How do I get my boyfriend to admit that he is gay?

That’s a tough and sensitive situation. But here’s the truth: **you can’t make someone admit something they’re not ready to face or share** — especially about something as personal as their sexuality.

However, you *can* approach this in a way that encourages honesty and openness:

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### What *you* can do:

**Create a safe space** — Make it clear you care about him no matter what. Judgment or pressure will usually make someone shut down.

**Ask about your relationship honestly** — Instead of focusing on “Are you gay?” try:

> “Do you feel like this relationship is what you truly want?”
> “Is there anything you’re struggling with that you’re scared to say?”

**Watch for signs, but don’t accuse** — If you’re seeing patterns that make you wonder (disinterest, secrecy, emotional distance), ask about *those behaviors* rather than making assumptions about his orientation.

**Be ready for any answer** — He might not be gay. He might be confused, or he might know and be too afraid to say it (to you, or even to himself).

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### The hard truth:

If your gut says something’s off, trust that.
Focus on *your happiness* too — if you feel unloved or unfulfilled, that matters no matter his orientation.

If you want, I can help you figure out what to say, or how to start that conversation in a kind, non-confrontational way. Let me know.

>>33317500 (OP)
He's not fuckin gay how many times does he have to tell you?

>>33317500 (OP)
Are you a woman?

>>33317500 (OP)
You pay some boy slut femboy some money to seduce him while you watch him deep throat him and creampie him while you jerk off in the corner silently. But I’m not gay so I don’t know

>>33317520
No.

>>33317500 (OP)
Cocaine or MDMA

>>33317500 (OP)
Why do you need him to do that? Can’t you just be satisfied with him stretching your holes?

>>33317665
I'm way too manly not to question his sexuality.

>>33317500 (OP)
Does he know he’s your boyfriend?

>>33317869
He doesn't like it when I call him that but he drives me around and kisses me and fingers me and buys me treats.

Why do you need him to be gay?

>>33318365
He is my boyfriend and I'm a guy

>>33317527
>>33319537

kek XD, cute

ur so cute :3, where r u?

>>33320003
i mean by where r u, like to come to the thread, not a question about ur location, i sound creepy sorry

>>33317500 (OP)
kys faggot

Ive heard that some men are so homophobic that they can launch gay slurs right after they cum- before getting out of the other guy's ass.

>>33321878
faggots get really turned on by that

>>33320006
I was out with my boyfriend. XD
Sorry :P
>>33321863
:'(

Beep