Anonymous
7/5/2025, 8:59:18 PM No.33320356
In 2022, i met this girl which to me is very cute and all, she comes from a conservative religious household and so, im her first serious relationship. She was still a virgin and to me, she's the third girlfriend i've had.
Along the years we've broken up three times, but we're still together, every time we have broken up we have came back. Last time we broke up was for something more "serious" and went zero contact for 6 months. After that, she adopted a harmed dog from the streets which she couldnt take care of so, i adopted it myself.
The reason im doing this post is because im unsure of this relationship. We don't share any real hobbies, and actually we are lightly contrarian sometimes with our ways of thinking. Also, we don't have sex, we've done it before but she's really shy and we can't even have oral sex so, all we usually do when we have intimacy is rub each other. At first, it was nice because i felt like eventually she would open up but, we are 3 years in and even tho we have had sex, she doesn't look for it as often as i want to.
And so, i don't feel completely satisfied with this relationship at all, she already met my family, there some other issues with personality traits and light argues between each other. Im not sure if i should stay with her but i kinda feel compromised since i already adopted the doggy and she already knows most of my friends and family.
But at the same time i think it might not be that bad and i'm just afraid of really long term relationships (not ready to stay with her until marriage)
So anons, what should i do? Am i crazy and it's not that bad and im asking for too much or this doesn't work and we just came back because it's more comfortable to go back to what you know than to look up for something new?
Along the years we've broken up three times, but we're still together, every time we have broken up we have came back. Last time we broke up was for something more "serious" and went zero contact for 6 months. After that, she adopted a harmed dog from the streets which she couldnt take care of so, i adopted it myself.
The reason im doing this post is because im unsure of this relationship. We don't share any real hobbies, and actually we are lightly contrarian sometimes with our ways of thinking. Also, we don't have sex, we've done it before but she's really shy and we can't even have oral sex so, all we usually do when we have intimacy is rub each other. At first, it was nice because i felt like eventually she would open up but, we are 3 years in and even tho we have had sex, she doesn't look for it as often as i want to.
And so, i don't feel completely satisfied with this relationship at all, she already met my family, there some other issues with personality traits and light argues between each other. Im not sure if i should stay with her but i kinda feel compromised since i already adopted the doggy and she already knows most of my friends and family.
But at the same time i think it might not be that bad and i'm just afraid of really long term relationships (not ready to stay with her until marriage)
So anons, what should i do? Am i crazy and it's not that bad and im asking for too much or this doesn't work and we just came back because it's more comfortable to go back to what you know than to look up for something new?
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