservative with my spending.

>>33264204 (OP)
Stop caring so much. It doesn't matter.

>>33264204 (OP)
Just be yourself

>>33264285
Retarded advice because who you are seems to be a whingey sped and people hate that not just women. You just need to stop taking things so seriously. When I was in the army in the training the RIs would always annoy me by acting like everything was always super serious and I'd think like chill the fuck out man I'm just putting on my shoes. That's what you're doing when you write shit like
>>33264274
>>33264262
And go "oh woes me for not getting any action with these girls" because desu that shit just doesn't matter don't bother feeling inadequate because the other guys had more easy women - it's not an accomplishment they're fucking easy. My advice is you can't change your looks so it doesn't bear thinking about. What you can change is your bumfuck attitude because you sound like a total whinger whose sorry for himself - you don't need to be performative or act tough that's just as gay. You just need to chill the fuck out and stop taking things so seriously. Btw the women you want to go for are the purer ones who take time and effort to win over - preferably a virgin because if she's had guys before you chances are she'll be fine with you ending up as just another name on the list

>>33264274
Keyword: feels like

It isn't. You're simply sensitive to it.

>>33264204 (OP)
Come on, some part of you had to know that you were an autist

>>33264328
>that shit just doesn't matter
It does because you can measure your whole worth by how much you are desired.
>You just need to chill the fuck out and stop taking things so seriously
How am I supposed to do that when I'm such an evolutionary failure that I couldn't even fuck the girls who were going to bed with <80 IQ drugged up retards?
>Btw the women you want to go for are the purer ones who take time and effort to win over - preferably a virgin
For that to happen I'd have to move to some Third World shithole like Afghanistan where women don't lose their virginities until marriage because they don't want to get stoned. All "pure" women in the West are just settled-down Karens.
>>33264347
>You're simply sensitive to it.
Why shouldn't I be? Being a virgin past 17 is a shame.

>>33264395
I wish I could say that but I wasn't a very bright kid when it came to social matters. I always just knew that my parents took me to therapy because *something* was wrong with me. The piece of shit psychologists there always treated me like a toddler, playing stupid games and whatnot, while never even mentioning anything about a mental illness. I honestly would've preferred if I got some sense beaten into me, but my parents were too well-meaning for that.

>>33264328
>who you are seems to be a whingey sped a
only insecure people who aren't comfortable to just be themselves act like a "whingey sped"

>>33264397
>Why shouldn't I be? Being a virgin past 17 is a shame.
So what are you going to do about it?

>>33264428
Idk yet. Been considering suicide as my OP title suggests, but I still have some stuff to do and I'm unsure if I want to bring such pain on my parents and loved ones.

>>33264434
Say you had a friend in your exact situation. What would you tell them to do? Would you literally tell them to off themselves just because they haven't had sex yet? Probably not.

>>33264446
Considering that we'd be in the same position I might try to cheer him up by saying that we make each other happy.

>>33264472
That's good, but what actionable advice would you give him?

>>33264485
Paying for it.

>>33264204 (OP)
>18
You fucking child
>Kissless virgin
You are a child
>Autistic
Just like everyone else, it's called being a man
>Socially retarded
Just be nice dude
>Nerdy hobbies
Some of us don't have hobbies
>depressing jobs like programming
ftfy
>Only friends are fellow autistic nerds
Then make new friends. Smile and stuff.
>Too much of a pussy to fuck whores
Besides the fact that you are to young to be trying that, if you're too much of a pussy to do x you have a self-consciousness problem and you need to ask yourself why

>>33264525
I look creepy when I smile.
>if you're too much of a pussy to do x you have a self-consciousness problem and you need to ask yourself why
Because I am legally an adult and still a virgin. As I said previously, I'd like to consult a therapist but a single session would take up 1/4 of my monthly wagiebuxx.

>>33264204 (OP)
You're only 18. You're still a kid. Chill.
>But I'm legally an adult
Only in the legal sense. You don't magically change into a different person the instant you turn 18. You still have a lot of growing up to do.

>>33264262
yeah I'm sorry bro even if you have to fake them and learn many scripts to recite in many regular social scenarios but you gotta improve your social skills
that's a MUST
girls are other people
to talk to other people you need social skills
the more people you talk to the better chances of finding someone that you like /likes you
it's just elemental, I'm sorry, you gotta improve onto that or it'll be neetdom for you, I know attractive people with 0 social skills who don't date because of that, even girls interested in them lose interest when they don't reciprocate social interactions.

>>33264707
Then it's over for me because I have no way to improve them.

>>33264847
learn them as scripts if you have to

>>33264397
>It does because you can measure your whole worth by how much you are desired
Says who that's your whole worth? There's no objective measurement of worth so only you decide what makes a person valuable or not
>How am I supposed to do that when I'm such an evolutionary failure that I couldn't even fuck the girls who were going to bed with <80 IQ drugged up retards?
Because those girls are whores and you shouldn't want to associate with them anyway
>For that to happen I'd have to move to some Third World shithole like Afghanistan where women don't lose their virginities until marriage because they don't want to get stoned. All "pure" women in the West are just settled-down Karens.
You're making up excuses to avoid even trying because you're a pussy. This would be true if you were like 25+ but you're only 18, a good chunk of 18yo girls are virgins. You'd know this if you based your ideas off your own experiences rather than what jaded older guys on here complain about
>Why shouldn't I be? Being a virgin past 17 is a shame.
you just arbitrarily set a standard younger than you so you can feel like a failure and whinge. Stop being so fucking pathetic

>>33264434
Lmao yeah kill yourself over not getting any highschool sluts and stop shitting up this board with your not really asking for advice please feel bad for me rants

>>33264204 (OP)
If these were valid reasons, I would be dead already

>>33264204 (OP)
hey twin im also an 18 yearold kissless virgin. My brother was once one too he thought it was over for him but he eventualy got a fellow virgin gf at 20 from his work. sometimes im bothered by my pathetic circumstance sometimes i cuddle a pillow and listen to gf asmr on youtube and its generaly a pleasnt experience i have no sence of shame. But big picture im very greatful for my life. Its good you take things seriously but that dosnt nessasarily mean you need to be emotionaly invested in it. Also its not weird to be like us especialy in this generation heres some stats from 2014.

PS dont go to a therapist just use chatgpt its basicaly the same but free and way more convienyent. also does alcohol help your social awkwardness.

>>33265991
>You're making up excuses to avoid even trying because you're a pussy. This would be true if you were like 25+ but you're only 18, a good chunk of 18yo girls are virgins. You'd know this if you based your ideas off your own experiences rather than what jaded older guys on here complain about
No woman wants an autist. Humans are tribal animals and instinctually exclude us for being too different.
>you just arbitrarily set a standard younger than you so you can feel like a failure and whinge. Stop being so fucking pathetic
Nope, society has done that. Everyone expects me to have already lost my virginity because I don't look like some troglodyte neckbeard.
>>33266052
I don't want people to feel bad for me, if anything I prefer people telling me I'm a lost cause.
>>33266251
Your brother likely wasn't autistic.
>alcohol
Tastes like distilled urine and can turn you into an addict.

>>33264204 (OP)
>Doing an apprenticeship as an industrial engineer because I'm too dumb for six-figure jobs
Industrial Engineer is a six figure job.
Also you clearly have no interest in women as none of your hobbies and interests involve them.

I seriously cannot grasp why someone simultaneously cries so hard about not having X in their schedule and yet does not even remotely put X in their schedule.
I must conclude some people are retarded.

>>33264566
> Only in the legal sense. You don't magically change into a different person the instant you turn 18.
That doesn’t mean they’re a child at 18. Americans infantilized young people way too much

>>33266340
>Oh I'm too autistic women will shoot me on sight ooh
You're just going to keep making excuses forever in hopes someone will agree "yeah your issues are completely unsolvable and 0% your fault poor bugger yeah you should just die a martyrs death as a victim of this cruel world and society" what a fucking joke man. Do you even want help or not? Get a fucking hold of yourself. I was a complete fucking autist as a kid and it took years and many times making a fool of myself for me to gradually understand how to socialise with people. You can either keep feeling sorry for yourself or do something but you can't just keep whinging forever it's tiresome.

>>33264204 (OP)
it doesnt sound like you want to kill yourself.
You sound like a whiny bitch.
Really suicidal people, they sound hopeless. Resigned.

I think you need to grow up a little.
Is being a whiny bitch a symptom of autism? I think its just you.
Have more important problems.

>>33266345
>Also you clearly have no interest in women as none of your hobbies and interests involve them.
Hobbies like sex?

>>33266443
>Really suicidal people, they sound hopeless. Resigned.
And how do you know that?
>Have more important problems.
I wish I did.

>>33266458
>I wish I had more important problems
Sounds to me like you can barely handle these ones

>>33266474
The reason I want more important problems is to realise that my current situation isn't the worst it can be.

>>33266489
Join the army. You might even grow tf up a bit.

>>33266519
They won't let me because in my country people with disabilities aren't allowed to enlist, and even if that wasn't the case I don't want to go to war for politicians and elites who don't even know my name.

>>33266542
Well the Army's shit anyway I hated it. Reason I recommend you to join is because you might realise having problems isn't something to look forward to - if your problems don't really matter it means things are going smoothly for you. You just need to change your attitude man and stop feeling so hard done by all the time. It won't change anything on its own, but it'll help you make better decisions in the long run.

>>33266724
Thank you.

>>33266366
>That doesn’t mean they’re a child at 18. Americans infantilized young people way too much
Spoken like an 18 year old trying to insist they're not basically a child. Give it a decade or so; you'll eventually get it.

>>33264204 (OP)
There is no need to kill yourself because you are fundamentally already dead. You missed out on the most important and formative part of life. It's over, you are a ghost. Just don't think about it and flip the fucking burgers, clean the Walmart floor. This is who you are, this is the path you have been set on.

>>33266489
There will always be someone worse than you, it makes no sense to "think about people who have it worse". Even a dirty hobo with aids has a better life than an african kid with Ebola starving to death. It's a pointless waste of time.
You should look at the average around you, compare yourself to it, and determine if you are on par with your peers or are lacking behind, in which case you need to fix your life.

>>33269869
How the fuck am I supposed to fix my nonexistent sex life if the average age for losing virginity in my country is 17 and I'm 18? Autism just makes it worse.

>>33264204 (OP)
If you want to have sex and don't have any traditional support networks (arranged marriages), you pretty much have to go to college and live on campus.

No. You still got it. You'll find love eventually.

>>33271850
I'd need a master's degree for that and by the time I have one I'll be in my early 20s.