Is sex without a condom really that much better or not really?

I last longer with condoms and it's less of a mess. That and the studded ones drove my ex crazy.
We'd sometimes start without one and it was slightly better. But like I said, I lasted longer with them.

>>33283863 (OP)
>So you don't know from experience.
This is an advice board, not a "wondering" board, and I won't read your thread.

>>33283863 (OP)
So much better. Condom sex is maybe 75% of unprotected sex.

>>33283874
I've just always been too scared to try without one so I'm just wondering if it's worth it or not.

>>33283863 (OP)
Different. Whether that's better is an individual judgment

Speaking as a woman whose fucked with and without a condom on, I really don't notice much of a difference and I don't get people who do.

>>33283972
Can I practice non-condom sex with you?

>>33283972
My ex-GF didn't like condoms very much, she claimed it feels much different

As a guy, I don't really see the difference. If anything, no condom makes me last longer because I control myself more

>>33283863 (OP)
No-condom sex is one of the best experiences imaginable in life... followed by weeks of existential dread until she gets her period.

All sex can be good or bad. Bad raw sex and bad condom sex are the same. But good raw sex is not even comparable to good condom sex.

I don't even like anal that much. But it's the only time I can pound away raw and finish inside with no consequence. Blowjobs are incredible, too, but you can't really pound her in the mouth, and you can't finish inside with no consequence.

It's mindmeltingly amazing when it's good, but not worth the stress that comes afterwards. Not worth the risk of ruining your life. Plus, sometimes sex is bad. I wouldn't risk my livelihood for a mystery box that could contain either good sex or bad sex.

What does it feel like having your raw cock in a vagina? I've never experienced this and I just want to know. I heard the skin feels the same as the skin on your cheek, is that true?

>>33284364
Skin on cheek is a decent approximation but depends honestly, all pussies are different and the insides also change depending on the hormonal cycle and how turned on/warmed up they are. Some are very smooth, others have ridges or non-smooth structures inside, with some you can really feel sort of an outline of the gspot, others it's hard to feel. The cervix can shift during sex and during time of the month, one girl could easily take me except for a few days in her cycle where we needed to go really slow.

Raw dog remains unmatched but it's not insanely different from condom, provided the condom fits well.

>>33283863 (OP)
It's better. It's not dramatically better.

>>33284345
This (without anal, don‘t like it)

Plus the „uncomplicated“ thing which I love. Wifey and I often cuddle in the mid of the night. Sometimes she turns to the side, and lets me slip in her wet pussy. We f**k, or not, or whatever, doesn‘t matter. Same under the shower. Or some random quickies.

And it got even better since I got a vasectomy = no worries anymore at all, beside her monthly (normal…) mood swings. Can totally recommend. We have kids btw.

>>33283863 (OP)
Jack off with a condom on and see how that feels

>>33283863 (OP)
I guess it's like shooting without ear plugs. A whole hell of a lot more thrilling and mostly you don't have to deal with something that never wants to sit comfortably but there are consequences if you do it very much.

>>33283863 (OP)
Yes but it isn't worth it.
HSV-2 can show up 30 years after the initial contact.

>>33283863 (OP)
for me it's night and day, I can't even keep an erection using a condom
but it's a psychological thing, I feel like the girl has rejected actual intimacy with me if we're not exchanging fluids
that being said I also fuck for up to 40 minutes so if I was one of those dudes that cums in 7 to 12 minutes maybe my erection using a condom would last me those 12 minutes just ok, I have never counted how long I stay hard when I'm forced to use a condom

>>33285561
no, that's gay

>>33283863 (OP)
It really is, to the point I'd rather not have sex if it's required. Now, if I am having a random hookup and she wants me to use a condom, sure. But if we continue to hookup, I am not going to want to use a condom after the 3rd time. The moment they mention a condom, I pretty much lose 90% of the desire to have sex.

Now, sometimes you can just tell a girl is a HOE. If its very obvious, I'll use a condom with them.

But also, if the girl isn't really my type (not unattractive but just not my look) and she wanted to have sex but with a condom, I'd usually just go "Welp, I don't have a condom... so... I guess you should leave now."


Also had a girl I was seeing for a few months and it was Valentines day. Went out for a movie, had dinner at my place and then things started getting steamy. She was giving me a BJ and then I picked her up and tossed her on the bed. She told me to put a condom on and I said I don't want to. She said I had to or we weren't having sex. I got dressed and promptly dropped her ass back off at home which was already about 1am. About 30 minutes later this girl I was on and off with called me and asked me to help her because "a cockroach was blocking her from getting inside". So I drove over to her place (roach disappeared), went inside, eventually started kissing and fucked her raw.

>>33283863 (OP)
It's in general better, but how different can vary with how wet she gets and the form of her vagina. If she's really wet, then you can't feel much in all that juice. At least that was my experience.

>>33285190
Exactly. I forgot to mention this part. If you are able to go raw, you can find these incredible moments.

As opposed to the mood being just right and... hold on a minute... *sound of wrapper*... let me just put... is this thing on... please stay aroused while I... okay where were we?

This must be how old people fuck. I don't want that experience while I'm young.

>>33283863 (OP)
As a man I hate sex without condom.
The whole no condom is better meme, is psyop made by women to lock you with a kid.
Ask any woman if she prefer sex with condom or without and you'd be surprised.
Why do you think women take BC pills?

>>33284364
Yes graze the inside hollow of your cheek with your tongue. That's somewhat what vag feels like.

It feels like the best, warmest, snuggest hug, as if it was always meant to be there, like home for your parts (as stupid as that sounds).

>>33283863 (OP)
It's a completely different experience

>>33283863 (OP)
>that much better
It's better in that you are not wrapped in plastic so you can feel everything rather than just pressure/heat. That being said not getting a girl pregnant is much more worth it.

>>33283863 (OP)
I'd compare it to the difference between touching a boob with vs without a glove on

>>33286357
The only guys who get women pregnant while not using a condom are guys that either:

A) Simply don't care-
As in they don't care to pull out
As in they don't care if a little bit may have went inside
As in they don't care if they nut around the girl's pussy

B) Don't know their body
As in they can't control when and or how sudden they nut

C) Girl takes cum and secretly fingers herself with it while guy isn't looking (avoided by cumming in their mouth)

I've had multiple LTR and extended FWBs who I didn't use condoms with and only one time did I have a "scare". The scare was me noticing I may have busted a singular rope while extra sensitive. I think most guys wouldn't have had a second thought. After we finished I promptly told her I'll buy her a Plan B because I think I may have came a little inside. She appreciated me being honest. So 1 out of like 600+ times having sex, I had 1 accident that I was 100% aware of because I know my body.

>>33283863 (OP)
N

>>33286734
>Girl takes cum and secretly fingers herself with it while guy isn't looking
You wouldn't believe how common is this.

>>33285695
I got hsv2 and it’s literally a nothing burger

>>33286745
I've been with 100+ women and it's never been an issue. I usually have paper towels or wet wipes on deck just in case I came anywhere but inside their mouth. That way there is no fuckery and they won't have a chance to secretly finger themselves.

>>33286788
>100+ women
2d doesn't count.

>>33283863 (OP)
Tom Segura said it best.
Coming inside is like having melted cheese for the first time. Like, what the fuck!? THIS is the same thing!? This is amazing!

>>33286357

What the other guy said.
Pull out method is 98% effective *when done correctly*. Be clean, dont edge, when you come, do not put your dick back in until after you've urinated to flush the system.

Inb4 "hurr 98%"
Always someone who doesnt understand that number is based on the fact using perfect pull out, 2 women will become pregnant *per year*.

>>33286905
Had to check again to get numbers right.

https://shvic.org.au/for-you/contraception/withdrawal-method-pulling-out

96% done perfectly. 78% if not. But again, this involves people knowing how to do it properly.

>>33286924
>if done correctly
In other words: by advertising this method you are increasing the number of retards having kids.

Can't you instead convince them that motorcycling without a helmet is safe -- if done correctly?

>>33283863 (OP)
yes, in fact if you only have had condom sex you're still a virgin. nothing beats cumming inside a pussy while hitting it raw bc that's how it was always intended.

>>33286951
96% is very close to condoms (98%). Even birth control is 99%.
Its effective. If youre not a retard.

If you want 0% chance of kids, dont have sex. But life is full of little risks. Choose your pleasures based on your risk tolerance. And if you're going to choose no condoms, at least dont be stupid.
It fails mostly because people dont pull out in time. And you get plenty of warning youre about to come.

>>33286951
>>33286969
Actually I see what youre actually getting at, and instead, I'll tell you, the stupids are going to reproduce. Theyre really good at it. "Take your fucking dick out, and dont run it under a tap and put it back in" is bare minimum sex education to prevent more stupid babies if you ask me.

>>33283871
>less messy
Condoms are disgusting. The lube gets on everything, and the smell combination of pussy, cum, laytex and lube is repulsive

>>33283972
It’s totally different for men. You are getting friction from the penis sliding in and out of you. The man doesn’t feel friction because the condom is attached to his cock

>>33285630
>ifs like shooting without earplugs
So.. retarded?

>>33286959
I’m 36 and have never had sex without using one

>>33287060
You don't know what youre missing.
Like eating melted cheese vs a cold cheese slice on bread. Same thing? Yes but... as per >>33286891

>>33287111
I can’t miss what I don’t know

>>33283863 (OP)
Yeah, cumming inside a girl is probably the hottest thing ever. Feels maybe twice as good going in raw, and then just knowing you're gonna fill her up with cum makes it 10x better

But honestly, if you like the girl, sex is amazing with or without a condom so it's not like it matters that much

I'd rather use condoms with a girl I really like vs. go in raw with some random one night stand

>>33287024
Don't buy low quality condoms or fuck stinky pussy then... duh!

>>33287856
idk what brand you use but I've tried like 5 name brands and they all have that smelly condom smell.

>>33287040
Get more range time. COD doesn't count.

>>33289187
I probably shoot more than you. Shooting without earpro is absolutely retarded

>>33283863 (OP)
Yes, I literally cannot cum with a condom on.
With sex unlike masturbation, a large part of the pleasure isn't the pressure it's the texture. The vagina isn't nearly as grippy as your hand.

>>33290769
Yes it is retarded but it gives a nigga a head rush like nothing else, and is a really bad idea to do often.
My point stands, don't expect the metaphor to be deeper than that.

>>33283863 (OP)
As a guy... it is, most definitely it is. It's the reason why guys take huge risks that could end them up with an STI or a kid.

I'll use condoms if I have to but I 100% prefer not to, it doesn't feel as good + the girl sometimes complains about the reservoir tip hitting against her cervix

>>33290779
>Yes, I literally cannot cum with a condom on.
Yeah, that's not good dude. Your nervous system is fucked.

>>33291361
And the worst part is he thinks that's a great thing. Meanwhile, he's only feeling a fraction of the pleasure he could be feeling but can't cause his shit is fucked.

Reminds me of dudes who take a really long time to cum cause they're so desensitized for whatever reason.

If he keeps going down this path, erectile dysfunction is in his near future.

>>33283863 (OP)
I've never had sex with a women who didn't try/ask to remove the condom during sex.

>>33291413
Nta but I’m 36 years old with ED. I’m so a virgin

>>33291447
Damn, I'm 38 and if you so much as breath on me my dick gets harder than a baseball bat.

I pray for you, bro. I pray for you.

>>33291477
I can’t recall the last time I had a full boner. It’s definitely been years

>>33291483
Oh fuck that's bad. Doctors no help?

>>33291487
Haven’t brought it up. What’s the point. I’m never having sex

>>33291500
>I’m never having sex

>>33291578
I’m 36 virgin with ED. What do you expect? Such is life.

>>33291413
I mean I don't think it's a good thing, it ruins sex because I'm certainly not risking babies

>>33291930
No you misunderstand. I have zero issues cumming with a condom on. The fact that you "literally" cannot is kinda bad.

>>33292069
yes, but i wasnt saying it was a good thing, just a fact, and its relatively common.
its worse for me than normal, but the simple fact of the matter is that condoms remove most the feeling of sex, considering i have 0 problems cumming raw

>>33286951
dude, you are the retard, even with a helmet, motorcycling is extremely dangerous...

Crash w/o helmet, probably get severly fucked up and or die...

crash w a helmet, probably get severely fucked up and or die, or get an extra 4% chance to be a paraplegic cause the helmet saved your brain.

>>33283863 (OP)
It feels better but this isn't universally a good thing, paradoxically.

Like, nothing is gonna beat "classic I wanna do some babymaking" nut inside sex, but I used to do pullout and when you're not presently interested in getting someone pregnant, something feeling too good isn't a good thing.

The fear of nutting inside kinda ruins your headspace whenever you're close to orgasm, so even if the moment to moment is worse condom-ed, the knowledge
>bust whenever you feel like it
makes the experience a lot less peaky and stressful where you have to play this tightrope game of "right when it's feeling best, you're getting stressed".

>>33283863 (OP)
You only lose your virginity after you've had condomless sex.

>>33290779
Circumcised?

>>33300423
nta but I'm circumcised and can cum very easily with a condom on

>>33299965
Does it count if I inserted it but then removed it and put a condom before going on

>>33283972
>>33283863 (OP)
I get that for you there's no difference, but I hope you can understand that for me there is. The sensation for me is utterly different. Here's how I'd describe how I feel in each case:

>With a condom
Gently soaking my dick in a glass of warm water (basically no sensation at all unless the fucking is extremely brutal)

>Without a condom
Having my soul pulled out of my body (extreme sensations even with barely any movement)

I'm honestly not exaggerating. I have genuine difficulties cumming at all with a condom, and I've often stopped sex out of exhaustion before I could.

>>33291427
Wow you're so lucky. My experience is the complete opposite. ONCE I've been with a girl who wished we could do it without a condom, but still didn't actually wanna do it that way (as she didn't want to try another form of contraception).

>>33291361
I'm the same and that sucks so much. I wish I could feel something with my dick. Only masturbation and condomless vaginal sex work for me, and I hate it.

>>33291413
There's nothing we can do about it, as you said that's just how our nervous system is

>>33301161
Damn, bro, I feel for you.

Did it once but during a ONS which scared me to death for years. Not worth it unless ur with trusted partner.

>>33299965
u cant lose virginity using a dick period, the only way is to get buttfucked

>>33302182
...what...

>>33289167
You've never had sex or you're a retard kek
There are brands that smell amazing, as soon as you open the wrapper.

I think you're using really cheap shit and your girl's pussy is fried.

>>33283863 (OP)
Raw sex is obviously better.
Condom sex isn't great if you use regular, thicker condoms, but it's pretty good if you buy those extra thin ones.

>>33301161
>I wish I could feel something with my dick

>>33283863 (OP)
It's significantly better without, of course.
Refusing to use them for one night stands is suspicious, though, and that goes equally for both sexes. I'm disinclined to trust a woman that insists I don't wear one in that scenario.
In early relationships especially with feminist-leaning women, the willing use of condoms can often be a shit-test. A lot of women will insist on them early to try to gauge to what extent you're willing to sacrifice some pleasure in exchange for her comfort. That requirement will usually drop pretty damn quick once she's under the impression that you have a little bit of chastity about you when the situation calls for it.
As such, I would hazard against crying about them early in a relationship if your partner digs their heels in, and you wish to keep them.
Search the word 'condom' on a predominantly female subreddit or forum about sex and see what I mean.

>>33305150
aww kitty :'(

>>33283871
>I last longer with condoms
Same. I'm uncircumcised so normally I orgasm super fast. Condoms make me last way longer. Additionally I don't trust birth control so its a win win for me.

I’m 21 and reading this thread just makes me wish I had a gf

>>33307920
>I’m 21 and reading this thread just makes me wish I had a gf
one day at a time

>>33306906
:(

>>33305150
someone grab kitty's peepee :'(

>>33307920
Bitch, I'm 40 and I don't have a girlfriend. How the fuck you think I feel? I should be married by now. At least you're in your early 20s. You can get that young pussy.

Ya bitch.

>>33284364
Bags of sand

>>33283863 (OP)
for me it's the difference between an hour long session and losing my erection after 10 minutes but I think it's more psychological than anything else.

>>33313021
I cant talk to girls and have low self esteem