Why do women ghost so much and what are some tips to stop it? Finally had enough and put this ghosting bitch in her place

>>33369494 (OP)
You are wrong in your assumptions that chatting to girls online has any meaningful impact with women.
Tell me how different are you from a dozen of other simps typing to her in her DM's?
You should ask her out and fuck her right in the pussy at the first opportunity. If they aren't interested, you should ghost them and do more useful things with your time other than entertaining web whores.

>>33369528
Your advice is awfully conflicting with lots of other advice I get. In the past I have people tell me I'm "too forward" and need to slow things down. I think you and other people don't really realize that women don't take you seriously if you aren't Chad which is why they ghost. They give their number out to non Chads to avoid confrontation or for attention. Chad would never have to play these stupid fucking games

>>33369547
it really depends where you met this person
have you established that you are interested in them
if there's base level of interest the best thing is to set up a date in as few messages as possible

so your questions should spike her emotions, not her brain

>>33369494 (OP)
The way to minimize ghosting is to do a better job at stimulating their emotions. Don't have boring conversations. The pic you posted is the most boring shit I have ever seen.

>>33369547
Listen to yourself, read your reply again.
Those people giving you "advice":
>Oh, you're too forward.
>You're looking needy.
>Try to say something funny.
>You need to find common topics.
>This opening never fails.
This is all a utter waste of time. You ask them out, and fuck them right in the pussy. That's all there is to it, really.
At any hint of disinterest you ghost them.
If they waste your time or take too long to reply, ghost them and move on.
If they are interested in you, you will know, if they are not, move on, don't waste your time.
I'm no telling you to play any games, I'm telling you to go straight to the point.
Btw, you use the word "Chad" too much, I think you should spend less time online.

>lol as punctuation
the text equivalent of that open-mouth smile monkeys do to appear non-threatening

>>33369569
It doesn't work that way most of the time. Women have a short period in the month when they're ovulating and the rest of the time you can't just expect immediate fucks in the pussy.

>>33369587
If they are on Tinder chatting to random dudes, you can bet your ass that they will be willing to fuck if the opportunity comes.
You'd be naive to think otherwise.
Also, women do get more horny when they are ovulating but they will have sex any time of the month, even during their period if they want to.

They stop responding when a man they're not 100% into sends something that requires a whole paragraph explaining why it's retarded. Like that unprompted "text me" - most women don't give their numbers to random schmucks on some app after exchanging a few messages. And if she isn't ready to exchange numbers, why ask you to slow down or explain the situation instead of messaging someone who doesn't rush her and doesn't need to be guided through social interactions.

Also, any pause in an ongoing conversation shouldn't be followed by needy panicking about the lack of response, wait for her message and if it doesn't come then you shouldn't follow up either.

>>33369494 (OP)
>Why do women ghost so much
They do this because they are on these apps for hot guys. If that was just a text/social media exchange, then she's seen you and interacted with you and isn't attracted to you. Girls text guys they like unless the girl is a total sperg (extremely rare).
>what are some tips to stop it?
Become more socially adept and get fit. Girls like guys that are social and outgoing. Make friends with some guys that like being social and outgoing. Don't hang out with anyone that says the following or similar:
>My gf must be chaste
>I just have standards
>She's too slutty, I need a trad woman
>You're a cuck if you fuck slutty girls
>I need a Christiantradbasedconservawife, not some common whore
All of that is cope, not conducive to getting girls, or both. You need to slay your dragons before you get your princess. More importantly, people need to know you fuck, even if it's just one girl. This is factually instantly more attractive despite objections from people online; girls want what girls want.
Lastly, stop using dating apps. Even guys that get laid easily struggle and get ghosted on apps. App women literally cannot be made to care about app men because there are so many to choose from. You will get ghosted on apps, period.
>Finally had enough and put this ghosting bitch in her place
No you didn't. If anything, you made yourself look pathetic and desperate. A rule of thumb in life is to never let people know when they've wounded you or that what they do matters to you unless you already have a relationship with that person. Letting a woman, especially an app girl, know that you're upset about not getting her attention is immediately unattractive and devalues your attention to her.

>>33369494 (OP)
It's because those are BOT accounts.
You can see some telltale signs in that pic...

That or... they are incredibly inept and slow at responding. Which CAN happen.

they have infinity options and are lowkey despairmaxxed the same way we are just in the opposite direction, i.e. "why try all these guys are the same and I hate myself, etc. etc."

I ghost them now

The answer is that dating apps are a shit way to meet people. That's literally all there is to it.

>>33369494 (OP)
>Why do women ghost so much
Because dating apps, to most people, are barely serviceable sources of entertainment. It holds about as much weight as a game of solitaire. On the dating apps you're not a person - you're a picture and a few lines of text. All the effort it takes to swipe past you and on to the next profile is a flick of the thumb. You are nothing to these people, OP, and its weird to expect otherwise. You cease to exist the second they put down their phone because they have no emotional investment in you. None. You're a stranger. They know about as much about you as you could fit on a name tag. Absolute strangers aren't taking time to sit you down and have a heart to heart about their feelings. You can say this is good or bad but that's irrelevant. Whining about it won't change anything. Stop getting emotionally pulled in by the actions of strangers. Its weird.

>>33370110
True

>>33369494 (OP)
i ghost because i get bored the men are very boring and don’t know how to have conversations. im always carrying the conversations

>>33369494 (OP)
You let her win

>>33370310
Ghosting and rejecting can be as traumatic for men as rape is to girls. I hope you fix your behaviour in the future.

>>33371340
This makes you sound like the biggest melodramatic faggot in the world. Rejection is a part of life, deal with it and move on retard

>>33369494 (OP)
Match her level of interest. You get absolutely nothing out of spazzing out like this. You will never recover this after behaving this way. It means nothing to her and a lot to you; fix that.

>>33371340
It’s not and the post you’re replying to is 100% a gay guy.

>>33369494 (OP)
The dating apps are randomly cutting off conversations in order to keep people on the dating apps. They don’t want people to meet in real life. They should be sued for fraud in a class action suit.

>>33371620
You must be fucking ugly if you think getting rejected every day is normal, kek. What's your success rate like? 1 fat girl after 1000 rejections? Lmao

It's a numbers game who cares just keep going!!!!!

>>33369494 (OP)
>Why do women ghost so much
Because they’re scared of men by default. I know that might sound stupid if you already know you wouldn’t actively harm anyone let alone a chick, but chicks automatically assume man = danger.

Not because men did anything to deserve the suspicion, no misandry required. It’s simply because we are stronger than women. We’re usually bigger, too. More muscles, more testosterone, more proclivity towards combativeness, disagreeableness, aggression. That’s just reality. And women know this.

They ghost because they’re scared of are too pussy to participate in confrontation. That’s what that is. That’s exactly why vaginas and being scared share the same name: “Pussy”.

Women are and have always been passive. Thats how they weave in and out of danger. They’ll ghost or pretend to be agreeable then go silent. It’s to get away from what they think is a potentially moody guy.

Its okay to be a moody guy. But women can’t handle it, they dont know how. They just assume you are big scary man and bail.

Women like big scary man. But only if big scary man is gentle to her, but scary to mutual enemies. Then she feels that you would protect her, not freak out on her.

>>33371932
>rejection is a part of life
>if you think getting rejected every day is normal
Nice reading comprehension retard

>>33369633
If a woman isn’t ready to exchange numbers then WHY THE FUCK IS SHE ON A DATING APP

>>33372098
Do you get hard when you get rejected, retard? You said you love getting rejected, kek.

>>33369494 (OP)
>lol
>lol
>lol
Makes me fucking cringe. You probably sound too feminine and disingenuous.
>>33369581
What this guy said.

>>33372271

>>33371340
If you find rejection as traumatic as rape, thats fully a you problem. Everyone has to deal with rejection. If you can't it means you haven't taken enough risks in your life so your emotional development is outstandingly stunted.

>>33372346
I wouldn't wish rejection on anyone. And I'm talking about romantic rejection, retard. It destroys your confidence and self-esteem. It's absolutely traumatic and will make you more hesitant on the next approach.
>>33372312
>9gag meme picture
You're the retarded one.

>>33372392
>I wouldn't wish rejection on anyone. And I'm talking about romantic
KWAB

>>33369494 (OP)
It's self-protection. Men often get aggressive and confrontational when rejected, demanding an explanation of what they did wrong when often you're just not feeling it and it's nothing about them.

On a dating app they have your name, general location and know what you look like so have enough information to find you so it's important to tread carefully since you never know which one is a psycho you'll try to find you after a rejection.

Ghosting is just a softer way of communicating a lack of interest and hope they get the message without getting overly upset and offended like you seemed to in the OP. You can't avoid it since dating apps are a cesspit in general

>>33369494 (OP)
STOP APPROACHING WOMEN. STOP USING ONLINE APPS. STOP GIVING WOMEN ATTENTION

Stop Asking Women On Dates, stop texting them thinking you are interesting because you are not. The reason you are getting ghosted is because you text and try to be funny, try to make her laugh or sound interesting. If you do manage to go to the next step and are actually meeting up and then get ghosted, stop taking women on dates. That stuff doesn't work anymore in the current year.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyEdsrfTd6Q
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gK1w1cAKS7o

Most importantly stop approaching women, at least for a while. They are already seething and this will only get worse and worse as they get less and less attention from men.
If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.

>>33372493
You have no idea how happy the vast majority of women would be in a world where random men never approach them in public or slide into dms on social media.

That sounds like paradise

>>33369494 (OP)
>don't immediately get a response to an asinine text within 5 mintes
>AAAAAIIIIE I AM LE GHOSTED
>immediately go full Nice Guy and call her GHOSTING SLUT WHORE and double-text is not triple-text or send her a an entire blogpost worth of emotional dumping

why are guys like this

>>33372114
she probly wants to make sure you're not a scamming pajeet or meth head looking to wear her skin and stuff the rest of her in a barrel

You know what I do when a girl takes some time to respond to a text of mine? I don't give a shit and go about my day because I'm not just sitting there staring at my phone waiting for her text.

Worst case scenario I might just take twice as long to text her back.

>>33372271
>>33372346
NTA but shouldn't people at least give a reason to as why they aren't interested? Ghosting is just rude and culturally it's anti-productive.

>>33369494 (OP)
start by stopping to use "lol" or speaking like a 4chan incel alltoghether. also dating apps dont work. go out

>>33369494 (OP)
Stop trying with that woman. Shes a proven flake. Stop whining and move on.

>>33372815
>shouldn't people at least give a reason to as why they aren't interested? Ghosting is just rude
roasties are just like that. they either:
>ghost you
>lead you on answering eventually so they keep getting some beta orbiter attention/"not to be rude"
>say some mean shit that will make you insecure as fuck about yourself and women
>lie to you with a shitty excuse
>be honest while not a total bitch (this NEVER happens, even though we men think as the most obviousthing to do)

ghosting is the most polite shit they nowadays do. it just 100% mean they re not interested. there's no reason to doubth it. they 100% would reply otherwise

>>33369494 (OP)
>screencaps message
>sends it in her gc with all of her girlfriends
>makes fun of you
Lol retard

>>33374490
IT'S VERY SIMPLE
after chatting for at least a few days, ask
>wanna meet up for coffee sometime?
if she doesn't give a clear day then and there, you need to just drop her on the spot with a
>'hey cool, well all the best i guess, bye'.
any answer other than a yes/a day fits into what you said, either an excuse or keeping you as a spare, which is red flags all over.
i learned this shit in my mid-20's and i can't fathom how guys in their late 20s/early 30s are still getting lead on so badly.
your time is precious and you should know your worth. move on.

>>33369494 (OP)
Once shes no longer interested in you, she has no incentive to speak to you.
Women want to lift up the man they commit to, and tear down every other man

>>33369528
I did some time entertaining web girls. Made a lot of progress, but they wouldnt agree to a meet. It just doesnt work.

>>33369547
Having a face to face meet is not 'too forward'.

>>33369494 (OP)
Anon. 10 women response to you at once on Tinder. What would you do? How many are getting ghosted?

Tinder is a lose lose game for men. You have a better chance at finding a gf by just traveling around and asking random women out that talking to sluts on Tinder.

>>33375349
>'hey cool, well all the best i guess, bye'.
sounds hurt and passive agressive. i would literally throw a
>YES OR NO. WHEN
consider i dont text people i dont knwo irl

>>33369494 (OP)
isn't there a report button for this behavior?
cunts like this should be banned desu

>>33370110
>Absolute strangers aren't taking time to sit you down and have a heart to heart about their feelings.
explain this site then

>>33372438
>>Men often get aggressive and confrontational when rejected, demanding an explanation of what they did wrong
Stupid fucking explanation.
No men including me would ever do this. Id be way more likely to be confrontational if the gal is being a flaky ghosting whore. And, also, if it's on a dating app, then who cares if the gal gives an explanation for why she isn't interested and the dude get furious? The woman can just block or remove the dude and move on.

>>33375545
>>33372438
Woops didn't read the second half of your message. But come on now... What are the fucking odds that some dude is gonna fucking go psycho on some girl over some dating app rejection? That shit never happens. And as I said, if I were to give enough of a fuck and decided to confront the bitch I would be way more likely to do it if she ghosted me.

>>33370110
>Its weird
reddit moment. it's not weirdo behaviour like you are implying, it's natural and common etiquette, or at least it was for our parents. i started using social media ata liek 21 and it was a shock to see people being so rude online. 15yos these days are totally like taht irl though but bc the culture has adapted to internet now

>>33369494 (OP)
It's not worth talking to women via text, they go into lazy mode and don't even try.

>>33370310
>i ghost because i get bored the men are very boring and don’t know how to have conversations. im always carrying the conversatio

the women i've tried to talk to can't even carry a conversation and it's like why the fuck did you swipe on me then?