Thread 33321714 - /adv/ [Archived: 388 hours ago]

Manlet
7/6/2025, 2:52:42 AM No.33321714
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Manlets who have no problem with girls, how do you do it?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:55:35 AM No.33321716
Devito max
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:31:16 AM No.33321815
not me but my bro is 5'8 and had girls before his fiancee
hes married now at 25, but he has a good face and was socialmaxxed
i think if you're manlet the only hope is to either be nt or social, at the least athletic
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:14:16 AM No.33321937
>>33321815
Iโ€™d say 5โ€™7 under is short
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:23:48 AM No.33321963
>>33321714 (OP)
I'm very interesting to talk to
sometimes girls drop their conversations with other people to talk to me
it helps that I project the aura that what I'm talking about is interesting and fun
the ones that I manage to make laugh a lot, I know I have in the bag
t. 165 cm, 5'5"
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:24:24 AM No.33321968
>>33321714 (OP)
White and approach Asians/Latinas
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:25:37 AM No.33322306
>>33321963
Aura?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:37:35 AM No.33322333
>>33322306
IDK, the attitute, the mannerisms, the enthusiasm you put into it.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:42:29 AM No.33322353
>>33321714 (OP)
I am in a sweet spot.
Old enough to pull younger girls but too short for girls my age.
It won't last long.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:14:46 AM No.33322465
Iโ€™m 5โ€™4 and objectively itโ€™s the worst height for a man FUCK
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:21:38 AM No.33322490
Guitar. Not even being that good. Basic bitch Sublime songs at college parties

For 50+ years instrumentation has been the easiest pussy getter out there and basically no one in Gen Z does anything but Ableton DJ
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:58:58 AM No.33322833
>>33322465
4โ€™11 is unironically better
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 9:57:44 AM No.33323013
>>33322490
Height?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 11:19:21 AM No.33323291
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>>33323013
5'5"
Manlet
7/6/2025, 7:35:00 PM No.33324660
>>33321714 (OP)
And what would happen if you did a dating app but said fwbs only no relationship?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:54:42 PM No.33324700
I got ditched for a short guy named Bob. He was not a threat at all, but he was persistent. Date raping her right into marriage and four kids.
s
7/6/2025, 8:03:02 PM No.33324711
>>33321714 (OP)
i'm like 5'6"-5'7" and women liked me when i met them but networking is harder the older you get and i kinda just stopped going outside since hair loss, but imo being short seems to matter less the older you get and it's not even that bad young
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:09:57 PM No.33324726
>>33324711
>>Undesirable
>>Acknowledge reality
>>Build discipline
>>Develop skills
>>Improve health
>>Refine appearance
>>Expand social life
>>Gain small wins
>>Trust yourself
>>Confidence

Its the same path for people who have no parents. Any type of insecurity requires you to develop confidence by following these steps, its literally the only way.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:10:58 PM No.33324730
>>33324711
Didnt mean to reply to you
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:15:15 PM No.33325075
>>33324660
?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 11:13:26 PM No.33325283
>>33321714 (OP)
>Manlets who have no problem with girls, how do you do it?
Be confident and funny. It's that simple.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 11:36:55 PM No.33325367
>>33325283
Height?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 11:59:41 PM No.33325443
>>33321714 (OP)

Learn how to talk to girls

Not even romantically. Just learn how to talk to them
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 3:43:51 AM No.33326368
>>33325075
He's asking what would the success rate be if one were to get on The Apps and openly say they are looking for a situation/friend with benefits instead of a fully committed relationship

>>33324660
You'd better have an incredible profile or a nice-looking face.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:05:02 AM No.33326469
>>33325443
I have several lady friends, now what?
Manlet
7/7/2025, 6:08:05 AM No.33327000
>>33326368
Yes that is what I am asking
Manlet
7/7/2025, 8:15:48 AM No.33327467
Bump
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:03:28 AM No.33327719
>>33321963
Chad. What are the best things to talk about that doesn't devolve into talking about the weather? For girls who are artistically inclined specifically, talking about art and literature is killer. Otherwise I'm an autist
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:38:37 PM No.33328355
>>33321714 (OP)
just be blackpill
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 7:29:16 PM No.33328787
What is your definition of "manlet"?
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Manlet
7/7/2025, 8:43:36 PM No.33329091
>>33328787
5โ€™7 and under guys
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 8:46:11 PM No.33329108
>>33329091
What a stupid definition. A better definition is "short guy who has a stick up his ass about it".
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 8:59:27 PM No.33329161
>>33329108
lmfao exactly
s
7/7/2025, 9:04:50 PM No.33329186
>>33329108
For Americans 5'7" or less is noticeably shorter than average enough for many women to "auto-nope" you unless they get to know you and fall for you in spite of it. American women also rank height as the most important thing about a man besides personality until they get a little older, then they rate money and height as the most important. Or so it seems to me. I am not a woman.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 9:50:40 PM No.33329357
>>33329186
What sort of lanklet cope is this? 5'7" is taller than most women and it's very easy to look good at that height. Few women would care.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 9:56:49 PM No.33329374
I just lie being 5'11, inspite of being 6'2 and all the short girls think my height is the actual 5'11. It feels joyful to see manlets getting eradicated from the gene pool bros. Papa Hitler would be proud of today's women for being hardcore covert nazis.
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s
7/7/2025, 9:57:25 PM No.33329376
>>33329357
i am about that height. i think it's not been a barrier but also it's been a barrier. especially online.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:32:20 PM No.33329464
>>33321963
ever dated taller women and any advice on that?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:33:26 PM No.33329468
>>33329374
I have an 8 inch dick but lie and say it's 6 inches. It feels joyful to see girls get mad at their dicklet exes.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:34:00 PM No.33329471
>>33325283
>Be confident
not confident, just funny and somewhat insane as a sidedish
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:38:51 PM No.33329489
>>33329464
yes I had a gf who was significantly taller than me (conversion tells me she was 6'1")
well we started talking a lot
A LOT, sometimes we spent the whole night talking
then we had a date
so I guess use your forte, other anons were mentioning playing instruments or dancing, use your forte
>>33329374
I know a ton of tall dudes that are growing old and bitter having never fucked because they are boring as fuck so this nazi fantasy you have going on is just in your head.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:48:18 PM No.33330005
>>33325367
>Height?
5'4".
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:11:52 AM No.33330088
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Height doesn't matter, I'm 187 cm (6'2) and a virgin
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:15:59 AM No.33330103
>>33321714 (OP)
Here are my secrets
>I have money
>I'm a jackass
>I drink too much
By their powers combined I am captain pulling a girl every weekend
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:18:04 AM No.33330119
>>33330005
When you make female friends do you ask months later to become a fwb or hookup or what
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:19:09 AM No.33330125
>>33330103
Height?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:21:35 AM No.33330143
same way any other man has no problem with girls. i am pleasant to be around and so women want to be around me. simply socialmaxx (be funny, have hobbies to discuss, sound genuinely interested in interesting things) and it will come. doesn't hurt to be into taller women either, i'm 5'5 and my gf is 5'9 and both of us enjoy this
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:21:54 AM No.33330145
>>33330125
5 foot 7 inches
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:18:27 AM No.33330450
>>33330119
>When you make female friends do you ask months later to become a fwb or hookup or what
No, you need to make it clear you're interested right from the start. If you wait, then it looks like you were *faking* being her friend in order to get her into bed, and she is much less likely to be interested.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:23:22 AM No.33330473
>>33329489
copious lies. lol. Get ZYKLON-B'd subhuman manlet
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:38:20 AM No.33330511
>>33321714 (OP)
5'7"
I still do have problems, I just find ways to work around them. I also don't even try to hookup with girls, and just focus on dating. The most important thing is probably to become a good conversationalist, which is basically useful everywhere in life. I don't just mean small talk, either. You'd be surprised how many people dislike it, and just go along because they think they have to.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 2:22:17 AM No.33330720
>>33330088
>>33330473
I've had sex as a short guy, this guy hasn't as a tall dude and I know plenty like him in real life
end of story.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 2:27:28 AM No.33330748
>>33321714 (OP)
I'm gonna be plenty blunt anon. Height isn't just an androgenic factor. It's THE androgenic factor. You can be a poor man, an ugly man, or a man with a shitty personality, to a woman, you are still a man so long as you meet some arbitrary height requirement. If you are short, are you even a man? As cruel as it sounds, for a decent chunk of women, the answer is no.

That being said, what matters most is what you do with this knowledge. Some people internalize manletism and let it define themselves, instead of defining it. Although you can't make up for height if that's what a girl solely values, not every girl values height above everything. Disregard the ones who only care about your height, focus on the things that you can change, and don't be a maladaptive freak who relies on mongolian image boards to socialize.

There are short guys who get with short girls, with pretty girls, and yes, even girls who are taller than them. Maybe for a specific girl, height impedes you, but fuck her and move on to the next one.

Would you do better if you were taller? Definitely, but that's not your reality. So get to work anon.

t. 5'7, plenty of dates, hookups, and a handful of girls who approached me.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 2:28:48 AM No.33330756
I am 5'6 manlet and basically get as many matches as I want when I use dating app. Its really simply because I have a chad face and workout. Only one time have I been rejected directly and explicitly due to height. All that said, I literally.never approach irl because I assume women hate me for being short and it isn't worth it, despite way more evidence that it doesn't matter. Last relationship I had was 2.5 years so im not a hookup fraud either. Hope this helps (it doesnt)
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:24:56 AM No.33331391
>>33330748
how do yu do so well? are you chad face?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:35:51 AM No.33331447
>>33329374
I lie saying I'm 5'8 even though I'm 5'10

You ain't doing anything Lil bro, I already knocked up a girl last year lol
Manlet
7/8/2025, 6:22:23 AM No.33332116
>>33330756
No that helps, you put your height in your profile?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 6:28:16 AM No.33332163
>>33330748
lol cope more
I'm the walking proof that none of your wall of text is true
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 6:44:26 AM No.33332261
>>33332163
Height?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 7:03:23 AM No.33332370
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>>33321714 (OP)
This is gonna sound fake but it worked for me. Do activity's that utlise your height in a positive way cave exploring, urbexing ect. Once you associate a supposed negative trait with benefit's you wont need to worry about gay ass heightism properganda design to destroy your self esteem. If you need a role model to look up to kek watch supersus.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:33:52 AM No.33332690
when it hits too hard
when it hits too hard
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>>33321714 (OP)
Desire them. Females crave attention. You demonstrate this by designing good dates and acknowledge that you remember their hobbies, you win. Anit hard.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:09:37 AM No.33332772
>>33332261
6โ€™1
Zach
7/8/2025, 9:14:18 AM No.33332788
They do it by showing they are the guy who gets it not the guy who has it.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:16:07 AM No.33332795
>>33332261
>>33321963
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 10:36:43 PM No.33335610
>>33330450
So when a girl wants to be friends and gives you her number just say only if I can be fwb?
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:22:17 AM No.33336649
>>33329374
BASED
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:23:29 AM No.33336657
>>33336649
>samefags his bait
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:34:03 AM No.33336718
>>33336657
NOT BASED
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:34:41 AM No.33336720
manletseethe
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>>33336657
try again retard
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:36:24 AM No.33336727
>>33336720
>thinks we don't know what an proxy is
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:38:30 AM No.33336732
>>33336727
>thinks the average anon would use a proxy to win an argument over me using the word "based"
holy shit
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:58:35 AM No.33336806
>>33336732
>thinks the average anon has the time to screenshot his posts and post them back instead of just letting it go
baiters really think people have the drive and will to waste their lives here like them.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:14:52 AM No.33336875
>>33336806
screenshotting only takes seconds
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:52:01 AM No.33337219
>>33332116
Sometimes depending on my mood or how much I want validation. Every date I went on with real wonenz has been without me putting my height. Only one girl asked my height before our date and she said she didnt care but wanted to know. Nothing came of her anyway so who knows. My ex girlfriend never asked and never cared. I think you shouldn't put your height IMO because you want to get as many matches for the algorithm, and most conversations go nowhere anyway so its not like height even matters because you were getting ghosted regardless from the jump. If you get to someone asking you your height it means they are already interested anyway. Maybe they are disappointed when you meet them IRL kek but fuck it, at that point its up to you to rizzmaxx
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 8:05:10 AM No.33338058
I'm a 5'5 34 year old virgin. Height is only one of the reasons why I hate myself but it's a big one. I see myself as subhuman and unworthy of being around others so I see no point. People always seem to be laughing at my attempts to be human like them. I feel like an alien. I don't see any point in leaving my house or interacting with the world. I just want to sleep. If I'm not working I'm sleeping. I want to kill myself so badly but my parents are still alive. I have guns so I can end my life in 5 seconds if I wanted to, it's so damn tempting. I'm just burnt out on life and feel hopeless
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 9:44:01 AM No.33338366
i know a manlet that's like a manager at a restaurant and he manages to get some by just being a creep to women. like just super grabby and physical all the time. of course this repulses most women but he's playing a numbers game and some of them end up being receptive to it.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 10:24:20 AM No.33338487
>>33338058
>>33321963
your height is not the problem, I'm around your height and I've never had problems due to it.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:50:48 AM No.33338634
>>33335610
>So when a girl wants to be friends and gives you her number just say only if I can be fwb?
If she specifically tells you that she only wants to be friends, there's no probably no point in pushing.

You also want to be careful not to imply that the only reason you're interested in her is sex - unless that actually is the only reason you're interested! FWBs are actually friends - they spend a lot of time together when they're not in bed - so to be FWBs successfully you are going to have to find her interesting and fun in non-sexual ways. If you do, perhaps you might actually enjoy being platonic friends anyway?

But if, in fact, your only interest in her is sexual and you don't want to hang out with her at all between times, then you need to be honest about that, and you should be prepared for a rejection. Contrary to what most people around here would have you believe, most women actually don't want pure hookups, and never have them. And if a woman is looking for a hookup, she will make a decision about who to go with based ONLY on looks. So in that particular case, unless you're good-looking, you probably won't get far.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:56:19 AM No.33338653
>>33336657
Desperate tall virgin men tend to do that.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:19:14 PM No.33338897
>>33321714 (OP)
I'm not sure you'd be interested in the type of "girls" manlets get to date