Just got reminded how far behind I am again - /adv/ (#33375676) [Archived: 195 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/17/2025, 5:42:00 AM No.33375676
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Just saw a coworker post on insta him kissing this pretty coworker. He’s a pretty average guy, no muscle, slacks off at work, and not the best looking face. But somehow he pulled a girl that gets hit on regularly at the cash register. I never would’ve expected it. My first thought was “wtf how??” but I know why, it’s because he’s a normie and doesn’t have problems talking to women. He doesn’t have that voice in his head telling him “what if I’m being a creep.” I tried getting to know this cute girl at work and I thought she liked my company but now she’s avoiding me so fml i guess.

I’ve worked out and got lean. Put a lot of effort into my appearance. Work hard on my studies and get praised at work. Get told I’m funny a lot by the people I work with. But somehow still can’t get what I really want - a girl to notice and like me. It’s all so fucking stupid and I’m tired. I’m 25 and it’s only gonna get worse
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 5:43:30 AM No.33375683
>>33375676 (OP)
the cute girl I’m talking about is some other girl not the girl in that guy kissed
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 5:49:35 AM No.33375712
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>>33375676 (OP)
>He’s a pretty average guy, no muscle, slacks off at work, and not the best looking face. But somehow he pulled a girl that gets hit on regularly at the cash register.
Have you considered his personality?
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 5:53:02 AM No.33375724
If that kinda guy who's obviously not chad can do it= you're not that far behind
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 5:56:45 AM No.33375741
>>33375676 (OP)
Incels like you would rather muse and complain forever, anything but putting effort into improving their personality.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:06:03 AM No.33375779
>>33375712
I just told you he’s a slacker. He takes every opportunity to hide in the bathroom. He also talks about women to guys like a typical horny teenager would. The girl is pretty but from the many times I’ve interacted with her it seems like she doesn’t really have any ambition in life and watches instagram reels all day. So in a way I guess their personality match
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:13:03 AM No.33375810
The trueness is sad.
Sorry fren.

Unironically ditch your beliefs about sin and go to some pro to get practice, confidence.
Even If you have to drive some hours it' worth to start to change.
Good luck anon.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:17:00 AM No.33375827
>>33375676 (OP)
>not the best looking face
men aren't good at judging other men's attractiveness.
He sounds like a high tier normie who is low inhibition/social-maxxed. You also didn't mention how tall he was.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:20:55 AM No.33375844
>>33375827
>how tall he was
I’m 5’9 and he is shorter than me
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:26:10 AM No.33375858
>>33375844
country/state?
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:29:20 AM No.33375868
>>33375858
USA, socal. Let me save you some time, if there is a gigachad he is the opposite of that.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:33:49 AM No.33375879
>>33375868
>socal
okay so he's a hispanic? or is he white and pulling hispanic/ethnic girls?
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:37:34 AM No.33375895
>>33375879
he’s a beaner, like 90% of the people working in my store. I literally told you he’s an average ass dude. he’s fucking ugly (to me anyways) and has nothing to his personality that makes me think he’s some sort of hidden gem. maybe he’s funnier in private idk
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:51:28 AM No.33375935
>>33375895
beaners can have that latin american charm which is a big boost to their social charisma, its not that complicated that a social-maxxed mexican hooked up with a couple of girls. also ethnicity breakdown on his partners?
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 6:58:09 AM No.33375957
>>33375935
bruh, you’re more brainrotted than i am
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 10:30:19 AM No.33376376
>>33375957
>the latina category currently has 92k videos, compared to 55k in asian (another heavily fetishized group)
>opinion of accent is prime example of this
>coworker couldve just made more moves than you
>once she put out it was just easier to keep hitting it than find a new guy
dont get mad at anon bc theyre right lmao
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:36:30 PM No.33377202
>>33375895
>I'm jealous of a lazy ugly beaner with a shit gf
do you have any idea how retarded that sounds?
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:45:25 PM No.33377236
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>>33375676 (OP)
>a girl to notice [...] me
wrong mindset
women don't notice 98% of men
it's YOUR job to make her interested in you
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:47:12 PM No.33377245
>>33375676 (OP)
I won't read calendar of doom threads posted by subhuman retards who spend an inordinate amount of time comparing themselves to others. Nothing can be done.
Anonymous
7/18/2025, 12:27:53 AM No.33378574
>>33375676 (OP)
he betabuxxes and the girl treats him like shit
beaners are all simps. its a them in most of their songs too
hes probably a gangbanger or a pimp too