Thread 33345882

Can I have some copium about. Please don't be men

>hating my face ( even my only ex bullied my appearance) but being too depressed to save for plastic surgery.

> being single and lonely because it's hard to find a guy who is into the same stuff as me and I tried talking to people who didn't and it just couldn't work. Like it alteast my ex did and that relationship was shit and short and took months to find him fml.

FML I am so lonely and most people just bully me for petty reasons (yes I am an adult female woman but using that word since it gets the point across)

I know I should be stronger but I am too tistic for this

>>33345882 (OP)
I won't read how to cope threads. There is no "cope," only "do."

>>33345922
True true. Well I mean I guess about the two does 1. Trying to find a guy, I mean I am trying to post to gather attention in hobbie species but it takes time to find someone
2. Plastic surgery, ok this is a money issue but also a anxiety issue since going through surgery (I want a second nose cause my breathing and appearance is bad due to deviated septum and collapse) is anxiety inducing and my only friend in the world can't stay with me(don't want a nurse). So Idk, I guess I should do more research on recovery and risks. Also I am like will it even work I am scared of taking the risk


Sorry for the sperg just venting you don't have to read haha

Are you male?

>>33345998
Yes

>>33345998
It says female on the op

>>33346146
>>33346118
Yeah but is it female or (female)?

F

How old are you? And what is this stuff you're into?

>>33345882 (OP)
What's the matter with your face?

FWIW, most people find themselves much more unattractive than other people find them. Pic related is Kate Beckinsale, who was considered quite hot twenty-something years ago. But when she was interviewed back then, she would say that she hated her face, that looking at herself all she could see was her huge front teeth, and that she looked like Mr Ed (a famous TV horse). Even celebrities are extremely insecure about their appearance. So I can guarantee you that, however bad you may look, you definitely *think* you look much worse than you actually do, because that's human nature.

>>33345922
But you still offer advice in the end. "I-it's not like I want to help you or anything."

There is that psychology research about how puberty increases nevrotism in women, which generally manifests in body dismorphia. Basically it's normal for you to hate your own body. Your brain chemistry is lying to you. You might or might not have any actual body issues, but that is to be taken with that grain of salt.

As for men, there are 8 billion people, as long as you have some kind of hole, you'll find a man eventually. If you're in a hurry, lower your standards.

Wait will answer

Just by that eyelash i can deduct you're kind of a generic e-girl aren't you? Aside of that i can't say much other than teenagers are in general mean and annoying because they like to project their suffering onto others or because they want to fullfill emotional needs by making "inferior" people feel bad so whatever, if it's just petty shit just ignore it

>>33350140
I can't even do anything without you giving me shit huh
I am a grown woman and you know that adults bully too just a different way

>>33347580
Well you know even my short lived ex gave me shit and I thought he would be nicer
>>33348012
I mean the lower your standards meme doesn't work since would you want to date someone who sees talking to you as a desparation induced chore

>>33350140
Ps you calling a woman doing anything else than bimbo stuff generic is sexism since you are implying that everything a woman does is for the male gaze/entertain you

>>33350258
and what kind of shit is people giving to you? could be nice to give a more nuanced opinion

>>33350274
>to know that to give a more nuanced opinion
fixed
>>33350269
> >>>she thinks only bimbo whores can fit into generic stereotypes
lolerofl.
I think there's kind of a problem on your side by taking everything people say around you (which might not even be about you) as a personal attack. Haven't you though of that possibility?