I groomed a 17 year old five years ago, everyone knows the story already.

He says he's lonely a lot of times. I wonder if im to blame since I groomed him? Im pretty retarded but I know he has a life outside of me and so does everyone else.

The advice im looking for is if im to blame for his loneliness? He had a irl gf his own age but apparently he was TOXIC Towards her and cheap in spending money on her, which has nothing to do with me.

Tldr; am I to blame for his loneliness or do i have nothing to do with it?

If it matters he and im both autistic.