Thread 33302854

I'm an antisocial loner who hates people. What are the chances of me finding an antisocial loner woman who also hates people but is also gorgeous and attractive?

Yes, this is a serious question.

>>33302854 (OP)
It can happen but your odds are low. It's hard to strike a balance between being open about who you are and not ruining your life.
Try to prioritize being a healthy, effective person. You don't have to love people in order to live a good life but you do have to account for the fact that you rely on your connection with other people

>>33302862
>Try to prioritize being a healthy, effective person.
lol... wait, you're serious? LMAO

>>33302884
If you aren't healthy then you are useless to yourself. No woman will take a man who can't make his own way

>>33302904
Sounds like he has a way, he just has to have the courage to be authentic about it and get rejected until he finds what he’s looking for.

>>33302904
Why can't I have my way?

>>33302921
Yeah, what this african-american person of color said.

>>33303038
>Why can't I have my way?
I just got the impression from your post that you haven't found it yet

>>33302854 (OP)
I won't read stupid, self-contradictory hypotheticals posted by an infantile mind with nothing better to do.

>>33303046
I just want a beautiful woman who is a loner like me. Hell, I will even take what you chads call "mids."

>>33302854 (OP)
>is also gorgeous and attractive?
Zero. Women's entire effort into appearance is based on being prosocial and people pleasing.

>>33303060
Go away you african american subhuman.

>>33303064
Stick to pornography and fatties , chud
Maybe someday you can afford a strokejob from an asian auntee at your local parlor

>>33302921
I think the answer you're looking for is, yes, OP can choose to be a neurotic, mentally ill mess if he wants to but that pretty much limit his options are other neurotic, mentally ill messes. He's going to be getting rejected a lot if he refuses to make any changes at all to achieve the goal of an exciting, productive relationship. If his goal is another dysfunctional loner then yes, no effort or change required.

>>33303073
>dysfunctional loner
lol get the fuck outta here loner does not equal dysfunctional

>>33303082
Guy must be American. Only Americans look down on quiet people.

>>33303082
>lol get the fuck outta here loner does not equal dysfunctional
It usually does, yeah. Of course it does. You imagine there's a ton of loner people who hate people and can't find relationships who are super healthy, productive individuals? Don't delude yourself.

>>33303094
OP's post suggests he feels socially disadvantaged because of his traits

>>33303073
Ok, that’s his way, maybe it will work, make it won’t but he’s itching to find out. That’s life, I’m rooting for the sub African person of colored people anon.

>>33303108
>maybe it will work
99.9% won't work

>make it won’t but he’s itching to find out. That’s life
What an odd approach to giving advice, anon.

>>33303108
we african american subhuman people of color gotta stick together

>>33303121
I thought so too. He’ll be alright.

>>33303123
This poc gets it.

>>33302854 (OP)
>what are the chances
A math problem
A numbers game
Chances unlimited.

>>33303393
>chances unlimited
oh really !!!

>>33302854 (OP)
Non-zero.
I've met a few that are as you describe.
In each case, I was not certain they were actually capable of being in equitable relationships.
This mindset usually arises from a vain, solipsistic mindset that naturally limits the extent to which you can be loyal to others, cos fuck them who cares?
In fact, the hottest girl I ever knew was absolutely blackpilled, used to get off on fucking then ghosting rich popular men who were used to the opposite. Hated people to such an extent that it makes boardcels look like toddlers. She was actually scary to be around sometimes, but damn she was a looker.

>>33305318
>used to get off on fucking then ghosting rich popular men
okay hold up hold up hold up.... I don't hate people THAT much
like I don't wish harm upon anyone
I just don't want to be around the general public
I just want some peace and quiet

>>33305352
Like ghosting someone. I would NEVER do that to anyone I've had an intimate encounter with. That is just cruel.

I don't do mean things to people that I wouldn't want done unto me.

>>33305352
>>33305360
Fair enough. That would be asocial, not antisocial.
Antisocial people generally like to hurt others where asocial want to avoid them.
Again, the quantity of them isn't the issue, it's that generally asocial people aren't open to being flirted with. You really need an 'in', a mutual friend or something, or you'll never meet them.

>>33305397
>Antisocial people generally like to hurt others where asocial want to avoid them.
Ahhhhh, well fuck me up the ass with a pink dildo.

I did not know that.

Asocial it is, then.

>it's that generally asocial people aren't open to being flirted with.
But hold up... I may want to avoid people, but I sure as hell do not want to avoid the really small selection of people that I do like. Like especially the person that would be my girlfriend.

If I had a girlfriend, there is no way I would have any issues opening up to her. In fact I would be as open as a book. I would want to spend my every waking moment with her. Share everything with her.

Am I still asocial?

>>33305466
Yes, we generally distinguish between strangers and known acquaintances in this context.
I am also highly asocial but I am candid and open with my partner and friends. The term generally refers to a person's outgoingness among strangers, in situations of which the person is not in control.
I'm guessing from the tone of your post that you're quite young, in which case I'd strongly hazard against using this place for legitimate, good faith advice. Majority of people here are in some way fucked.
The TLDR to this whole thread is:
Loner women are hard to find. They certainly exist in great numbers but generally avoid the types of situations you'd meet potential partners at.

>>33305489
>that you're quite young
I'll be 39 this month, man. My clock is ticking... I need to find me my wife.

>>33305500
your cock is tingling? uh oh

>>33306663
get that checked out

>>33302854 (OP)
how rich, tall and good-looking are you, OP? the answer to your question depends very much on this

>>33302854 (OP)
stop looking (I don't want rivals)

>>33309774
I'm coming for you... and I'm stealing your loner girlfriend when I get there.

>>33305397
>Antisocial people generally like to hurt others where asocial want to avoid them.
What if you don't intend to hurt people (usually) but also don't really give a fuck if you do?

>>33302854 (OP)
This was me. I found what I thought was a woman like that. We were together for a year, then she got a new job and guys started hitting on her and she realized other guys besides me found her attractive so she cheated on me
That was fun

>>33311085
lol what a bitch ya she never loved you at all

>>33302854 (OP)
What's the chance in a hide and seek game 2 hiders find each other?

>>33311256
If they're both looking for love then it's very good.

>>33311298
The correct answer I was looking for was:
Extremely low, not impossible, but it isn't happening if you dont come out of your hole.

>>33302854 (OP)
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

>>33311421
What do you know about my hole? Is it sexy enough for you?

They’re hard to come across, I’m one of them. >_< but it’s not impossible I guess just rare.

>>33311471
So can I date you?

>>33302854 (OP)
They exist, you can find them but you can't get them. They still like Chad only.

>>33302854 (OP)
I've met girls like this, two recent ones I met on Reddit and another in a niche PC game. Both are attractive and antisocial shut ins except for the occasional rave or restaurant outing with their friends.

They both have issues though. The one I met on Reddit can get obsessive and clingy and also cuts out of stress (and she can get stressed out from her man saying something that hurts her feelings or whatever makes her feel bad).

The other one is more normal, she clearly had a glow-up after high school and is hot now, but she's still the same nerd inside that she's always been. Despite having a bf, she sent some pretty racy lingerie photos to our in-game squad on Discord which is a huge red flag. After I sent her a pic of myself we started talking basically every day lol. I like her a lot, she's cool, but I get the feeling she's not getting the attention she wants so she looks for it online. Plus how could you date someone that was sending out racy photos while in a relationship.

Anyway. They exist. But they usually have issues. In all cases where I met these women, I was just being my genuine self and they liked it and they ended up eventually sending photos n stuff.

>>33311761
>They still like Chad only
oh FUCK this MOTHERFUCKER Chad
I'm gonna kill this motherfucker
sick and tired of this bitch
stealing my women

>>33312229
You ever wonder if Tom Cruise had to have one of the crew members hold his penis for him as he went to the bathroom cause his hands were under all that makeup that probably took hours to put on?

>>33312229
Well, just take one step back and literally FUCK your own face.

>>33302854 (OP)
0. Stop being a retarded and edgy 16 year old asap.

t. former antisocial loner who hated people

>>33314857
Asocial, not antisocial. >>33305397

>>33313879
So how does one actually fuck their own face? Seems impossible to me.

>>33317347
It is impossible, retard.

They're all at home, OP

>>33320775
How do I lure them out of their homes? I mean, don't they gotta eat?

>>33321160
Or shit?