What is it about this fucking generation where ignoring someone's messages and ghosting is literally the fucking norm? I mean holy FUCK it's every time and I'm gonna kill someone.

100+ swipes on the dating apps, maybe 7 matches, all ghost after the first day

Meet a girl in real life, get her number, she ghosts.

Apply for 20+ jobs, all of them don't reply

Apply for unemployment benefits, constantly in processing limbo, no information and can't get through to anyone on the phone
Message friends a question or ask to hang out, they don't respond or they ghost

Message my army reserve unit a question or volunteer for something, they leave my message on open.

Fucking shit is so infuriating. What happened to a simple "sorry! Busy but I'll get working on it!" Or "We reviewed your application and will contact you soon!" Or just a fucking "sorry! We are not hiring at this time/we reviewed your application and we unfortunately can't offer you the job!" or just BASIC FUCKING COMMUNICATION.

Ohhhh but I seem to have no problem getting a response when someone needs to get my money! When college tuition or bill collector man come through they are veryyyyyy quick to take my cold hard earned cash :)

Fucking sick of this era and all of this shit. Fuck this gay world

>>33374824 (OP)
low trust society, satanic survival of the fittest mentality, atomization

>>33374824 (OP)
>Apply for 20+ jobs, all of them don't reply
Imagine being on the receiving end of that? Imagine writing out personalized rejection letters in emails to a thousand indians every single day? There wouldn't be enough hours in the day.

>Meet a girl in real life, get her number, she ghosts.

you probably sent her a conversational dead-end

>>33374824 (OP)
too easy to disassociate the message from the sender
they wouldn't ghost you if you spoke to them in person, but when it's just a message on a screen (one of hundreds) it's easy to forget that what might be boring and common to them could be very important to you

in a way it's like how, while very few (modern first world) people would willingly kill a large animal, almost everyone eats meat. disassociation.

>>33374905
Anything can be a ""conversational dead end"" if the guy isn't Chad enough

>>33374923
works on my machine

your fault for chasing after Staceys

>>33374928
The 6 and 5/10s do it too bro

>>33374824 (OP)
The only one of these that really gets me is if it's someone you've been talking to with clear vulnerability or emotions involved for weeks
Now that shit really fucking sucks
Friends taking a few days to get back to you sometimes more depends on individual dynamics, with me and my friends it's always been not unusual for someone to take a day or two to respond, no one really minds as long as it's not like every time.

The rest is whatever, professional shit, one day of seeing if you vibe with someone, not the end of the world it just doesn't work out sometimes

>>33374934
you wouldn't want anything less than a 5/10 either

and it's not about looks, it's about charisma.

if the entire universe is ignoring you, it's not celestial conspiracy against you. You're probably just an annoying/boring dork.

>>33374824 (OP)
>What is it about this fucking generation where ignoring someone's messages and ghosting is literally the fucking norm?
People could still ghost each other on ICQ and MSN Messenger and AOL online, or even via the phone's answering machine in the living room. It's not a generational thing

>>33374824 (OP)
I won't read venting threads.

>>33374968
Shut up

>>33374824 (OP)
Agreed but like
It just shows you ppl's true colours
So you can distinguish between the shit cunts and the alright people
And get better at people reading
And not take other ppl's bullshit and become even more callous and dismissive and calculative
And only extend ur grace to the alright people
Even thru micro-expressions I can already tell
What kinda person a people are
Each micro-rejection and micro-disrespect
Just thickens my self worship and further cements
My need
To rise
In the face
Of others
Prove my reality
Is realer than theirs'

>>33374824 (OP)
Respect, OP. You are using your power to make adjustments to the world.

>>33374905
why the fuck are we allowing indians to apply to american jobs in the first place

>>33374955
>People could still ghost each other on ICQ and MSN Messenger and AOL online, or even via the phone's answering machine in the living room. It's not a generational thing

Yes it is, people didn't spend this much time on the internet and people had better social skills and more class.

>>33374896
true

>>33374824 (OP)
All those people are actually very good at communicating.

It's YOU they are choosing to ignore

>>33374824 (OP)
Bro rolled low IRL

bump

>>33374824 (OP)
Not op but
I figured if I was a normie or had more charisma, people would respond to me more. I just don't know what that takes. Maybe I’m ugly and boring. I can pretend to be exciting and wow people, “wow I got a thing we can do” but that rarely works. Idk what works anymore.

>>33374824 (OP)
why are you getting so emotional you little bitch? just take ghosting for what it means, "no", and move on. you want everyone to hold your hand and sit you down to talk every single time or you're gonna throw a hissy fit? didn't know reserves got ptsd.

>>33378119
What the fuck is wrong with somebody taking two seconds to say "not interested" or working on it, retard? Especially when it's work or money related.

>>33376449
As someone who fell for a girl who I later judged to be cold and incapable of loving only to know that she would have a girlfriend I agree

Contrary to what some will have you believe in this thread what you are going through is real and is happening. I challenge you to Just take a moment and think on how today's society is evolving and how this is influencing the of behavior you see in people, I'm sure you'll easily come up with a number of reasons that will probably be right. It's just the trajectory our world is heading in, accept it or dont but try to be the best person you can be. observe how others are handling the situation and just try to be better.

>>33374824 (OP)
Have you ever thought that maybe its you? Try optimizing your look. Or try different styles of chatter. You have to figure out what works for you. Obviously you're doing something wrong. Everyone gets ghosted at some point, sure, but if literally _everyone_ is ghosting you, then there is a problem and you need look inward dumbfuck and stop blaming the world for your problems. Women probably smell that you play victim, they smell the weakness, and want nothing to do with you.

>>33378311
>It's just the trajectory our world is heading in
Not OP, but what is the end goal? We all just retreat to our synthesized, tech bubbles and spend more time with screens than with other people? Society would fall apart before that