>>33386943OP here
>It's not muscle cramps either, though the discomfort can feel intense or cramp-like.When you ejaculate, the body releases the built-up blood pressure, which explains why the pain went away. The longer you go with arousal without release, the more intense the sensation can get, as you noticed with it becoming "harder to last."
Yeah, I'm not buying any of this. I've gone another five days of prolonged fapping without ejaculating. And although I've experienced the blue ball cramps, I remembered an old trick up my sleeve that I learned years ago to keep me from losing my erection when I perform my non-ejaculatory orgasms. Basically involves stretching my penis.
And voila, just like that, the blue ball cramps were gone and I could better control my non-ejaculatory orgasms without stopping and experience more pleasure. But most importantly without the need to ejaculate.
Given my perverted experience with non-ejaculatory orgasms, I'm more convinced now more than ever that "blue balls" are muscle cramps of the pelvic floor and not "blood buildup" in the testicles.
Over the past couple weeks, I've had bowel movements that would trigger these blue ball cramps, and I could feel the cramping from the side of my gut all the way to the bottom of my testicles.
Why would me taking a shit do any of this? There's nothing sexy about taking a shit.
Employing my old friend, the penis stretch, instantly relieved that. And my last couple bowel movements did not trigger any cramps. Again, no ejaculation.
Keep in mind, as a pervert, I have been practicing having non-ejaculatory orgasms for years now, and I never have any need or desire to ejaculate. I very rarely get these blue ball cramps.
But this experience combined with my years of being a pervert has further deepened my understanding of the pelvic floor and my solid belief that blue balls is definitely NOT hypertension.