Aging out of “pretty boy” - /adv/ (#33345390) [Archived: 394 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:02:18 AM No.33345390
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Get a decent amount of attention but it’s more like timothee chalamet “aw he’s so cute” type of attention. I’m 27 now and not sure why I still look like a 20 year old twink. I do look after my skin and face wash/moisturise and eat 100% clean and don’t drink.

I have good bone structure, frame and naturally high muscle mass. When will I shed the “pretty boy” looks and become a “hot guy”?
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:11:58 AM No.33345418
I am 28 and in the same boat wondering the same thing. keep thinking it's just around the corner.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:15:58 AM No.33345431
>>33345390 (OP)
Same. You can start lifting and grow facial hair to look older. That’s probably the only way
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:19:58 AM No.33345446
You are too soft. I don't think you'll ever grow from where you are without a near death experience or consistent adrenaline rushes.
>I was once like you lads
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:33:52 AM No.33345473
whats the rush ? it will happen eventually , especially around 35 , savor what you have
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 2:40:57 AM No.33345485
>>33345446
I am an adrenaline junky and gym rat, used to be a druggy loser and that's how I cope, and yet my boyish looks remain. almost 30 and still get "so what are you studying in school?" all the time.
>>33345473
finally settling into this mindset, riding the wave and counting my blessings I'm not bald
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 3:01:17 AM No.33345548
>>33345473
I asked ChatGPT if I’m more attractive to men or women and it said men because of my natural “softness” lol. Luckily my experience tells me I can get with women but damn lmao
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 3:12:59 AM No.33345586
I'm 33 and yeah, the "little brother" energy doesn't go away regarding how women treat you.
I'm planning some surgeries to masculinize my face more (genio).
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 3:16:14 AM No.33345599
>>33345586
I was thinking of trying to get ripped and getting my bone structure to pop but I did that when I had my first gym phase and the fatigue from being 0% bf Bruce Lee mode is seriously real. I also find a little puppy fat on me kinda cute, but that’s precisely kind of what I’m trying to get rid of
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 3:50:14 AM No.33345732
Get into boxing
That shit will rough you up and make you look like a Man
Also grow a thick mustache with stubble chicks go crazy for that look

t. boxer
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 4:00:51 AM No.33345778
>>33345390 (OP)
It's possible you'll never shed it. You say you already have high muscle mass, well keep at it. Muscle mass will always make you more sexual. How tall are you? Full lips? Thick eyebrows? Good facial shape? These are things that matter
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 5:30:13 AM No.33346197
>>33345778
I have a kind of Mediterranean look so I’m hoping my Tunisian genetics turn me into turk chad. My Franco-Tunisian roots also are probably to blame for my skin never aging though
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 5:41:16 AM No.33346241
>>33345390 (OP)
strengthen your jaw or grow a beard.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 6:02:52 AM No.33346335
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Thank God I've always been considered "hot" or "handsome" and not "cute" or "pretty". though I have been called pretty a weird amount of times. I have masculine good looks that will last probably into my 40s as long as I don't get fat. meanwhile twinkmode only lasts as long as the collagen in your face skin lmao.

gg nigga
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 6:08:31 AM No.33346366
>>33346335
how do the pretty ones escape twink death
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 6:13:44 AM No.33346394
>>33346366
there is no escape. there is only postponement.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 4:22:33 PM No.33348153
>>33345390 (OP)
why? you can date 18 year olds much easier than masculine looking guys
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 6:30:47 PM No.33348620
>>33345390 (OP)
you're going to age regardless, stay young while you can
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 11:00:35 AM No.33351652
>>33345390 (OP)
>When will I shed the “pretty boy” looks and become a “hot guy”?
It's better to be a pretty boy because of how few there are.
There are millions of hot guys any woman can pick.
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 8:39:23 PM No.33353121
>>33345390 (OP)
dress more maturely. if you were on graphic tees and hoodies that certainly wouldn't help
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 10:35:27 PM No.33353463
>>33345390 (OP)
I'm 25, when I shave I look barely a day over 20 and when I grow up my facial hair I could easily be 30 ; I rock a mustache so I look my age.

If you adjust the way you dress and the way that you present yourself it can adjust how people perceive you.