Thread 33323663

Should I let myself objectify my girlfriend? I noticed the other day when talking to my friends that I referred to her as "pussy". I've been an incel my whole life watching guys get to fondle their gfs ass in public and tongue kissing them and shit. So I kinda just look at women as sexual objects. Somehow I lucked into a relationship with a semi attractive woman and I guess I still see it this way, except I get to be that guy rubbing it in the other incels faces now.

>>33323663 (OP)
Just keep it balanced and make sure you maintain in your mind that she's not just a "pussy"

>>33323705
Yeah, this

>>33323705
She kinda is though, if I didn't get to fuck her pussy, there would be no reason to be in a relationship with her.

>>33323719
Maybe you should figure out why you don't assign her personhood

>>33323663 (OP)
You're healthy for that, Anon.

>>33323750
Being with a woman for her personality is actually crazy. What the fuck do women have to talk about?

>>33323663 (OP)
I've been an incel my whole life watching guys get to fondle their gfs ass in public and tongue kissing them and shit. So I kinda just look at women as sexual objects.
Ah, so this is why Islam doesn't allow public displays of affection.

>>33323791
I don't think you want me to do a braindump. Similar things to you, but with the bonus of whining about period stuff.

>>33323791
>What the fuck do women have to talk about?
Boring shit, shit you won't enjoy as a man because you're a man. That isn't where you should be checking for personality anyway. Words are cheap, talk is cheap. Give me 10 minutes of figuring out who I am talking to, and I can quickly craft a false persona that aligns with their desires or values. All I need is words. Words are meaningless. What you need to check for in a woman is behaviour, actions, nature, temperament. You can observe what she is and who she is from that. Watch how she treats people, watch how she conducts her day, watch how she regards the elderly, the young, and those who are beneath her. Watch how she tends to her home, watch how she spends money, watch how she handles her own boundaries.

If you don't pay attention and focus on just looks or words, you are blindly walking into bullshit.

>>33323663 (OP)
You sound like a charm. How about this: don't take relationship advice from bitter incel NEETs who don't know shit about it because the last time the last time they ever saw a vagina the doctor said "it's a boy!". You got out, stay out before they tell you some retarded bullshit and make you single again like them. Sincerely OP.

>>33324008
So sex and vagina is the height of life? Incels are.... right?

>>33323663 (OP)
This is why I will NEVER date an incel/loser, you guys are damaged beyond repair from all the porn addiction and resentment.

>>33324173
Oxygen is the height of life when you're drowning. Otherwise you don't even think about it.

>>33324182
Kek, what makes you think you'll know?

>>33324173
No, but if your only concern and immediate obsession is getting inside of one and keeping it around, you definitely don't want to ask here. I didn't address the redpill retardation because it's not like you'd listen anyway, I'm sure the idea of not putting on fake machismo, or actually treating your partner well instead of negging and objectifying them wouldn't resonate with someone who says the only reason he's with her is for pussy.

>>33323663 (OP)
You have no girlfriend and this is a chudcel larp

>>33324195
Pussy is more important than water, more important than food, pussy is all there is in this life, gotta get you one and keep you one

>>33324188
You think people can't tell?

>>33324218
There are incels all around you, some of them are better at playing the normie role than others, but they're still there you fucking idiot.

>>33324207
And people wonder why they end up with cheaters or controlling harpies kek

>>33324257
As long as a bitch and her pussy want you and let you fuck, you can't ever really be a loser.

>>33324264
Kek I've read a lot of shit on here but this takes the cake for most wrong. Plenty of losers who have had sex anon.

>>33324235
Okay, I won't give anyone I can tell is an incel (99% of them) a chance. Feel better now sweetie?

>>33323663 (OP)
People don’t actually think like this, do they?

>>33323791
So you would marry a man?

>>33324399
Why wouldn't they?

>>33324399
They do. But it's a coin-flip between whether they actually mean it and are sociopathic cretins, or they don't mean it and are autistic as fuck and can't define their inten like adults.

>>33323791
If you can say this so confidently then why are you even pussyfooting around referring to her as just "pussy"? How would this even be a point of contention to you?

>>33324366
You're on 4chinz so chances are you weren't much of anything anyways

>>33324402
I want to marry an underage girl.

u dont deserve a girlfriend. hope she breaks it off with you

>>33323663 (OP)
damn you're a real piece of shit lmao

>>33328469
>>33328370
Women love men like this though. Can't treat her too nice or you give off that beta energy

>>33328513
being afraid of giving off beta energy gives off beta energy my guy

>>33323663 (OP)
Only objectify your girl in the bedroom or when obviously flirting. They think it's hot.
It's really healthy when you don't objectify her and have to learn that it's ok in some contexts even if it's pretending for her benefit.

It's like when a girl says something off color but complimentary " ohh that is MY dick". Yeah it's crass but at least its positive and makes you feel wanted.