For context I'm an unemployable CS/DS major and my dad has said he'd be willing to bail me out for an entry level job where he works.

For context last month my dad told me about this chinese event for chinese zoomers that he was interested in, like it was some organization of Chinese immigrants from my dad's region and it's set to take place next month.

Now we're in the car going to a gathering for July 4th. Mom's driving like 45 mph in a 65 zone, with gay Chinese pop to "calm her down", since she's her cowardly self. And then I ask about it again and my dad said it's too late to sign up, and when I gave him hell for not signing me up despite expressing interest on multiple occasions, and then he and my mom told me they were kinda glad I wasn't going since they were concerned I'd chimped out. He also said he was no longer sure if he'd bail me out for both jobs, and support in general.

Later at the restaurant it was one of those Chinese places where they were serving peanuts as an appetizer. For context I'm allergic but not airborne, but my parents/school had me sit at the peanut table for years (with a lunch aide too). But just to drive them nuts (pun intended), I just ate a zillion of them until they demanded I stop. They literally threatened to get up and leave because I was "making a scene" - ironically, they were the ones making a scene. The waitress was pissed af.

Am sick and tired of being told "no" all the time in my life.

Ah, sounds like you're just getting started in life. I'm slightly further on.
Most of my friends from school, who went on and studied, ended up (and continue to work) dead-end jobs.
After studying myself, my ego was too big for such a job, so I sat around for three years unemployed.
I only now have a job, because I packed my ego in a bit and went to a vocational school,
and that side of life's actually worked out well for me since.

You're currently in a bit of an awkward phase in life. Nothing more.
Probably tone down your outbursts, take the entry-level jobs, and look for a GF/wife.
Because my biggest regret now is not having actively looked sooner.

>>33315336
I'm in uni tho

>>33315291 (OP)
why the fuck are you back with more whining about your parents

literally all sane advice in the last thread said move on and be an adult

>>33315291 (OP)
sounds like you're the problem

>>33315459
Yes, exactly: I'm ten years up the road from you.

>>33315481
OP post number?

A lot of y'all are reminding me of the fratbros I was supposed to live with :)

>>33315518
I've actually worked in dead-end retail jobs before. The issue is making enough to live on them however.

>>33315291 (OP)
hahahahhahahahhahaa stemcel

>>33315776
Ah. Fair. Like I said, I've never worked such a job on account of my massive ego.
I should probably grill my friends on exactly how soul-sucking those dead-end jobs actually are...

>>33316193
Yeah, 2 of them. #1 paid $15 and #2 paid $16 an hour.

Which, in this job market... mehhhhh.

Owner was trying to involve my personal religion and politics into work, as well as assigning me more and more tasks without increasing the pay.

Was one of those mom and pop shops.

Is it easier to get a job or gf first

>>33315291 (OP)
I missed the last post, what's up my chigga, why you suicidal?

>>33319679
It's still in the archives anon

And did u read the fucking posts

>>33315291 (OP)
>Am sick and tired of being told "no" all the time in my life.
Real. Seems this trend is more common in immigrants households.

>>33319791
*SOME immigrant households. Like there are some that are super woke and some that are super based fsr.

Everyone says Hispanics who are Cubans/Venezuelans are based af and GOP even though they're illegal immigrants since they're anti-communist. But like Hispanics from Central Am who illegally immigrate via Mexico are Dem af since they eat up all the welfare and steal jobs etc.

I'm honesty losing interest in the GOP rn since I now have a hard time trusting they'll actually distinguish between the GOOD browns/yellow from the BAD. Like one of ICE's latest victim was a restaurant owner in my town who was confirmed to have immigrated legally.

There's also the birthright citizenship thing, which would literally make me a Chinese citizen since my parents were on green cards and not citizens when I was born.

In my experience, a lot of times what happens is that Chinese immigrants in particular will be selective about what they're conservative/liberal about. Like they'd support Chinese COVID restrictions, but also be Christian af even though the PRC persecutes the fuck out of Christians there. They'd vote blue during COVID but red literally anytime else. They'd support AA/wokism/idpol only when it benefits them and never otherwise. They'd go on expensive vacations... to China to see family.

And ofc they'd claim to be red due to "freedom", yet be some of the most idiotic powertripping parents ever.

Anon just take any job you can get and swallow your fucking pride.

dk if i ever mentioned but i'm like 5'5" and it fucking sucks

>>33319575
Job.

>>33325006
Then how come I see so many people on unemployment subs reeing about their gfs letting them move in temporarily

>>33315291 (OP)
You're a fucking fool if you’re that young and considering suicide. You have your whole life ahead of you. You can rebound from anything at your age.

>>33326159
With a job you impress with your brain. A girlfriend you have to impress with the way you talk and hold yourself. My ability skills I can handle but people skills are another. I look somewhat attractive, but the moment a hot girl expects me to pull a bad boy joke maneuver I either go into emo mode or stare and just listen. It is very depressing to be around me. Trust me if you are a constant threat assesment to people because they can't calm down their paranoia because of PTSD, a job is easier.

Dealt with a similar thing. Dad cared about me slightly more and let me know ahead of time that he can't help me get going on life instead of saving face and pretending he could do more. Changed plenty of choices I made/things I cared about.
Try leaving your parents and doing your own thing until you stop being useless.

>>33326370
OP is jobless remember?