my online bf has an absolutely evil, digusting, abusive low functioning autistic older brother that actively beats him and his family everyday and ruins his life. Everytime I hear a story about something his brother has done I feel so fucking bad and wanna cry for my bf for going through that. Sometimes we're on call and i can hear the horrors happening in the background. Scariest noises ive ever heard. I remember sleeping on call with him and being awaken by his brothers disgusting groans and screams at 4am. I started to cry imagining what he was going through after he left the call thinking I was still asleep. Since then, he mutes every night or just leaves after finding out I heard it all.

He doesnt talk about him at all mostly, when he does its death threats and anger towards him.(100000% rightfully so) I feel guilty I cant do anything being across the country, but he might come and see me next month. I wish I could do something and like live with him outside of his household but his old parents steal his money and he has guilt leaving them with that thing. I have no idea how to help, let alone how to comfort him. I feel like a bad gf ignoring it. He tries to ignore it every single day of his life, and I think im maybe an escape from his household and the trauma he has inside from it, and reminding him makes it worse. But I dont want him to repress it either. Please help me if anyone can.

>>33304385 (OP)
just ghost him

>>33304385 (OP)
You can offer help, like allowing him to move it with you. But it's still his choice, he may choose to remain in his hellish living conditions and you can't do anything about that

>>33304794
i cant because i live with my parents and hes 10 years older then me. Parents wont allow. +met online

>>33305033
Well in that case, no, nothing you can do until you move out

>pedo brother is gooning with his loli gf on discord again
>want to fuck with him
>wait to hear faps coming from his room
>bellow at the top of my lungs like Arnold in Predator
>WAAAAUAUUUGGUGUUHHHH
>he comes out seething
>smash his fucking lights out, one jab to the nose he's rolling around on the carpet
>mommy screams in the distance
>back to bed
>quiet
>comfy

>>33304385 (OP)
>LDR
There is no such thing. I won't read such threads, because they are delusional.