Thread 33375733

I'm going to start talking to girls, just anywhere. I'm currently on my way to the gym and basically, I'm just going to start talking to cute girls whenever and wherever I see them. You can't stop me.

Good for you

>>33375733 (OP)

>going to

you're so full of shit and you know it, if you really were then you wouldn't feel the need to make a thread about it

Godspeed anon

>>33375733 (OP)
yep thats definitely what the average introvert looks like

>>33375833
I'm determined.
>>33375860
Thank you.

>>33375870
I look like that minus 5kg of muscle.

>>33375870
introverts are made, not born that's a fact

>>33375894
proof
How can a social animal like a human be a shut in that prefers alone time?
A person can become an introvert due to several reason
>Faced trauma while socializing
>Socially awkward or has obscure interests and expressing his joy doesn't yield positive social results so he ends up keeping things to himself.
>Faced trauma while growing up
>Traumatic events caused either by parents or siblings or simply negligence can cause someone to be a shut in
There are probably other reasons but usually when someone says they are an introvert it means that they just don't want to open up with you.

Anon, I did cold approach a lot in my 20’s, it worked back then pretty well but it’s harder now with everyone recording everything and trying to humiliate guys, so be careful. If I could give one tip it would be set yourself up for success - do this by trying to talk and get numbers/snap where it won’t make her feel really uncomfortable. Good areas of success
>grocery store
>mall
>hangout spots on the weekend where it’s normal to be meeting new people
>school
>employee at their job - this one is real easy since you can start the conversation with something to do with the location and go from there. Just don’t do it if they are super busy or give off vibes they don’t want to talk
Bad places
>gym
>your place of employment
>parking lots

>>33375912
Thank you for the advice but I'm not really looking to cold approach, I just decided that no matter what I'm just going to start talking to girls, any topic, whatever springs to mind. Also I only go to work and the gym pretty much so that kind of narrows it down.

On the upside- it's Summer, everyone's in a good mood and relaxed.

see you here next week OP

>>33375942
Nah, I'm going to update you later today in this very thread.

>>33375733 (OP)
Picrel is what.. taken in Tijuana?

>>33376691
Yeah idk probably.

>>33375733 (OP)
introverts have 6 pack abs and tree trunk biceps
if you don't look like that you're an incelvert

>>33375884
I hope you do, anon. Just keep in mind that when you talk about doing something, your odds of doing it go down since it activates the same reward centers in your brain as actually doing it.

>>33375954
How'd it go, OP

>>33375894
Facts. Used to be the most introverted retard out there, couldn't even speak with a cashier and now I'm an extrovert retard who for some reason has to start conversations with everyone.

Not to brag as am an anon here but just to show that is just a matter of mindset and forcing yourself to be an extrovert

>>33375733 (OP)
Can't stop you, won't stop you. No need. You'll eventually get stopped as a consequence. Either from encountering women who enjoy solicitation from strangers (mentally crazy types, can't say no types, types to run your soul through a grinder) or, from your immediate community who run the gossip mill that you keep approaching people at random, girls specifically, girls who have boyfriends or husbands, girls who have fathers. Word spreads of the guy who keeps walking up to women and skulking around parking lots, stores, streets and parks. People start identifying you by name. Your reputation starts to spread, one you don't want. Consequences happen.

Good luck, you're gonna need it

>>33378374
would offering them money to lick their feet give me better results

>>33375733 (OP)
why though ? you're comfy the way you are. No use changing now. you're gonna be in a world of hurt.

>>33375733 (OP)
>Hey!
>Hi
>How are you?
>Good.
>Cool
>...
>...
What do I do

>>33375733 (OP)
Good luck on all your future failures.
>>33378448
>implying desperate cold approach even goes that far
It's more like
>Hey!
>...
>*girl starts walking fast while grasping her purse*

>>33375912
>everyone recording everything and trying to humiliate guys
this isn't actually a real thing.
I'd love to see videos of it though.

>>33375733 (OP)
kek, won't stop you. But the girls will.

>>33375733 (OP)
Eventually you get so numb to rejection that your complete indifference to female reactions comes off as aloof and confident. Weird, but true. Just stick with it, might take a couple hundred tries before it clicks, but it’ll click.

You guys always try to run before you can walk. 90% of interacting with a woman is body language. I’ve gotten women’s phone numbers barely saying two sentences before. Learn to flash a smile or cheeky glance, fix your fucking posture.

>>33378508
Not everyone wants to waste their time and energy trying to hit on strangers just because they might be good looking. Lots of dudes prefer to get to know girls in social settings rather than chasing them down the sidewalk in some humiliation ritual.

>>33378518
>chasing

Nigger, it takes 2 seconds in passing to know if a girl is interested in you. Holy shit are you face blind or incapable of making eye contact?

>>33378531
you don't get to have sex or fall in love or whatever within 2 minutes of making eye contact with someone
it's real cool that you can rizz up girls for their phone numbers but then how many of those text conversations are absolute dead ends

loads of guys here would much prefer to only approach girls in a social setting they have a shared interest in, looks aren't everything

>>33378508
they always give me a look that I interpret as not being interested but I still go for it because I’m just THAT dedicated to trying to get a pale white young adult gf.

>>33378540
then explain how blacks have no issue getting a pale white young gf (that has no hobbies)

>>33378540
You don’t think you can tell a lot about a person by how they look?

>>33375733 (OP)
Approaching random girls at the gym and in public doesn't work. You need to cultivate a larger social circle that includes potentially single women. Invite friends to parties, go to church events, etc. People need to circle around each other like dogs before they date, if you approach women in public like that they're either going to be defensive or receptive because they're retarded.

>>33378657
Doesn’t work because all men want pale young white women so they aren’t going to have them in a public party with me there unless they already fucked them.

>>33375894
trvke

>>33378063
So far, I asked one woman walking her dog what breed it was.

>>33379577
You should have asked to breed with her

>>33379721
Great advice thanks.

What kind of workout routine do you think this guy does? Is it largely genetics or can anyone get this physique with the same routine?

>>33375733 (OP)
Absolute menace
God speed, lad

>>33379832
What's menacing about chatting?

>>33378657
This.
Plus the gym is probably the last place where women or anyone want to be approached.

>>33379043
>all men want
idiot

>>33378657
the funny thing is, once you've done everything right on the social side (large circle, meeting new people often, get invited, host, etc.) you eventually feel successful, attractive and confident enough to approach random women in public... and it works

>>33378657
I have an insanely large circle of friends and an active social life but there are simply never women anywhere. I would say I have 12 close friends (our group chat) and around 35~ friends. We have events or parties 1-2 times per week. Almost none of my friends are dating though, and the few that are seldom bring their gf's, and literally never being their gfs' friends, no matter how cool of a party or event it is. None of my hobbies include any women either, ever. So I have to start approaching them somewhere, as simple as that.

>>33375733 (OP)
>You can't stop me.
no but the police can lol

>>33380417
This is true and you can't really fake it. You can try and you might achieve some minor success occasionally but it won't be as consistent compared to when you have the authentic sense of self.

>>33379043
>all men want pale young white women
I'll take a chubby asian girl that can cook any day of the week over generic white girls.

>>33382407
I only find white women attractive too bad they only make up 3% of the planet’s population

>>33375833
Anon is making the right move. Stating his intention to do something, even anonymously makes him more likely to follow through. I, for one, applaud him in his endeavor.

Good shit OP, I commend you for doing what should be normalized for men as approaching potential mates are our natural instinct, yet is shunned nowadays by faggots who would claim that you would be "harassing" or "bothering" them.
I'm actually considering doing the same, except since I'm socially retarded, I'm going to start off small by going to areas that have a large but condensed population (cities, downtowns, events, etc) and just going up to random women and asking them simple shit like directions or if they're holding a drink where they got it from.
I'm just going to focus on approaching and short interaction alone with no real intent on trying to get their digits or whatever. Once I get more comfortable with that, then I'll eventually inch my way into more real conversation and making a move, but making sure I know how/when to safely back off if there's clearly no interest.
Also, it might be a good idea to start off just smiling at random women you find attractive. That way if they return the same genuine smile, it will be a good indication that they're open to chatting with you, then you can go approach them with more confidence.

>>33375909
>those 4
all me
in addition to others
still coming out swinging tho, got a bit of me that's not giving up even though I'm fucking late 30s