Am I a bpd demon or a sociopath for not staying silent about discord drama that a British e-boy made about me?

He kept getting involved in my life by gang stalking me and shit talking me with people I thought were my friends. Keep in mind that he did this all on his own, he didnt have to participate or recruit people into his side, but he did for more than a month.

I was very close to him and trusted him deeply, I saw the red flags and thought I could romance him but I was wrong. Instead he went bpd demon on me and claimed I was the sociopath for reacting to what he did to me.

My question is who is in the wrong for the drama? Was it me or him? Like I said above, he kept getting involved in my life and even recruited people to hate on me along with him. He claimed he didnt want to think of me ever again but kept talking to people who would tell him about me and were /my/ friends initially.

I think im innocent because I thought he and I and everyone involved were honest friends, I didnt know about the evil plot against me.

Tldr; discord drama, was i in the wrong or was my british e-crush wrong? Am I the asshole?

Have you considered stabbing?

the fuck are you talking about

have you salted the wound yet?

>>33321889
Are u saying i should stab him? Why

>>33321890
Tldr; i got into discord drama with someone and he made people pick sides. It was typical heterosexual drama because he was mad that I wouldn't stop flirting with him and instead of blocking me he kept the drama going. I just wanna know if anyone has bpd in this situation, if it was me or him. He tried to ruin my life and tried to ruin my friendships just because he didnt want me flirting with him. I only found out he was done with starting drama with me recently because one of my friends that he recruited told me about the current situation.

>>33321897
Which wound? Im only getting vague responses I feel like

>>33321877 (OP)
Nothing here suggests you are a BPD sociopath or whatever. Pseudo psychiatrist buzzwords btw.

If he or others are throwing those buzzwords at you, throw them back. Call him an NPD narcissist or something. He even does the narcissist strategy "Flying Monkeys" (Google it).

It's when you wound a narcissist's pride, they send others to go and mess with you or to demoralize you. Friends, family, their family or yours, they basically try to gather everyone around to gang up on you. They become 'flying monkeys' and the narcissist is the ringmaster.

>>33324046
Thank u for da response.

He said it was justified because everyone already hated me and like? Thats a sociopath response. And he claimed im a sociopath just for exposing what he did to me. I told the community he's known in and I got accused of being the abusive person instead.

>>33324064
It's called DARVO
Deny the attacks reverse victim & offender. Aka deflection. He deflected and got people to believe him over you. That's just what narcissistic types are good at. Anyway buzzwords aside, the sane course of action is to cut all contact with him and the old group and move on

>>33321877 (OP)
You have to be 18 to use this site.

>>33321877 (OP)
You have to at least PRETEND not to be a child.
If you're getting stalked CALL THE REAL POLICE