Thread 33361114

Would you get into relationship with your old crush/oneitis (i.e. someone you used to be really downright obsessed with but never actually had relationship with), assuming a long time has passed since that stage and no better romantic prospects were on your horizon?
Or is that sort of attempt at "entering the same river twice" always doomed to go badly?

no

>>33361114 (OP)
>Should I get with someone out of desperation fear of being alone?
See >>33361190

>>33361114 (OP)
I'm not attracted to my old crush/oneitis anymore, it would be more convenient to get a new one, even as an incel I can't imagine a case where there would be no better prospects than her.

>>33361204
It's not really that I'm deathly afraid of dying alone (this is reality that I've long since internalized to the point that I went on for years without even thinking of getting gf), it's more that there's occasion to get together and maybe try. I haven't really met anyone remotely interesting or up my alley in years, since most people in my field of study/work are extremely fucking plain and boring people, and I have trouble making meaningful connection with new people in general.
I'm no longer obsessed with her the way I used to be (and it was an extremely dire case when we were teenagers), but she's still pretty and quaint enough. There are some red flags, but ain't nobody perfect I guess.

>>33361190
Yeah, same, no.

But new girls that remind you of the old girl... Oh my wow amirite. Hubba bubba.

It's been such a long time since my last proper oneitis that I can barely remember what it feels like at all.
I had reinvented her in my mind into something that she wasn't really. My perception of her was unrealistic. Imaginary even. Even though I new her quite well, I was obsessed with a manufactured image of her, not the real person. It was wildly unhealthy, and I'm well beyond that point now.
So no. No I would not.

>>33361114 (OP)
No, try to live better, look better, make more and steal their friends. Three are enough but again use old people as spite motivators.

>>33361471
M, we are stronger than the wind and all the outside that attempts to separate us.
I trust you, all of you over them.
We were in a relationship, the only one that matters
As we complete each other
I know you. All of you . All of you is seen by me
Just as you know me. All of me. All of me is seen by you

>>33361114 (OP)
>keyword "assuming"
I won't read hypotheticals about no-one in particular, on an advice board. Ask for advice next time, by stating your problem.