Advice for single women dating over 30?

Try taking initiative and ask the guy out.

Don't leave it solely to the guy to keep the conversation going, have your own questions about him to ask.

If you find a decent guy, don’t be retarded and suddenly decide he’s too good for you? Else you deserve your misery lol. I know I’m being condescending, but lot of people are retards. It’s like guys who go “she makes MUH DICK FEEL GOOD” as she proceeds to ruin his life. Don’t be a fucking retard everybody!

>>33332815
This is a big one. Learn how to converse well. Nothing wrong with pauses in a conversation but don’t let him carry the conversation solely.

The default of every single person should be focus on your health and mental growth

> no processed food, drugs, alcohol, sugar, smoking
> working out 7 days a week (maybe add group sports 1-2/week, weightlifting should be the foundation)
> sleeping 8+ hours a night
> skincare + grooming + other hygiene routine
> read non-fiction books worth rereading
> watch movies/shows that are not modern slop
> learn to cook new things once in a while, at 30+ you should be able to cook at least 15-20 dishes really well
> stop wasting time on stupid shit that doesn't serve you

I've met so many self-destructive single people and all I can think of "you have no relationship or kids or anything to worry about and you still can't do anything right, more complexity will kill you faster"

>>33332800 (OP)
Nobody young man wants the leftovers, so you better go after men in their 50s, perhaps 60s

>>33332800 (OP)
>picrel
You're a bitter femcel feminist misandrist. First get rid of that and actually love and appreciate men. Your personnality and interactions with men will be far more positive.

>>33333023
Personality has nothing to do with it, unmarried women over 30 are mackrels of people. Nobody bothers them becuase they're trash pickings

>>33332800 (OP)
>picrel
My classmates in high school were taken by 25+ year old dudes, so it's only fair to get with a younger girl if you have the chance at 25+.

>>33332800 (OP)
No idea cause I'm a guy but only younger girls seem to be interested in me these days so don't be so quick to judge.
I'm 35 and I'm looking for single women in their 30s but I can't seem to find any (or I'm invisible to them), might end up caving and going for a younger (20s) girl since they seem to be easier to get, simply put

Your only hope is to warn the younger women that if they don't hurry up and marry an average guy, they'll end up alone and miserable like you.

>>33332800 (OP)
Men have declared spiritual jihad on women and it shows as they slowly begin to lose it. This is it anons, the real gender war has begun, not the fake one with countless pronouns that is being shilled everywhere in the media, but the real gender war between man and woman.
Women are about to learn a harsh lesson.

Don't talk to women, don't help them, don't ask them out, don't have dating apps, don't interact with them. If a woman approaches you be nice and respectful but do not flirt or overtly joke, treat them as an equal man and then leave after the reason for the conversation is over. If a girl comes up to you and flirts kindly turn her down, if she asks you out suddenly say no thank you, don't make up a reason she only has agency because of some external reason not because she likes you. Be vague when talking about your life or weekend plans, anything you do or do with them like hooking up will be picked apart and analyzed by her and her online friends. You are a traitor and not helping anyone if you fall for their tricks.
If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.

>>33333340
Unless you look like julian from the arcana or astarion from bg3 you have no chance with those women.

>>33332800 (OP)
First you need to figure out why youre still single at 30. If you spent your 20's fucking around in 24/7 situationships, most dudes can smell that on you a mile away with how you behave. If youre not interesting at all and cant contribute to a conversation while at the same time acting disinterested with a resting bitch face. That might be your issue. Try approaching men but not too aggressively. If you approach its up to you to have a date idea set up, preferably something cheap like coffee. If youre just a train wreck of a person then you will only attract other train wrecks. Ultimately your personality and life style will only expose you to those who are similar. Also treat them like they have feelings of their own, its not all about you.