exactly what it says on the tin. wife and I were fucking and I pictured her momentarily pregnant in my head to keep my erection going longer (I have a pregnancy kink that she's aware of). Did some pillow talk about it since we both want kids and she seemed into it at the time. Next morning I bring it up (moronic of me, yes) and she gets upset with me saying that it's unfair to her for me to picture what she may look like in the future instead of focusing on her now. I don't see the issue and it just sounds like retroactive shame to me that she was into it in bed (she's prudish). Plus I personally don't understand what's wrong about picturing your wife pregnant during the act that leads to pregnancy. That or it's some weird power play.

Any marriedfags here know how to proceed?

>>33329531 (OP)
Not sure how I would respond to that tbqh. Nothing wrong with that. Pregnancy kink? Pregnancy is the original point of sex to begin with. That's just.. silly. I think your wife probably has some other stuff going on, but I wouldn't accuse her of anything directly. I'd just ask her what she doesn't like about it and see what she says.

>>33329531 (OP)
She imagines that you had to use your imagination because you didn't find her hot enough. Women always make it about themselves, even if you have performance anxiety or ED, they'll get offended thinking that you dont find them hot.

>>33329541
I did, she said
>>33329549
this pretty much

>:(

>>33329531 (OP)
>pregnancy kink
and I have a water addiction

>>33329531 (OP)
Reminds me of women saying men have a "breeding fetish". Bish wtf you think sex is for anyways?
Birth control is civilizational suicide.

Your wife sounds really retarded. I dont think there is any advice to give you except you should keep this in mind with every interaction with her. Reminds me that id rather have a string of failed relationships with kinky hoes than a prude wife

>>33330405
>Your wife sounds really retarded.
That's a bit redundant.

>>33329531 (OP)
>she gets upset with me saying that it's unfair to her for me to picture what she may look like in the future instead of focusing on her now. I don't see the issue and it just sounds like retroactive shame
meaningless, mindless shit test

should not have occupied your mind for more than the 20 seconds it took to get up and get a drink

incredibly triggered to come to the Internet complaining

>>33330405
>your wife sounds really retarded
women tend to sound like morons when they try to rationalize their feelings. Just assume what she's saying here has nothing to do with what's going on. To me this just sounds like general insecurity. I wouldn't even bother thinking about the instigating event all that much and try to figure out what might be at the root of the insecurity.

>>33329549
>>33330276
>performance anxiety or ED
>>33330611
>To me this just sounds like general insecurity

>women being able to bear children

>>33329531 (OP)
Leave your wife, I’d let you get me pregnant

it's most likely that she thinks you don't find her attractive enough

>>33329531 (OP)
>I had to imagine you pregnant so I wouldn't lose my boner
In what reality did you think this was something worth telling her?

>>33329531 (OP)
Wait til she admits who she imagines to stay awake while fucking you

>>33329531 (OP)
Just explain that you were getting off on the idea of her being the mother of your children. Her looking different comes second to the idea of her being THE one for you. Tell her you're sorry if bringing it up made her feel insecure then go fuck her again.