Thread 33320085

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Anonymous 7/5/2025, 7:59:36 PM No.33320085 [Report] >>33320102 >>33320112 >>33321076 >>33323745 >>33324793 >>33325041 >>33325342

how to approach girl in the bus?

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so this girl in my bus is staring at me, but how should i approach her?
if i misinterpreted it i have to sit in the bus like a loser and if i go out at her station it will look like i'm stalking her.
any advice? i'm 99% sure she's into me.
what would a normal person do?

Anonymous 7/5/2025, 8:02:42 PM No.33320100 [Report]

Literally just go talk to her.
Say hi, give her a (not creepy) compliment. Start a conversation about anything shared, do you get up at the same stop?
>Do you work close to here?
>Are you at <x> close uni?
>I've seen you a few times and I love your style, would you be open to a coffee sometime?
Don't be a massive autist or creepy that's literally it

Anonymous 7/5/2025, 8:03:10 PM No.33320102 [Report]

>>33320085 (OP)
You're never going to see her again unless you talk to her now. Just go introduce yourself, make a comment about something like her clothes/jewelry being cool, and make small talk. There are zero negative consequences to being rejected in this situation aside from it maybe being awkward for a bit.

Anonymous 7/5/2025, 8:05:44 PM No.33320112 [Report] >>33327925

>>33320085 (OP)
What do you mean "approach"? You sound like a creep. If she's staring tell her in front of the other people so she gets embarrassed and stop.

Anonymous 7/5/2025, 11:14:00 PM No.33321003 [Report]

First of all she won't hear you cause she got headphones in her ears you'd have to slap her in the face or something so there goes that…

Anonymous 7/5/2025, 11:30:21 PM No.33321076 [Report]

>>33320085 (OP)
Make sure she's not a minor

Anonymous 7/6/2025, 2:46:04 PM No.33323745 [Report]

>>33320085 (OP)
i'm trans btw, if that matters, maybe thats why folx gawk at me in the public

Anonymous 7/6/2025, 8:32:53 PM No.33324793 [Report]

>>33320085 (OP)
The bus isn't the most comfortable place to flirt, so I'd just be direct. Something like "I feel like I've noticed you looking at me, am I wrong? How do you feel about getting chatted up on the bus?"

I've used a similar approach and had success with it. Give it a shot op and tell us how it goes

Anonymous 7/6/2025, 10:03:55 PM No.33325041 [Report]

>>33320085 (OP)
>what would a normal person do?
Who cares a normal girl doesn't stare at people on the bus.
Wave at her, then if she looks relatively happy-ish, wave her over.
I assume you've heard the advice from the internet about not sticking your dick in crazy?

Anonymous 7/6/2025, 11:31:37 PM No.33325342 [Report]

>>33320085 (OP)
Make sure she's a minor

Anonymous 7/7/2025, 1:45:47 PM No.33327925 [Report]

>>33320112
"creep"
Bro she's not gonna let you hit