Thread 33267482

I'm a 27 year old virgin, is it too late to even try to get laid? I recently realized that I'm at the age now where people are starting families and the dating pool will get smaller and smaller as time will go on from here on out. My lack of experience at this age will be a red flag to women past my age, and I will be considered a creep to anyone in their early-mid 20's. How to I escape the anxiety.

>>33267482 (OP)
Probably yeah. I'm 26 and was supposed to get pussy 5 months ago and after she sucked my dick she literally just up and left because she realized I was a virgin. I have no idea how she knew because all she did was suck me off and I never told her

>>33267482 (OP)
Pretty easy if you just want to get laid, a lot of women on tinder are happy for you to rail them. Getting a long term girlfriend however that's practically impossible once you're 27+ (unless you're ok with her already having kids)

>>33267482 (OP)
27 / 2 + 7 = 20.5
Relax. You're not even old. I'm 33 and attract young to mid 20 year-olds on the regular.

>>33267500
Did she explain that to you or did she ghost you?

>>33267500
Did you keep letting her suck you for a long time? You're supposed to lead and take initiative...

>>33267482 (OP)

Take a deep breath and relax—take care of both your physical health and your mental well-being.

I’m in my 30s and still actively date women in their early to mid 20s. You can actually be a refreshing change from what they’re usually used to—guys who are often immature, rude, or just plain dull.

>>33267482 (OP)
>I will be considered a creep to anyone in their early-mid 20's
Is.. is that an age gap? B...Between two adults? In their 20s???
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHH

yeah no buddy only terminally online retards with a permanent high school mentality are sitting around posting about age gaps.

The only time you're ever going to raise some normie eyebrows in the real world is if you're like a girl's dad's age or significantly older. like a 60 year old marrying a 19 year old.

>>33267901
But all normies/retards talk shit about these days are age gaps. they think a 40 year old dating a 26 year old is weird.

>>33267901
I had a woman in her late 40s tell me I shouldn’t be looking at any women under 25 and I’m 30 :(
I try to explain that I’m a virgin

>>33267482 (OP)
>endless rumination and excuse-making for inaction
LOL. I wohnt read it.

>>33267516
>however that's practically impossible once you're 27+ (unless you're ok with her already having kids)

Nigga what?! I'm 27 and still date women with no children. What crack are you fucking smoking?

>>33267482 (OP)
Honestly no it's not too late. Just date women it's as simple as that and have fun and also on top of that stop being a creep and having this as an ulterior motive. Women do not like men that are desperate hell men don't like women that are desperate either. Stop worrying about trying to get pussy and and focus on yourself with hobbies socializing and doing whatever is right is right for you.

>>33267962
retards yes, the terminally online ones

but no one normal gives a shit that a 22 year old is dating a 27 year old or whatever

>>33268109
who was this woman

>>33267482 (OP)
>is it too late to even try to get laid?
No, plenty of people lose it late.
My brother was 30 when he met his wife(was a virgin before that), now they have a kid and hes also highly succesful

>>33268812
Also let's not forget that a lot of these men want to have a virgin woman.

The double standards is just fucking retarded.
Either way men should not be ashamed for being a virgin.

>>33267482 (OP)
Are you a ruralfag? If yes, honestly your best bet is to move to an actual city. Those rules don't really apply there. At 27 you're easily in range for 20-35 year old women, you can absolutely bang a swathe through fresh faced students and horny divorcees alike.

>>33267482 (OP)
instead of trying to get laid immediately try to date and get friends of both genders and stuff
you guys wanna jump all the pre requisites and go directly to the fun part

>>33269756
Horrible advice I'm a ruralfag and moved to a city for uni and didn't talk to a single person except cashiers and professors for 5 years

>>33269961
that's a you problem tho, I've moved countries and made friends in places where I barely spoke the language when we started talking

>>33268798
The woman in her 40s was a lady I work with. She was nice until I told her I’m looking for 18-24 year olds.

>>33270196
How?

>>33267482 (OP)
Literally just pretend you're not and lie if anybody asks. Male virginity is a spook by the way, you'll still be the same guy as before but you'll know how it feels to get your dick wet. It only changes you if so much of your headspace was focused on being a virgin in the first place.

>>33267482 (OP)
Technically, no, realistically, yes. You're right at the age where sex-having reaches an asymptote. If you make a genuine prolonged effort to have sex no matter what, you will eventually lose your virginity, but at what cost?

>>33267482 (OP)
At 27, you should see a prostitute. 27 is old enough to know. I wish Id done it younger.

>>33267962
>they think
dont let them think. Do your shit & dont let anyone know what youre up to.
You cant have anything good in life if you let others know about it.

>>33271300
To know what?

>>33267482 (OP)
>Be me in 2023
>26 about to turn 27
>Have online LDR GF visit me across thr country
>Spend a week in a hotel room together
>Lose my virginity and have awkward sex since these are my first times
>Enjoy our time together
>She returns home
>Fast forward 9 months
>She moves up here
>More sexual experience and learn to satisfy her better
>Fast forward another 9 months
>Her kids have been visiting and getting to know me
>The youngest called me stepdad back when we were online dating, but the oldest told her mom privately that I'm more of a dad than her own father

If a fat NEET like me can do it, so can you anon. Keep your head up.

>>33267901
>60
>19
Like Bill Belicheck?

>>33271420
>To know what?
That something is wrong. that its not going to happen otherwise.

Look at the graph above, you see where it flattens? After it flattens, life doesnt change unless you change it.

Bro, everyone's fucking post is being such a sardonic fuck lol. It's funny. But I say take your time finding someone you really wanna give it. Time is a lie.

>>33271270
>90% done it by 22
Haha
It has never been more over for me
I mean, i knew i was cooked but seeing the numbers like that just hits on a rational way that is impossible to avoid or make any excuses for

I'm a 34 year old virgin. I see myself as subhuman and incapable of ever attracting someone to have sex. I have an inferiority complex and a massive fear of people so I never leave my house and don't see a point in interacting with anyone. I'm too afraid of prostitutes. The image of myself having sex makes me feel extremely uncomfortable

>>33271831
If you're 22 and not the OP, it means you still have approximately a 50% chance of having sex before you die. It might not be good sex, it might be entrapment sex from a desperate baby-wanting woman lying about birth control, but sex nonetheless.

>>33271842
Well actually I'm not OP, I'm 26 and have had plenty of physical sex, except I've only ever been with prostitutes, never got even close to having a romantic relationship that led to sex.
So it's not really about putting the benis inside someone, that's not particularly special or impressive, doesn't even feel that good besides scratching an itch. Sex as a physical act is just meh, it's qll about what it's supposed to symbolize from an emotional perspective
It's more about the fact I'm long past the window where people experience affection / connections with others, that just makes me so undesirable as a romantic prospect, and even if there was someone dumb enough to feel something for me the sheer asymmetry in emotional intelligence will just ruin it for both.

If you're a virgin past like 16 it's over. When I was 17 I had a gf and when she found out I was a virgin she cheated on me with 72 black guys, at once.

Why join the retardation that is others basing their life on not looking gay, fucking, and having to be a badass?

>>33271458
How to you even convince a girl to have sex with you? Like what did you say for her to engage?

>>33271953
>hey, here's $200
>thanks babe, you get one hour
it's that easy

>>33271971
I'm talking about talking game.

I lost virignity this year at 28 so it sure is possible. I installed tinder for the first time and I fucked the first girl I met up kek. She was a ex-junkie so nothing special lmao, but a solid 6/10 so nothing to be ashamed of. Of course my life did not change a bit from the experience but at least, but at least I don't feel like a retard who never saw a naked woman irl.

>>33267774
>the man should be hotter than the woman
faggot

>>33272452
I can't even get likes on tinder. Was your profil solid ?

>>33272564
I don't think so. My face is 6/10 at best and I have shitty one line bio with a joke. All my photos though are doing something "interesting" like being on a yacht, skiing, cycling so maybe it works somehow. Also for some reason tinder gave me like 12 boosts for free and whenever I use them I get multiple likes.

>>33272564
also, do you live in a city? if you live in a bumfuck nowhere then tinder is useless.

>>33272470
That's literally not what was typed, but ok. Keep misinterpreting things, I'm sure your close ones love you.

>>33271458
>Her kids have been visiting and getting to know me
>The youngest called me stepdad back when we were online dating, but the oldest told her mom privately that I'm more of a dad than her own father
lmaooo

>>33272452
Same at 23, it did help me though because I was getting worked up about it. I even told the girl beforehand but I wouldn't recommend this necessarily.