Thread 33277282 - /adv/ [Archived: 720 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:51:17 AM No.33277282
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ok so basically I went on a few dates with someone and they told me they love me and I said I didn't love them back because I don't think we've known each other long enough to have those kinds of feelings

she still wants to be with me but she seems just kinda a bit sad when we hang out and she keeps telling me that she loves me idk what to do, I do like her a lot but its been a few weeks how can you love someone that quick 0_o I feel terrible but its like idk what to dooooooooooooooooooooooooo aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 11:24:35 AM No.33277324
>>33277282 (OP)
Well you don't have to do anything. Maybe just try feeling more comfortable with setting boundaries. You don't feel ready to say I love you yet, stand firm in that decision until you do feel comfortable saying it
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 11:27:17 AM No.33277329
>that pic
Fucking women. Nothing is ever good enough.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 11:58:32 AM No.33277418
>>33277282 (OP)
you gotta set some boundaries. tell her she need to relax. from the sounds of it she seems like someone who has either never dated before or is insecure about herself which is why she seems sad after you failed to reciprocate her feelings. People love bomb due to being lonely or insecure.

this is less of a you problem than a her problem. I'd suggest you sit her down and explain to her how you feel about this. Make sure to have her understand that there is room for growth and that you could eventually love her but that you go at your own pace. Relationships are agreements between both of you and she can not force you to do something you're not ready for.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 2:51:06 AM No.33280274
>>33277282 (OP)
nigga are you fucking 15? tell that bitch to grow the fuck up