Thread 33293062

How do you ask out a stranger? Like a passerby in a mall or something

>>33293062 (OP)
By being what they want

>>33293069
So what do they want anon

>>33293077
I don't fucking know do I look like a woman to you?
Ask your fucking mother she'd give you a closer answer although it would be from a different era

>>33293077
Generally women value sociability, style, money, etc
If you're a normal guy: introverted, plain, not wealthy; it's best to leverage social resources. Make female friends and ask them to set you up with someone

>>33293062 (OP)
My intuition is that people want to be left alone most of the time, especially in an antisocial, anti-cultural environment of social anarchy and ruthless competition.

>>33293091
People in general have the capacity to want to let people in. Yes people are more closed off and politically anxious these days but it's a general human capacity to have moments of openness when there is an agreeable person in front of you

>>33293062 (OP)
You have to have a plausible reason to speak to them.

>>33293062 (OP)
hi, i think ur cute, can i get your number? then just iterate on it

>>33293062 (OP)
Confidence motherfucker, confidence. Women gravitate towards confidence above all else. You can be buff and wear a rolex and still fuck it up if youre a mumbling bitch boy. Confidence.

>>33293229
confidence is a meme
whether people think you're "confident" is all surface level
women call me confident but I'm just apathetic

>>33293087
This has been the only way I've gotten dates. Girls don't want to go out with me, but they really have no qualms about setting up their friends on dates with me. You're better off befriending friends of whoever you want to date if they're single since they'll peer pressure them into getting with you.

>>33293082
OP here I actually did that back in like middle school and it didn’t work whatsoever maybe before you comment have something useful to say faggot? Shit.
>>33293087
Might be helpful, there’s a party on the 4th of July that a female friend wants me to show up to so maybe there I can try to socialize? Idk

>>33293062 (OP)
Yo don't "ask out" a stranger you autistic.
You start just being friendly and get the ball rolling.

You engage in small talk and if the girl likes you, she will give you attention, and after some more convo you get her number and so on.

You save face and have plausible deniability all the time. No risk.
At some point you'll get numbers.

>>33293062 (OP)
You don't.
You talk and be friendly. If there's no opening to start a conversation, don't try.

>>33293062 (OP)
"Hi. Wanna fuck?"

Either way, it saves time.

>>33293062 (OP)
generally you approach them under a pretense, which they will either pretend to believe, or reject.
>maiden are you aware of the time
>M'laddy where is the closest Hotel de'ville for I have traveled many miles
>pardon me have you the hour?
women will understand you are attempting to make their acquaintance, and their response will either be closed or open ended depending on if they wish to meet you.

>>33294604
>m'lady I seem to have dropped my MAGNUM DONG CONDOMS FOR MAGNUM DONGS, have you seen them?
it works every time

>>33293062 (OP)

>hi, nice outfit
(very important: be non-threatening, smile)
>[gauge reaction, proceed if it looks promising]
>I'm looking for a girlfriend
the goal is to make her laugh at the absurdity of the request

you'll say it's BS but after enough self-improvement and practice, this shit actually works.

>>33294631
do not smile
when she smiles at you start up a conversation
mention that you are looking for a new member to join your sex cult

>>33294631
What's the success rate for this?

>>33294635
this'll be anecdotal
last evening out, testing this in bars, got me a date after trying with 5 women. 2 were amused and had a nice convo

>>33294637
Okay but how many of these women joined your sex cult? That's what I thought. You're doing it wrong.

>>33294637
>in bars
Were the girls tipsy at all?

>>33294679
the one I got a date with was not

>>33293062 (OP)
Going on 4chan for advice on how to ask out strangers is hilarious.

My advice would be to just be really direct and be like
"Hi, I think you're really cute. Here's my number." or some shit and then wait for their reaction.

Giving her your number lets her think she's safe because she didn't have to give away her personal information to a stranger, and it gives her the agency of deciding when to call, and it also gives you a good indication of whether or not you're her type. If she rejects your number, she wants nothing to do with it. If she takes it, she's considering it but may or may not be so sure. If she calls you eventually, then you've got a chance. If not, move on.

>>33293082
>do I look like a woman to you?
You're getting emotional for no good reason. So yeah, you look like a bitch.

>>33293062 (OP)
The place place palys a huge role.
Think about the mood you yourself are in, when in a mall. Most likely just going through half automated motions while slightly annoyed at the people around, waiting until you finally have everything and can go home. Do you think that's a situation you'd be overly receptive to a stranger approaching you?
Now compare that to something like a museum, a sports event, some other public event etc

>>33293062 (OP)
You don't. Why would you? What if this complete stranger turns out to be some psycho freak? Get to know them first, and have some half-bullshit reason to talk to them in the first place.

>>33293087
>women don't date unless you're wealthy

permaincel advice, at best going on his very first date as a 37 year old after he's done paying off his house

>>33294604
kek, I imagine some 4chan autist in cargo shorts and with a sportswatch to approach random women on the street asking for the time.

>>33293062 (OP)
How do I become a anime girl hole thingy? Looks fun

>>33293062 (OP)
I'm having strange thoughts of having sex with the anime girl with the black booty shorts on the right.

>>33298337
>anime girl
Those are both just normal women who shoved half their body through that wall
left is hotter

>>33298368
You do you bro. I do me, okay. I feel like if I was on LSD I'd be arrested for the big black short on right. Thankfully I have a lot of self control.

>>33293062 (OP)
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I want to get raped so badly!
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>>33293062 (OP)
It depends, who is it to be honest. I've never done it before; you'd have to get a reason to talk to them first. We're not that culture where you can randomly talk to strangers, sadly, but maybe ask for something like directions or If you can sit on the bench or something like that and then start talking to them.
.>>33298301
based woman, I do wonder who she is though.

>>33298368
Do you think am stupid?? I know that, id be okay with just a black wall and my ass sticking out. Am wondering where ppl do that shit, cz I want in.

>>33293062 (OP)
So I’m not an expert at asking out complete strangers, but I have gotten a few numbers after interacting with a certain cashier or waitress 2 or 3 times.

I would say never just ask for their number. Keep it small talk like how their day is going or so. For complete strangers maybe make small talk about an item in the store or how long the bus is taking or whatever. Once they realize you’re not a total creep you’re free to at least just ask. Worst they can say is no.

OP here again
thanks for respondan everywan and giving me your two cents

ask yourself, what would Jamal do, then do that

>>33294631
>>33295070
>>33295591
>>33294604
This is generally good advice.
I have a friend that cold approaches all the time and it seems to work for him but rarely for me. I have only gotten decent dates from friends of friends.
I would also add that there seems to be more success in social settings and events.

>>33294631
>hi, nice outfit
Important side note on this that applies to giving compliments in general: Compliments about something the person has influence over are a lot better. "Nice outfit" or "Where did you get this bag, it looks cool" are much better than "You have beautiful eyes" or some shit. At least until you know someone better.

Holy mama nice tits sorry i meant nice shoes

>>33293062 (OP)
>give me your number or i'm gonna stab you
easy

>>33293807
They're only going to set up their FATTEST, busted friends with you though, so your mileage may vary

>>33308143
I mean, I got some decent dates, but lets be honest, there's a reason we're all still single. It usually not a problem of looks but some quirk of personality that breaks things.