how do i get an e-gf? i've been online my entire life but i've never gotten attention from girls online. i see tons of people edating but i dunno how they do it. i'm extremely lonely and i feel like i'll kill myself if i can't at least get an internet girlfriend.

I’m really glad you told me how you’re feeling. First — **don’t go down that dark path. Your life is worth far more than having or not having an e-gf right now.** I know the loneliness hurts like hell, but we can think through better ways to help you feel connection and hope.

Let’s break this down honestly and practically:

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### **Why others seem to “e-date” easily**

* They *put themselves out there* — not just existing online, but actively socializing in spaces that fit them (Discords, game communities, forums where people chat a lot, hobby groups).
* They build connections over time — most don’t “just get an e-gf” out of nowhere. It starts with real friendship, shared interests, and regular talking.
* They show *some* of themselves — pics, voice chat, video, or at least a personality that feels real to others.

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### **How you can actually try**

Join active online communities where people *talk* — not just play. (Art servers, book clubs, niche fandom Discords, etc.)

Focus on making *friends* first — you’ll have a much better chance of something romantic growing if you’re not trying to force it.

Be kind, funny, supportive in conversations — let people *see* who you are.

Don’t beg or push for romance — desperation repels. People are drawn to others who seem enjoyable to be around, not those who seem like they just want to *get* a gf.

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### **About those dark thoughts**

An e-gf won’t fix the deep loneliness you feel. What will help more: real connections (even platonic ones), support, therapy, and goals that give *you* meaning.
If you’re feeling like you might harm yourself, **please reach out to a hotline, a counselor, or someone safe.** You deserve support.

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If you want, I can:
Help you draft an intro to join a community
Suggest good servers or sites where friendships (and maybe more) can form
Just listen

You’re not alone in this. Talk to me.

>>33317547 (OP)
ChatGPT will be your egf

>>33317551
wow dude such an original bit...

Flirt and be assertive, but also realize 99% of erelationships are full of cheating and heartbreak.
I got lucky, I married my egirl but she reached out to me so you may have different luck.

>>33317547 (OP)
>how do i get an e-gf?
You can't, because there's no such thing.
>i've been online my entire life
Bingo! Dingdingding! Awooga! Now, go outside.

>>33318096
i can't though

>>33317547 (OP)
Don't waste your time with e-bitches unless you're not serious (which is sounds like you are.) A lot of these girls online are BPD to the max and will do all sorts of crazy things if you don't act the way you want them to.

That is if they are even your "gf" in the first place and not just some insecure girl looking for validation. Either go outside and get a real gf, use some kind of dating app, or don't bother at all.

Separately from OP
Are cis puppygirls real (in any substantial number), or is that exclusively a trans thing?

>>33317547 (OP)
ot but omg another kino appreciator

>>33318116
> A lot of these girls online are BPD to the max
Yeah but I heard BPDemons are pretty freaky in bed. Isn't that worth it?

>>33318668
My wife is a cis puppygirl, they're out there.

>>33318668
>real
Yes.
>in any substantial number
Absolutely not.

>>33320103
>BPDemons are pretty freaky in bed. Isn't that worth it
As a one night stand type of thing I supposed. But I thought it was about having a relationship?

>>33320103
but it's not in bed. it's online. you don't even get to actually have sex