Thread 33320852 - /adv/ [Archived: 641 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/5/2025, 10:36:08 PM No.33320852
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Me:
>23
>Studying
>Attractive, social, successful, good family

Her:
>Miserable
>Educated, good job with insane schedule (6-5)
>Attractive but depressed
>Probably on meds, didn't tell me though

We weren't dating but liked each other's company a lot. Then she saw me with another girl and she ghosted me.

I've felt bad for 6 months and I want to kms. I want to help her so much but she avoids me at all cost.

I am currently almost failing my last assignment. I want her so bad.

WTF is the matter with me? Am I mentally ill? I attracted her, after all
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Anonymous
7/5/2025, 10:47:53 PM No.33320898
>>33320852 (OP)

Was this other girl just a random meet or an actual relationship?

Do you see irl or just non-irl?

If you see irl and you are not in a relationship - try to find her and tell her how you feel.

If you see irl and you are in a relationship - you might want to break up just because of the affection you feel to her (the depressed one) - try to find her and tell her how you feel.

If you don't see her irl then you're pretty fkd
If she's really blocked you from everything or absolutely ignoring you then there's not much you can do.

But PLEASE don't give up your life just because you couldn't fix a different one.

(I don't want this to sound too ALPHA MALE SIGMA RED PILL but) Don't let this girl unintentionally ruin your life.

You'll make it :)
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Anonymous
7/5/2025, 11:01:08 PM No.33320955
>>33320898
>Was this other girl just a random meet or an actual relationship?
It was a friend who likes me a lot and is probably vocal about attraction. She asked to see me and I just have a hard time turning people down.

>Do you see irl or just non-irl?
Irl

>try to find her and tell her how you feel.
I have, she ghosts and avoids me at all cost. I think she found someone else like 2 weeks after. I just feel like absolute trash and I obsess

>If she's really blocked you from everything
She hasn't blocked. She plays power games. I can still see her, but she plays with my head. If I text assertively, she ignores and acts sensitive. If I show up randomly, she goes quiet and just laughs nervously. She doesn't talk for shit. All we ever talked about was her, but that is how I am with everyone. I never talk about myself and people like that about me. But this girl truly is fucking with my head. She is educated, has coworkers that help her a lot, and I feel guilty as fuck too now, I want to help her too

>Don't let this girl unintentionally ruin your life.
How?? What am I feeling?
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 12:46:56 AM No.33321366
>>33320852 (OP)
I won't read playa who is wrecked because one got away threads.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:57:04 AM No.33321720
>>33321366
Please help me. I want to kms. If I am the type you say, what is the answer? Help me