Hook up culture - /adv/ (#33310014) [Archived: 560 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:29:06 PM No.33310014
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Im trying to get into hook up culture but it truly breaks my heart but I just don't fall in love with those girls and the girls I do fall in love with they don't like me. Dammit. Hook up culture truly is for psychopaths or people whose special someone got away.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:30:17 PM No.33310018
>>33310014 (OP)
For context it breaks my heart to tell a girl I just want her for sex. Im honest and then seeing her catch feelings for me.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:31:57 PM No.33310031
>>33310018
Just breaks me.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:32:29 PM No.33310035
>>33310018
>it breaks my heart to tell a girl I just want her for sex
You shouldn't do that because she will think worse of you than the guy she actually fucked and later kicked her away, despite you being upfront and honest with her.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:33:28 PM No.33310039
>>33310018
Must be hard. Wonder what girls you ruined along the way getting to that point
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:34:21 PM No.33310045
>>33310014 (OP)
Also, you shouldn't go against your feelings and instincts.
"Hookup culture" is just because a lot of people don't see sex and intimacy as something important.
If you are different and try to be like all the rest, you will just end betraying yourself and ending miserable.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:35:13 PM No.33310052
>>33310031
>>33310035
>>33310039
No amount of sex with random mid tier women will ever make the girl that i actually love love me.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:36:34 PM No.33310061
>>33310039
>>33310035
>>33310031
Currently have two checks who are crazy for me but I'm honest and tell them. I just want something short.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:36:55 PM No.33310065
>>33310052
Have fun destroying your ability to bond by fucking randos because you can't get your shit together and have self control enough for someone respectable.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:38:58 PM No.33310074
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>>33310065
I have done irreversible damage, right?
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:43:42 PM No.33310091
>>33310074
Just control yourself. You're not a fucking bonobo.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:45:59 PM No.33310101
>>33310014 (OP)
The only thing that still gives me hope is a family. No matter how mid the girl is that im having the kids with, I would always love my sons and daughters. I also like having friends and being nice to people. I still haven't had sex with these girls but I haven't had any action in three years now and I have only had one sexual encounter my whole life. Will post cum clarity hit me hard?
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 6:28:15 PM No.33310850
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>>33310014 (OP)
i won't read "sentimental psychopath" threads, even though this is the first one, because they're a bit off.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 6:48:46 PM No.33310929
>>33310014 (OP)
hook up culture is to have fun bro, a lot of people come into it with the hope to find that special someone eventually but they know it's a slim chance, you gotta be prepared for that, like going to a flea market with the intention of getting a genuine expensive heirloom
could it happen? yeah probably, but there is a very small chance.
if you don't go with the mentality of having fun and enjoying the moment you're doing it wrong.
but yeah, most people that are in the hook up culture have had previous relationships, it might be draining to come into this without ever experiencing true love before, because as you say they still fall in love very easily and foolishly, like teenagers, over random stuff like a good kiss or a nice afternoon together
as you age even if you don't ever hook up with anyone you realize those dumb reasons to fall in love are very superficial and not long lasting at all.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:41:08 PM No.33311310
>>33310045
Can't be more miserable than I am now.