Thread 33350610

I took this picture on my business trip, I just don’t enjoy looking at her or being with her, she doesn’t even wear makeup, she takes a nap at 2 pm when I arrive home so I can’t eat. I get she gave birth 4 months ago but she looks so tired. Shes lost weight yes but she has more fat. I mean I feel like my entire life has been thrown upside down. I lost my temper in my hotel room and started throwing stuff around because of the situation I am in. Like I want a skinny woman who’s attractive and tries to be a good wife

>>33350610 (OP)
Did you tell her that?

>>33350625
No I haven’t, I’m scared I’ll go crazy on her. She hasn’t done anything wrong per se. basically she’s a normie and I am not, she’s very short which is good but I hate seeing her stupid extra fatness, it’s not that much as you csn see but I really want her to be skinny and how the hell to fix her eye bags?

>>33350643
You not telling her is worse long term.
You can't have a stable relationship based on hiding your feelings.
It will eat you alive and you'll explode eventually.

Explain gently.
Remain calm.
She might try to lose weight.
She might leave.
Either is better than exploding.

>>33350647
lol she’s not gonna leave

>>33350661
Ok then what's the hold up?
Tell her to lose weight or you'll leave.

>>33350684
She will literally start crying

>>33350699
Ok and?
Are you so whiped that tears control you?

>>33350707
I am the OP with a butter body fiancé, not sure but something makes saying something about your woman's body which is negative nearly impossible in my brain too.

Just be happy your girl's tits are not 2 feet long.

>>33350723
I’m op not you

>>33350723
It's not impossible, you're just over-socialized estrogen stuffed simps. Your women will eventually be biologically compelled to resent you.
Good luck

go on a date (with her)

>>33350752
Why did you write (with her)

She is good looking enough to be scooped up immediately by the wolves
If/when that happens you will get jealous and want to kys
Treat her well now, even if she disgusts you. I unfortunately know how you are feeling

>>33350610 (OP)
women are only as giddy and healthy as the way their man treats them. if you treat her like shit shell feel like shit and her physical appearance follows. if she just gave birth her self esteem towards her appearance is probably at her lowest and youre also doing dumb shit like throwing stuff around. the problem here is most likely youre not a good husband

Dump her. Tell her why. Free her from having to deal with both a baby and a man-child.

Once you’re single, start going to high school sporting events. Hang out around the school at the end of the day. Throw compliments at every perfect woman you see. If you have no luck, try it at a middle school. You’ll be drowning in perfect women, trust me.

>>33350782
This.

I know a lot of people troll here but if OP is serious, and id that disrespectful to the woman who gave birth to his child, posts her pic here, he has no soul. He absolutely is psychopath. That's all there is to this. He will always be empty because his has no soul and his kids will hate him.

>Hey honey, I think we should take more time to look after our health together. I know we have a baby now but we shouldn't let that get in the way, we should still look after ourselves so we can raise our child better and have a better life.
Now you're on her side, and you're being supportive and not a psycho that throws shit around the room like a toddler. Be her partner and she will lose weight while you just keep doing what you were doing anyway.

>>33350610 (OP)
>>33350643
>normie tier
>just gave birth
jesus christ your wife is quite the looker
get your shit together you faggot loser
better yet
dump her and I'll move in
how about that
loser

>>33350610 (OP)
Bro has a wife and is complaining

>>33350610 (OP)
Take her on a date to a nice restaurant and then something romantic but not sexual afterward. Make it something that she would want to put on a nice dress and make-up for. During the date make it a point to tell her how beautiful she is, how great her dress is, how her make-up complements her dress and jewelry, or whatever. She will then feel good and associate wearing a dress and putting on make-up with getting validating and romantic attention from you. If you do it right, she will feel a need to look nice and wear make-up again.

You may need to do this a few times to get it to stick. If it doesn't work after like 5 or 6 times of similar dates, just drop it; there's no bringing it back.

>>33350610 (OP)
>>33350643
Retarded cunt

>>33350610 (OP)
>>33350643
Resenting your partner for something you refuse to tell them about is some woman-type shit.

baiting for (you)s?

be a man and tell her you no longer find her attractive, no one likes cowards

>>33350610 (OP)
>I get she gave birth 4 months ago but
Jesus. What a child you are.

>>33350610 (OP)
>Hey guys, my wife is mother to an infant but she looks tired all the time and takes nap and doesn't wear makeup, what gives?
You're an idiot

>>33350610 (OP)
What about you? Do you look the same as you did younger? And do you help with the baby?

Those eye bags plus the baby tell more about you and the overall situation than her. She is carrying more weight than she can, she is probably not sleeping at all, and the food you are providing her is also probably dogshit. I bet she is doing all the work around the baby while you are throwing tantrums in hotel rooms and posting on here saying "you are not a normie". You are worse than a normie, you are a complete fucking moron.

>>33350610 (OP)
Sorry man but she looks like an ogre, just like 99% of women do who don't spend hours each day on their appearance. And even if she did do this, she's going to get older and uglier with each passing year. You need to accept this. If her vagina feels good and she's loyal and has a nice personality, that's all that matters. If she's a bitch or a cunt or uses sex as a weapon, then it's time to move on and find a girl who's actually nice.

If sexual attraction is the only thing holding your relationship together, it's guaranteed to fail because most women are barely attractive into their 20's even if they spend hours each day on their appearance. If you chose her just because you thought she was hot, then you fucked up because women are only hot for a very short time.

>>33351532
>>33351472
>>33351470
>>33350930
I love her but I feel like my I’m being completely ignored. I come home from work and she COMPLETELY ignores me. And she does that stupid sweet talk to our baby and for some reason that boils my blood and I think of evil things. I’m not an evil person because I can’t control these thoughts, they come to me automatically. This is her when she was 18-19. We met when we were 16 and she was extremely slim and her hair was way more vibrant

>>33351532
I buy very good high quality food. She’s the one who cooks. It’s not my fault, it’s my job

>>33351472
I actually look more attractive

>>33351771
lol you fucking pussy bitch
she just gave birth
what you do think?
sounds to me that youre some kind of day old school shooter with all that bitterness & jealousy
send me her socials ;>

>>33350930
I’m not a psychopath: it’s not my fault I can’t control these thoughts. It’s just that she ignores me way more now. She doesnt fix her hair, shes starting to have acne (which she never had) and I told her to see a dermatologist she said it’s not important and it pisses me off. I know she loves me cause she sends photos everyday saying I love you and that she misses me but I feel like I’m stuck in life, ive worked so hard and now when I finally get a good job with good pay, instead of relaxing all I think about is her and how she gained weight and how I’m stuck with a baby my entire life. I feel stuck. I literally lose my shit over this. I genuinely feel like I’m on the edge and I’m about to die

>>33351780
School shooter? WTF are you on about. And kill your self you fag

>>33351789
>wah wah wah woe is me
either man up and do what you're supposed to do as a father & a husband or hit the highway
>>33351790
uh oh eat my rectum
and post her socials
NOW

>>33351801
END YOUR
LIFE

>>33351805
hmm?

>>33351789
I don't know you two, but if you pull the plug now you might regret it big time.
What you are annoyed about isn't your wife gaining weight or having acne or any dumb shit, those are just symptoms or an underlying issue. Odds are she's suffering as well, misses when you were closer.
Something is up, maybe you feel a bit neglected now that she's directing much of her attention to the child, maybe you are just going through a rough patch, maybe she's scared of responsibility, it could be a million things, what is important, if you want to have a future together and keep your family, is to deprogram yourself to look for the problem in your partner, rather think of it as a mutual problem you both have and that you need to find out about, before working on the solution.
Therapy is a better path than breaking up out of panic or some weak shit like cheating

>>33350610 (OP)
lets pretend youre not baiting
lets also assume youre not completely retarded, and are just panicking
4 months is a little too soon to be worried about how she will look from now on forever. her first priority is not her looks now, and it shouldnt be yours. its the fucking baby. do you love the baby? can you concentrate on being a father for a bit, and jerk off to porn sometimes, at least for a couple months more? once she gets a bit more sleep and has the energy to worry about more than her and the babys survival, she will naturally be interested in herself and her looks and your needs. she will start working out or whatever. if not, you can push her a bit. but leave her alone for now
i hope this is bait though, if not, i am sure glad im not having a baby with you lmao

>>33351822
But there’s literally nothing for me to do, I don’t cook, I don’t change diapers, sometimes when I come from work I just hold him. Remember I
Work takes me away.
>>33351821
I can’t go to therapy due to my child and I don’t fully believe in therapy or depression or all those stuff, ever since I was 12 I stopped being vulnerable to anyone, it’s very dangerous and leads to people hurting you in the future because people will think you’re weak.
>>33351821
I’m not jealous of the attention she’s giving him and I just hate the fact that she’s ignoring me a lot more.

>>33351821
And she’s not scared of responsibility, I will admit, she’s a lot more responsible than me but my job is a HIGH responsibility job

>>33351831
>I don’t cook, I don’t change diapers
learn how to
jesus christ
even the poorest fathers from the rattiest hole in some 3rd world knows how to do these things
to be perfectly honest you sound like a massive manchild, just wanna run for mommy the moment pressure kicks in
big ick
>>33351835
god I hope your wife weathers your immature ass

>>33350728
He said he was OP of another thread, dumbass

>>33350773
Because OP is a homosexual and would take it as an invitation to hunt for man ass

>>33351847
First of all if I don’t you my job you wouldn’t be saying that stuff about pressure. I can handle lots of pressure. And I’m not stressed Im just angry at my situation in life, I’m so young, ive done everything I want to do but it’s only downhill. I literally had to leave the house when I heard her doing that stupid girly sweet talk. I went in my car and just lost it. Like I said, I don’t have control over this. And I am a man, not a coward, not scared of telling her what I think

>>33350610 (OP)
OP, you're a faggot for posting multiple pictures of your wife on a board like this behind her back. My advice is to kys

>>33351847
If I told you my job ***

>>33350610 (OP)
I don’t read badly written rage bait threads

>>33351859
well 1st of all I dont even know what your job is, so I just assumed that you can handle pressures in life
>I literally had to leave the house when I heard her doing that stupid girly sweet talk. I went in my car and just lost it.
if this whats breaking you, them I'm afraid thats called emotional immaturity sweaty
but hey youre a father now, thing are gonna get a lot more tougher so suck it up
>all this whining
what do you want? hmm?

>>33351835
Making shitposts where you pretend to be married is not a job.
Who is the girl you are posting? A oneitis you never asked out but she has Facebook?

>>33351885
I’m not emotionally immature, I just hate when she does that

>>33351835
>but my job is a HIGH responsibility job
what even is your job hmm?

>>33351901
Not gonna expose myself

>>33351831
FFS, you have to be autistic to be so clueless about how life, jobs, relationships, and parenting works.
Reading this slop fiction is like reading a 12 year old girl that has never seen a gun write about being a combat soldier.

>>33351909
If you had ever met a man capable of a high responsibility job you would know none of them whine like a little bitch about minor shit.
You, however, whine like a little bitch about almost everything.
If, IF, you have a job it is one where you wear a name tag and ask people if they want the large fry

>>33351909
>not gonna expose myself
>posts a picture of his wife as OP and continues posting her face

>>33351900
listen here sweaty
all woman do that
young & old
foreign or domestic
sounds like you're an emotional midget
>>33351909
larping manchild I knew it
just post her socials lol

>>33350610 (OP)
>she doesn’t even wear makeup
That's a good thing. If she doesn't look good without fake ass plastering it's not worth it. Make-up is for vapid whores and I'll die on this hill.

If that pic is really your wife, she looks fine. She just needs to get back in shape, get a haircut and some decent sleep. If I we're you, I'd take the effort to open up some time and space for her to take of herself. Pregnancy takes it's toll on the body, it takes a bit of work to bounce back from that. Just tell her that you feel she should take the effort to get back in shape and get spruced up, for her own sake. Exercise together if you can to keep her motivated.

>>33351771
>classic jelly of the baby
kek. Get your head of your ass you pathetic manchild. Stop behaving like her son and be her partner you egocentric maniac. She's taking care of your offspring and you blame her for it. Jesus christ. Literally take over the care for your child whenever possible, don't you get days off work for parenting a newborn anyway? Be a father. Did you even agree on getting pregnant?

I think thatmanfag is gone now
cmon man I just want to creep on your wife!

>>33350610 (OP)
you're a shallow man, dump her or appreciate your wife getting fat from fulfilling your wishes