Thread 33305309

Is your life just done by the time you reach 25?
Basically this entire year of my life has felt much more void than 24
Don’t feel like doing anything ever
Just go to work and come home
Not a tiring job either and even on weekends I just don’t care
Never in the mood and when I make myself try something it’s never fun
Maybe like 2-3 weeks per month or so I feel ok other than that it’s like I’m experiencing that long Friday before summer break except the vacation never comes only the anticipation for things to change and be free again mentally

>>33305309 (OP)
This is typical at your stage in life nowadays. You make enough money to eat and keep a roof over your head, but have time and energy for little else besides.
In times gone by, people responded to this malaise by starting a family, but that's far from a given financially or romantically in currentyear.
If all you do is work, eat and sleep, you're going to get depressed as fuck. That's natural. Something to occupy your attention and somewhere to set goals outside of work can help.
Lifting is the meme one currently, riding my bicycle is what does it for me. If the weather's decent, I do as many laps of my local mountain bike circuit as I can after work before I get jelly legged. This permits me to touch grass, puts me in beddingtons and KO'd early, and gives me something other than the state of the world to think about. Nightwalks also scratch the same itch for me.
Try to force a third place into existence even if you don't have one now.

>>33305363
I was enjoying learning a second language and such but don’t really feel like doing anything anymore like ever lol
But yeah I guess I get what you mean

>>33305309 (OP)
I felt like this from 22 to like 32

>>33305598
Grim……what stopped you

>>33305796
literally brute forced doing things until life became fun again, wish I did it sooner but oh well lol

>>33305816
Hmmm when I started my job I had 6 moths of doing nothing
Then like a month of being fine
Now this again
And brute forcing never worked

>>33305309 (OP)
It's only ever 20-24 year olds who feel like this because they obviously spent years listening to other doomers talkin bout how 25 is just SO friggin OLD because uhhhhh you know, 25 x 4 = 100 and that's also a big scary number!

I'm close to the big 4-0 now, and looking back on 25 and how I felt the exact same way, it's hilarious how deluded I was because you're still in your 20s, not even in your 30s.

You're young, and you're a zoomer. Make the most of it.

>>33305952
Oh I’m not like that I still consider myself to be young…ish

>>33305309 (OP)
I won't read calendar of doom threads. Start fixing your life right now.

>>33306162
Oh thanks for the useless reply

>>33305309 (OP)
Yup. After 25, you can't change anything.

>>33305309 (OP)
No your life is just done because you provide nothing to nobody, make some friends

>>33305309 (OP)
>Is your life just done by the time you reach 25?
I very much so miss being young enough to think something this silly. Its a golden time, OP. Enjoy it.

>>33306839
Well that’s what I’m trying to do

>>33305309 (OP)
In every possible area and by every possible metric, my 30s are infinitely better than my 20s were.