>>33380719 (OP)it's very possible, just difficult and you need to get lucky
I had a friend a while ago, had a gf years before i ever did. and this motherfucker was genuinely one of the ugliest guys i've ever met.
but he was funny, kind, loving, and devoted/loyal to their relationship. it's not like he was perfect either, he certainly had issues (alcoholism + doing retarded shit sometimes) and they had rough patches. contrary to popular belief, many women don't just leave upon facing adversity
but you also have to be an interesting person, never met a woman that wants a relationship with a talentless ugly chud with no hobbies/plans/aspirations
there is probably someone for you if you're not boring + ambitionless
(you also shouldn't shoot for anybody that's drop dead gorgeous or anything but i think that's obvious)
tldr: if you go for a chudita and are interesting and caring she'll probably love you forever