Thread 33347241

How do I get over the fact that I don't matter?

>>33347241 (OP)
why is that negative?

>>33347243
Because I want to matter. I want to be important. I want to be impactful. But none of those will ever be true.

>>33347247
why? (for real)

also you can still try, but you'll get there with systematic planning and scheduling or not at all

you basically just want superpowers tho

>>33347247
you didn't say why that was negative

>>33347263
Because it's not what I want. I hate not mattering.

>>33347241 (OP)
Nobody inherently matters because we'll all be dead and forgotten one day. Stop caring about the value others deem you to have and live for yourself. This is the only life you have so make the most of it.

>>33347274
I need to matter to other people. Fuck living for myself.

>>33347268
why tho, you're just ruminating on a plane of the fact when there are deeper facts that might be useful

>>33347277
And what happens when those other people leave or die? You off yourself because you no longer matter? Find your own value. Take solace in the good qualities about yourself. Other people aren't reliable. The only person who will never leave you is yourself so start believing for yourself that you matter. If you aren't a total asswipe, it shouldn't be hard to at least appreciate the good qualities you possess.

>>33347291
I don't care if I'm wrong. All I want is to matter and if I can't have that I'm killing myself

>>33347301
I don't care if I'm wrong. All I want is to matter to other people and if I can't have that I'm killing myself

>>33347308
I'm sure you matter to your family. Make some friends most people have a little empathy these days. Find a way to contribute. Don't be a total faggot and throw your life away because "im so worthless uwu". Get a fucking grip.

>>33347324
lol ok fine jeez

>>33347247
Theres a simple solution for that: a legacy, do something that people will remember you for, if you really want to matter

>>33347303
i have doubts you are really working yourself up to that degree over this. i think you are just trying to bargain with the universe.

>>33347434
Does that change my point?

perhaps what you need is acceptance

>>33347561
yeah

>>33347241 (OP)
My life is so fucking hopeless I should've killed myself years ago fuck this and fuck all of you

>>33347241 (OP)
Stop worrying about it since it doesn't matter