why do I still generally get scared around women who I know want me to escalate with them? It's not a fear of rejection.

>>33295986 (OP)
How do you know if a woman wants you to escalate? Can't she do it herself? I'm asking because I think I may have fumbled another one who I think wanted to not be just friends (approached me and asked me out, didn't do anything more than that), but I'm not sure.

you are just a beta. betas are programmed through evolutionary psychology to have an anxiety response about approaching women because the alpha might have killed him for this in our evolutionary past.

>>33296211
In my experience, if you're unsure, she probably doesn't want you to escalate.
It kind of just comes from being socially aware enough to pick up what she's throwing at you, she'll do things like
>play with her hair/tuck it behind her ears
>make her eyes bigger
>hold prolonged eye contact
>just generally angle/position her face and head in flattering ways (really hard to explain)
>lean into you when you're talking/generally be very close to you
reading that back it seems like it's pretty subtle except the last one, but it isn't. Mostly it's just not being autistic, its pretty hard to describe with words but for an example just watch the last few seconds of this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJevL0a8XZU

>>33296289
not op.
they do all these things you mentioned, for me. except when they do that in close proximity to me i get half an errection already, my heart bpm is 180, i get heavy breathing. and cant focus or concentrate. it is even more over for me when i get a whiff of their scent/femoid pheromones.
a story:
i had an appointment for dental care, they had to make an xray of my teeth. the ASSisstant young female, probably virgin too did the procedure and i tried my best to stay calm. it was ok, since i did not have to talk or say anything, but simply follow her instructions.
now the thing is, she was rather close -in my face- to me and i could even hear her heavy breathing/panting through her surgical mask too. she constantly searched my gaze/eye contact, i forced myself to look into the distance. (i couldnt believe how horny she was for me, which in turn, made me horny)
(im an air sign and can, if i want, easily read the atmosphere in a room or people in general)

you probably get scared because women are by nature "energy" vampires, i got scared too back then. they want your refined seed, something which costs your body lots and lots of energy to produce. of course one would get scared.
i somehow transformed my fear or scaredness into horniness, lust and interest. i quite enjoy the looks and attention i get from females, yet i still cant start a conversation with them or even a flirt.
because, well, i dont know. maybe the idea that this is it, they might fall for me and one leads to another and im stuck with a female in this matrix simulation faggotry when i really wanted to escape
or that i have to really examine their character, but how do that with a mild erection down there?
bump

Are you gay, have ED or is your dick small, anon?
If not, it's just performance anxiety, and you need some "pro" training. Money well spent.

>gen alpha/beta meme
i won't read threads of retarded children trying to be edgy, go back to the tiktok or sharty, faggot.