Can you handle the stress of other men constantly trying to hit on her?
My friend has a hot gf and its insane. When she's left alone to go smoke there's ALWAYS a guy approaching her.

>>33272230 (OP)
I wouldn't get a gf who goes outside or uses social media, so I would be fine.

having a gf who smokes is the bigger problem

>>33272230 (OP)
>Can you handle the stress of other men constantly trying to hit on her?
yeah i wouldnt care, if im dating someone, it means there's a level of trust
if i cant trust her, whats even the point?

>>33272230 (OP)
convert to islam
problem solved
add as many layers of trashbag clothes as needed

>>33272268
>yeah i wouldnt care, if im dating someone, it means there's a level of trust
>if i cant trust her, whats even the point?
by trusting women you prove you are a cuck
women cant be trusted and they know it
if you dont know it it means you let them loose and it means they belong to the man on the street, not to you

>>33272666
Yeah dude, just become a control freak, fucking great idea

>>33272666
then whats the point?

>>33272669
>>33272666
also 666 trips you are the devil and SHALL NOT BE HEARD

>>33272688
>then whats the point?
they bear life but they need your help in carrying it out


>>33272669
>Yeah dude, just become a control freak, fucking great idea
a control freak is the extreme
you need a just middle
women need some control, neither too much nor too little
you think women dont control men and boys in return?
why do you think over a million white christian combat able work able men just died on the ukraine-russia border in the past three years?
for shlomo? Sure, but genetically they did it for their women
even if it didnt really help their women, they as males are driven to do so anyway
have you seen russian or ukrainian women mourn these men? Protest their pointless deaths?
women's control over men is a given, a fact of nature
they literally create males to serve them
does anybody talk about a million white christian men just having died for nothing? NOPES
world keeps turning
let's talk about the yolocaust instead

>>33272689
>also 666 trips you are the devil and SHALL NOT BE HEARD
women control males effortlessly
their challenge is to control themselves
they need your help for that
they control males from conception to death, and they pick the genitors they want for the traits they need in their offspring
so when you set one loose, you are signaling you are useless as a keeper of her raging inferno
her volcano of life
she cant handle it alone
it's either you, a male, or the sisterhood/fem hivemind that will give her some of the control she desperately needs

I went out with an absolutely smoking hot girl for a few months when I was a teenager.
We were both 16, so she looked model-tier grown and I looked like a child with a neckbeard.
Every time we went out, older men would openly hit on her as she walked down the street holding my hand. On one hand, its satisfying knowing how jealous they are you're getting to play with it, on the other hand you know deep down that every time this happens it inflates her ego a little bit more, creates uncomfortable questions, you know?
My current gf is a bit of a butter - great body but a weirdly proportioned face.
I'm well past the age where aesthetics trump temperament, so the additional bonus of getting to fuck said nice body whilst having a friendly gf that isn't coveted by my friends is all good in my book.
I don't know if i'd have said this in my 20s however

>>33272230 (OP)
It's annoying but shouldn't stress you out. If she decides she's with you, then you just have to trust that. Remember - if she's hot, she's had men hitting on her for her entire life. She has rejected thousands of men. It's nothing to her.

>>33272666
Anon, you can't control anyone. You may feel like you can, but you can't, unless you literally chain her up in your basement. She is another human with her own autonomy. If she wants to cheat on you, she'll find a way. Even if it's 5 min in the day where you don't know where she is, she can find time to cheat. Don't let it drive you crazy. If you find out she cheated, then just dump her and move on.

And ugly trailer park women cheat just as much or more than hot women do. It doesn't make any difference, guys. If she wants to cheat, she will. Just be a good partner and she won't even want to.

>>33272843
If she's hot, her ego has already been inflated her entire life. If anything, she's getting openly hit on/stared at less while she's with you than she was before. You have to remember that. It's new to you because you're with her. For her, it's just the same thing that's happened every day since puberty started.

>>33272230 (OP)
Won't stress you out if you're with the right woman

i firmly believe that if you ever genuinely question your girlfriend's loyalty (to the point where you feel stressed around other guys) then you're 100% with the wrong person

t. guy who somehow married the most attractive woman i've ever seen

Don't be a possessive asshole.but don't let yourself get cucked either. Have boundaries in the behavior you'll tolerate form her and from yourself

>>33272872
All ancient history now anyway.
As you could probably predict I was swiftly ejected as soon as she got a place at university (a 10 minute drive away), on the basis that she would feel 'stifled' at uni being with someone that lived away from campus
And my poor fucking kid sap of a self believed her lol
In hindsight though, it was always going to turn out that way.
To answer OP's question, if you are in any way insecure being with a really hot girl will test your self-esteem, because men you perceive as above you will shoot their shot, whether they know you exist or not. It will also test the loyalty of the woman in question.
Like all exhilarating experiences in life, being with a 10 has drawbacks concordant with the benefits. I wouldn't, personally, because I have little interest in maintaining myself to the required degree to compete at that level. Most women look the same naked and bent like a pretzel.

>>33272230 (OP)
It's not such a big deal. If she's loyal to you, then you shouldn't be worried. If shes not loyal, why are you with her?

>>33272230 (OP)
>Can you handle the stress of other men constantly trying to hit on her?
you guys are really a bunch of insecure assholes trying and failing to pretend you're alpha aren't you
to answer your question, yes, I've had hot gfs
1 was so hot people thought I was paying her to be my arm candy or my yatch prostitute
since I don't delude myself about my own appearance (I'm a solid 6,5) it felt good.

>>33272893
The thing with women is, they generally actually believe the bullshit they say. I have no doubt she really believed what she told you, even if it was blatant nonsense - it's the story she told herself to interpret her feelings and relayed it to you. But either way man, it really doesn't matter. Whether that was really the deeper reason or not, whether she believed it or not, and whether you believed it or not, the result is the same. There was nothing you could have done to prevent that breakup, it's all on her.

Calm your tits, anon. Take notes:

>confidence and trust
If you’re genuinely confident in your relationship and trust your partner, other people’s attention becomes less threatening. Your focus should be on the bond you share, not on external distractions. Jealousy and insecurity only add stress and can harm the relationship.

>attraction and looks
It’s natural for people to notice someone they find attractive. Your girlfriend getting approached is not a reflection of her feelings or loyalty to you, nor does it automatically threaten your relationship. Attraction is often just surface-level and fleeting, so don't put too much weight onto it.

>communication
Don't be a coward and talk openly with her about how you feel and what boundaries make both of you comfortable. She can help set the tone by politely but firmly handling unwanted attention. Teamwork in dealing with these situations strengthens your connection.

>overreacting
If you feel stress or jealousy, take a moment to breathe and evaluate why. Reacting aggressively or possessively only escalates problems and might make your girlfriend uncomfortable. Staying calm shows maturity and self-control.

>building your own strengths
Instead of worrying like a moron about others’ attention on your girlfriend, work on being the best partner you can be. That is, being supportive, respectful, interesting, and confident (crazy stuff, I know). That’s what truly sustains a healthy relationship, not whatever you've been told by pimps or roided tards.

Your friend’s experience is common when dating someone conventionally attractive, especially in social settings like bars or public places. It can be annoying, but it’s manageable and part of adult social life. Talk with your woman, stop being a pussy about it, and get your shit together. Other anons might have already said it already, but being paranoid about your girl won't make her stick around you long.

>>33272727
Women don't control men to go to war, that's just the men's stupid idea of proving themselves

>>33272878
>t. guy who somehow married the most attractive woman i've ever seen
And this is relevant how? Do you not feel stressed at all then? What was the poubt of this message?

>>33272230 (OP)
>When she's left alone to go smoke there's ALWAYS a guy approaching her
That's crazy because I've had smoking hot girls as friends who went on huge single streaks because guys were too nervous to ask them out/assumed she was taken.

>>33272870
you misunderstand what control actually means
here, see how women control males: >>33272727
control isnt "you do what i tell you because it pleases me"
it is instead "i will stop giving you what you need if you dont give me what i need"

>>33273594
>Women don't control men to go to war, that's just the men's stupid idea of proving themselves
that "stupid idea" is kept strong by women's control over the entirety of the males' lifecycle because without men going to war women wouldnt survive and they know it

men who dont go to war will simply not get to reproduce because women will reject them
if you pick the higher social classes instead that dont join the military they are still at war with the lower classes who do and you'll notice their women want them to be ruthless in their war with the fighting, working classes

>>33273601
>Do you not feel stressed at all then?
no
i was just saying im with a hot girl since that's what OP asked about

>>33272230 (OP)
Honestly it really sucks when you're in a bad neighborhood

>>33272870
>Anon, you can't control anyone.
Control is love and care


>You may feel like you can, but you can't, unless you literally chain her up in your basement.
She can't breathe, eat or sleep without me.

> She is another human with her own autonomy.
And she needs to be controlled. Because control is love and care. Her words and ideas, not mine.

> If she wants to cheat on you, she'll find a way.
And I wouldnt have any motive left to take care of her


>Even if it's 5 min in the day where you don't know where she is, she can find time to cheat.
Turns out she can't. Not that she would want to anyhow. There's not a second where I dont know where she is, and I'm with her anywhere she is at any time.

> Don't let it drive you crazy. If you find out she cheated, then just dump her and move on.
LOL I do dump her regularly, but I'm trying to stop. Because it kills her everytime. Not over cheating as she wouldnt do that, but over me tiring of being at her service. Control goes both ways. The Dom serves the needs of the sub. The needs of the sub are what the whole relationship rests upon. I don't see myself as a Dom BTW, but she does. I'm not even interested in such a role/persona. I'm interested in caretaking.

>And ugly trailer park women cheat just as much or more than hot women do. It doesn't make any difference, guys. If she wants to cheat, she will. Just be a good partner and she won't even want to.
You're delusional. People don't cheat because their partner is "bad"; they cheat because their partner fails to control them which is the real trait that makes them actual bad partners. I stopped commenting about the tits and asses I see on the street, because she made a good case for me to stop. That's one example of control she has over me. I still look, but I don't indulge in looking as much as I used to. I keep her, therefore she can keep me.

>>33273594
war exists because our species needs it to in order to survive, and so does each and every population group individually
women, as the bearers of life, make sure males wage these wars in the aspects that puts men directly at risk: that wouldnt be a suitable role for a wombbearer as wombs are by far the most precious resource
women keep their men at war because their survival depends on it
they select genitors who have warrior traits, or any traits that will help the war effort
if they decide to discard their past male stock, like western women are doing right now, they call in new males from different stock to replace them
these males have one chief characteristic: they are warriors, and they are selected and invited in mostly upon that requirement
they are of fighting age and have shown strength and drive to conquer by making the trip, illegally and dangerously, through the sea to reach the promised wombs
the ruling classes are keeping these new males well fed, housed and entertained on the previous male stock's dime while preparing the storage caches of weapons they will supply them with when the time comes to cull the discarded male stock that hasnt been reproducing properly for 4 generations already

>>33272230 (OP)
Got hot gf, now hot fiance.

I trust her to be loyal the same way she trusts me to be loyal and it's a non issue. We fuck like pornstars, talk honestly and genuinely enjoy one anothers company so I feel pretty damn secure in our relationship.

Gotta have trust to have success in a relationship, if you don't have that foundation you won't last the test of time.

>>33275490
western women are discarding their past male stock because it failed at war in two devastating world wars during which that stock just slaughtered each others by the tens of millions for the benefit of an alien parasitic tribe
white women rightfully decided to discard and replace their males after this catastrophic failure
after four generations of refusing to reproduce properly, they have now upgraded their attack upon the male sex of their race to the removal of the sacred organs of their own children to make sure the buck of that stock stops right there and then
as you can see, it's not just men who wage war
men die in wars, for their women and children
women direct them to die here or there, this or that way

>>33275490
The shitskins they are inviting in are not warriors, they are the literal criminal element from thier respective regions. Literal sub 80 iq.

Western women don't see them all stock replacement either, they see them as infants needing a mother.

>>33275498
>You think people really go on the internet and just lie?
Pic is me and my wife

>>33272666
LOL there are real lovers still out there but if you suck you are not likely to find one

>>33272727
>they bear life but they need your help in carrying it out
What is the point? Pump and dump then. Why would you want one to be yours?

Cope cus you're not getting yours

I will suffer the burden of the hot girlfriend. I have the willpower and mental strength to survive the kind of torture described. I know many are not up to such a task, bray pray thee God, I accept this challenge

>>33275501
they are entirely willing and able to slaughter and exterminate what remains of white men however and they are getting groomed and soon armed to do so, not to mention trained if you consider ghettos as training and breeding grounds
and all that grand slaughter strategy is being armed and prepared with the full support of the white female sex, at all levels and in all preparatory aspects, even minutiously organized through the administration sector

once again white females are entirely rational and reasonable to adopt this strategy after the catastrophic failure of white males to win wars and secure strength and security for their own people through two ridiculously devastating, suicidal world wars. Also dont forget the so-called spanish flu that killed more people than WW1, and that was warfare too, a weapon created in an American military lab

Funnily enough, a new manufactured epidemic has just happened 5 years ago, and once again white people have been the champions of committing suicide by willingly taking suicidal weapons sold as treatments by the ever at work aforementioned parasitic tribe
Also white middle class children are not just getting newly sterilized and hormonally-poisoned and their lifespans thus halved by their own moms, they are now being legally euthanized by the nanny state in a quickly growing number of western countries

>>33275523
because life isnt about draining your balls into a loveless body
the point of life, love and sex is reproduction

>>33275527
Cant even read past your first paragraph. Brown people are largely incapable of any coordinated military or military training. THE white skill above all is military engineering and large scale cooperation. Nothing else really matters in the face of this fact, proven currently and historically.

>>33275536
what odds do you give the french white stock in a civil war against france's muslim population?
dont forget the government is organizing the slaughter, as it has been doing it (in a soft manner so far) since 1973
over the pond, how many U.S. "illegal aliens" can be armed and launched against the american white stock?
what side would non-whites join?

>>33275501
>Western women don't see them all stock replacement either, they see them as infants needing a mother.
infants that will rid them of the defective old white male stock
as for new genitors, which species, realm or planet they come from they dont give a fuck: they're white women, the most desirable wombs in the universe
they could get impregnated by a.i. or reproduce among females for all they care, doesnt matter to them, they rule and will pick the best option as it offers itself, what am i saying, sacrifices itself for the privilege

>>33275543
The brown people who are being used to strategically disinherit white people from their nations are not invaders, or military assets. In the sense that they can be used to physically harass people in cities via means of passive policing and negligent execution of legal system then yes, white people are at a martial disadvantage. But I am in NYC often and most of the brown people there are not capable of sustaining a military effort. These brown people are on the dole, losers in their own country. They do drugs and live in the street and wear rags. The Africans are a physically strong people there is no doubt. But God disadvantaged them by making coordination literally impossible for them. Too much ego, pride and jealousy/spite against their own peoples hamstring them. They can only be successful in white systems.

>>33275506
Happy for you bro always fun to have a lady who's into fitness.

>>33272230 (OP)
Your post is just making me think back the time I was hanging out with my younger sister out in some bar and I went to go get us some drinks and then five men all of the sudden hit on her at the same time. When I came back they all ran away when they saw my scary looking ass.

>>33276678
Ohh, shiver me timbers!

>>33276678
Is your ass really that freaky looking? Do you have three buttcheeks or what?

>>33275490
What a load of bullshit.
We don't need war to survive in today's world. How do women male sure we go to war and not them? We men do it voluntarily wothout any commands lmao
Women discrading their past male flock? And them calling new ones? What the fuck are you talking about? Those decisions were made a by a small group of retarded politicians and libtards.
Through the sea? Are you referring to the African immigrants who come by boat? Again, those weren't conscious decisions either

>>33272230 (OP)
Have you seen how thirsty guys are today and how low the standards are?
Basically if you have any gf (or female friend) that's not 300 lbs, you can't take her anywhere without guys hitting on her like she's the hottest girl alive.
You just get used to it.

>>33276783
I look and dress very similar to Fenriz from Darkthrone.

>>33277055
Spooky

>>33272230 (OP)
I've had a few, including my now-wife.
It is not that big a deal. After all, girls flirt with me all the time and I stay true to my girl!
'being BF/GF' = 'you trust each other'.

>>33272727
You must be 18 years old or older to post on any 4chan board, kid.

>>33276866
>We don't need war to survive in today's world
You've never even done a pushup, have you?

>>33277556
Wjat does exercise have to do with doing wars to survive?

>>33272230 (OP)
One thing I can say is a hot girl can never pretend to not know a man is hitting on her. That hot girl has seen and heard every thing. Short play and long play, aggressive and passive SHE KNOWS. If you run across a hot girl that pretends to be naive you're in trouble. They are masters at handling men

How do I stop thinking about women? I try some hobbies and do some productive things but it still won't budge, overtime it worsens my body dysmorphia and makes me feel ashamed for being who I am right now (normal dude who isn't buff)

I need to move on from this phase as fast as I can so I that whenever I'm trying to get better, it is for God and not her.

>>33277640
shit i forgot i was ina post fuck me

>>33277576
Because you either prepare for war or you prepare to be enslaved/
Weak, frail men would rather be enslaved and therefore fear war most.

>>33278200
Wtf are you trying to say?

>>33278394
Oh.
you're also a fucking retard.
OK, retard, I will use small words.
Any moron that thinks war is not something every man has to accept as a fact of life and something to be prepared for is worthless as a man.
Sure, he might press buttons any woman can press, and he might have a friend or two.
But he isn't actually a man. He is, at best, waiting for his chains.
Clear yet?
Or do you need your mommy to explain that anyone who writes something like
>We don't need war to survive in today's world
is worthless?

>>33272666
satan posts worst blackpill ever, asked to leave /adv/

>>33278413
Why should I be prepared for war? And why does not doing that make me a worthless as a man?
What buttons are you talking about, and what do his friends have to do with all this?
Waiting for his chains? What kind of chains?
And yet, I'm still a man, surviving and not dying in some stupid war for old politicians. Ear that, vermin

>>33272230 (OP)
Currently dating a hot girl, some random guy came up and asked for her number when we were eating together

Truly bizarre

She said no, I just laughed and we went home and fucked 4 times

Some men are such retarded apes it's unreal

>>33278765
*eat that

>>33278780
How can you fuck 4 times in one night?

>>33272230 (OP)
Depends how she behaves.
I've had 2 hot girlfriends.
One was modest by nature, honest, and mentally stable and understood boundaries. So I didnt have to think about it. I knew she'd deflect that sort of attention. She didnt want it to begin with.
Another was a bipolar attention whore, definitely enjoyed the attention and let orbitors hang around in her life.
That bothered me. Dragged that out too long, I admit.

Depends on the woman, dude. Its not all on you. Some women are just untrustworthy. If you're not retarded they show you who they are though, its not like you're gambling blind. Trouble is people think with their dicks and egos too much.

>>33278801
I cum in 30 seconds.

>>33278810
So, why are you not together with them anymore?

>>33278851
>implying this could be the only reason people break up
The first one was 20 years ago and that was a life took different paths thing.
The second one was bevause of what I just described. Trash woman all around.

And Im married now, anyhow.

>>33272268
>>33272230 (OP)
Work with her. Lure the men in. Fool them. When they wake up, their catalytic converters are gone and the copper pipes have been stripped from their houses. YOU will become millionaires in the course of a year if you master the dark arts. In 2026, you will be toasting Dom Perignon from a yatch, and will have so much money you can just buy car batteries from a store to enjoy the immense thrill of dumping them from your sea vessel directly instead of needing to throw them. Your offspring will be powerful from the platinum exposure and the master morality flowing through their veins.

>>33278765
>>33278796
>[retarded slave noises]
lol

>>33278858
Oh wow. Well, good that it worked out for you in the end :)

>>33278932
>anon doesn't want to die in some war
>retarded slave noises
Kek

>>33278801
Get home at 11pm, fuck for 45 mins and cum, lie in bed and talk for a bit, rinse and repeat till 3am

>>33278981
>too weak and afraid to fight for himself and his people
>not retarded
Pick one, loser bitch

Yeah that annoying guy was me. I'm a douchebag.

>>33280386
Nice projection, but I've been to the military and it's fucking pointless. There is no "people" either.

>>33281239
A rootless, pointless, boy with no family, no human ties, and no courage is afraid of violence?
Many such cases

>>33272666
satan go back downstairs the kids are waiting

>>33282165
I'm not afraid to break your knee caps and teach you a lesson in humility

What if you get a hot gf?